Crazy night. Will tell the story a few weeks from now. Or screw it, i'd rather have the guys that were there write it. Time to delegate.
I am crazy. I don't know where i get the energy but it is 2:43 AM and I am going to wake up at 4 for my flight. Messed up. I just finished another great phone coaching session. I got all my damage control stuff in check: Multivitamin, sore throat relief, b12 booster, Motrin, and possibly Dayquil. I am so going to doze off on this flight.
Next logistical fix, part of my wishlist
I want one, we need one, we are getting one (soon!)
This is BOOT CAMP MATERIAL and most likely my biggest article yet So READ UP. This is definitely the meatiest, up to date dissection of my thoughts and feelings towards whatever this is that we're doing. And you're getting this info free of charge care of Charisma Arts.com and yours truly.
Before that: Life updates: I'm headed to DC this weekend to do a boot camp, and when i come back I am scheduled to take a dreadful nursing proficiency exam, then right after the exam take a cab straight to the airport as I am headed to Amsterdam, the Netherlands for a special Euro-Charm School.
I am also going to meet with one of my top students who will assist and help wing throughout the boot camp. Will I use this opportunity to plug the Amsterdam Charm School? Damn right I will. If you're in the Belgium/Holland/Germany Region: Sign up for it. I cannot even begin to describe the mayhem that will occur over there. The combination of me and one of my top students "The German Falcon" is a sight to see and will drop your learning curve a good 80-90%. Matter of fact, he's flying in early to scout logistics for you.
Now, onto business.
To those that do keep up with my blogs on the CA site and my masterlife blog site, you all know that I build heavily on conveyance of personality, developing universal charisma, and killer instinct logistics. That's my way of internalizing and personalizing my game from what I've learned from the Juggler Method and thousands of experiences in the past.
Fact: Can i teach guys 10,000 openers? NO
Matter of fact, I suck at teaching opening verbiage. Thats because I DON'T BELIEVE IN IT. I Don't believe in having the "right words to say"
How do I know that a student has grasped natural game? When 80% of the time the kid can't even remember how he opened after getting the number, the kiss, the date, or even the lay.
Heck, I can't even remember most of mine.
If you understand the simple physiology of what goes on in approaching strangers, you would not give a $#!& about openers and focus more on conveying your personality and finding out hers so the situation can allow the seduction to naturally happen.
Be a charismatic natural, not an approach artist. As a Charisma Artist, you should be able to speak your mind ANYWHERE ANYTIME. THAT is the difference between us and mechanical routine guys. You can throw us to your second cousin's birthday bash, invite us to have dinner at your mom's, or hang with your boss, and we know when to chill, have a good time, talk to people, and have everyone we meet love us, including very attractive women. You don't need sets of verbiages for everything you do, thats ridiculous. Why did I choose Natural Game? I'm 26 years old, and I've got a hundred things to accomplish in life and people to take care of. Most of all, I truly believe that having fun, attractive women is just a byproduct of that lifestyle. I have a hundred role models that I personally know who actually live that lifestyle. It is effortless.
First, lets think MINDSET.
What do I think about when i approach: NOTHING. ZERO. Its pretty hard for guys to embrace the unknown and embrace chaos, but once you do, and you train yourself to do so, you almost reach a zen-like state where you truly are not attached to any specific outcome. You have a moment of clarity; you say exactly what you think in any particular moment. Enjoy being formless, flow with WHAT YOU THINK is a great line for you in the moment. My belief is I would rather have said my honest to goodness thought aloud than have it kept it in the dark and miss an opportunity. That single thought prevents me from missing opportunities.
STOP VISUALIZING -- Approaching SHOULDN'T BE PERFECT. Stop thinking that your initial "line" will automatically cause women to drop their panties for you. Its just ego attachment.
How can you fear something that hasn't happened yet? Or how can you foretell a sure shot success interaction without trying? Got a spirit ball or tarot cards or something?
Point is, eradicate as much thought blockers as possible. If people have a problem with you speaking your mind, its their problem. Its only one person out of a hundred thousand possible interactions. Get over trying to please everyone.
Fact of the matter is, THEY DON'T KNOW YOU, therefore it can't be personal. Go in with again, a clear mind. Your approach can be "crap" in form, but the next ingredient to the mix will certainly override it and turn things to your favor.
Second point: BELIEF:
I don't have amazing lines. I just trained myself to speak my mind and to eliminate any inner turmoil that stops me from saying that. Do I care what people think of me? NO. Do I have fear of outcomes? NO. Do I have tangible success to back up what I say? YES.
If i am formless in execution, then I am hardcore in belief. I truly believe that everything that spouts out of my mouth is interesting, well-thought out, fun, and value-giving. Whether I'm talking about deep life lessons like I always do at Charisma Arts, or mentioning that the coolest hotel doorbell I've ever seen that tripped me out was in Singapore City. Heck, the other day I told a very attractive, successful real estate chick the other day about my damn root canal, and how I had fun watching Bourne Identity while the dentist was scraping away and injecting me with anesthesia. Take note i was calling her while half of my mouth was numb. What happened next? She was offering to meet me in a coffee place nearby because she thought my life was so compelling and interesting. Was it necessarily compelling by content? NO. It was compelling because It was compelling TO ME.
Believing in what you say will naturally project the next ingredient in the mix:
Third point: ENERGY
I'm going to quote Kory with his "go to the extreme philosophy" and add to that. If you don't know your extreme, then you cannot be balanced. Repeat that in your head whenever you think being super chill is how to get girls. Being super chill is cool, but if its the only dimension to you and you do not know how to party, well you get the point.
Does energy mean you have to scream, shout, and be a dancing monkey? Yes and No
No, because energy is just a mere projection of who you are. If you want to attract adventurous, exciting, and sophisticated women to enhance your life, well guess what: There is a f--in trade off: You YOURSELF have to have these amazing qualities. There's no free meal in this world, so work on your lifestyle, purpose and passion and PROJECT IT. Positive energies are attracted to each other.
Yes, in a way that YOU ARE AMUSING YOURSELF. Whatever you think is funny is funny. Do what amuses you. I've said the lamest opening lines ever (that I can't remember obviously, one time I tapped a can to open a chick on day game and called that the "can opener" to the amusement of my students) but BECAUSE I was VISIBLY ENJOYING MYSELF, the energy just overran any logical assumptions the girls had.
So, physically, I suggest that you become a person who is naturally excited about LIFE. F&*^ Downers! Life is Short and You should sleep when you're dead! You should be a guy who is curious and anxious to see what life brings him next. Take more chances and explore life.
SMILE MORE -- Don't be a downer. Life's too short to be too serious.
WORK ON YOUR VOCAL PROJECTION -- Don't be the quiet guy. Quiet guys are weird, and they scare people. Be Loud. Again, using Kory's extreme philosophy to achieve balance, If you are too quiet then I suggest going to a rave and just go all out. Shout, Scream, do what you must so you can find your extreme and THEN tone it down to a balanced level. Now you can calibrate and your game is multi-dimensional.
NUTRITION -- Nuff said. Poor nutrition = downer feeling and general weakness.
What happens when a person gets approached by a stranger?
The first thing that pops into one's head is
"Is this guy really talking to me?"
The reason most of you guys have difficulties getting anywhere past whatever opener you said is that they don't appear committed to the interaction. Girls can pick up subtle cues of commitment on your part and if they can sense that you're only 70% committed, then most likely they WILL hit you with 60% back which is not good. You want to make her feel 100% THAT YOU ARE PRESENT. You are there. You are talking to her.
SUBCONSCIOUSLY REPEAT THE WORDS IN YOUR HEAD
Girl: "Is this guy really talking to me?"
YES I AM!!!!
YES I AM!!!!
Girl: "You sure?"
YES I AM!!!!
This subconscious "push" is what you will equip yourself with when talking to strangers.If you need to scream this affirmation then do so. It is a standard operating procedure in my boot camps and I have a very very low ratio of guys with approach anxiety (think 2/10). If you display presence, girls will respect you, and open up to you. And if they sort of don't open up, its because they're not so sure if you are actually there talking to them. BE SUPER SURE. YES I AM!
There, you are now well-endowed with my philosophies of approaching, and if you string these together with my previous articles, blogs, and what not, and have met me in the field or taken a boot camp or phone coaching from me, you will understand where I'm coming from. Is approaching the end-all and be-all of connecting and seducing women? NO. You will quickly realize that when you think you've learned everything, a new set of problems come right by in front of you.
So, love the chaos. Love the chaos.
Ciao, see you in a few weeks.
This is a question I'm sure most of you have been wanting to be answered.
From one of the forum members back at the CA Forum:
I'd like to see what instructors think of this. there is no way to get better without bootcamps?! i mean. i don't want to hear " a bootcamp will change everything". i already think that. really. but i have absolutely zero chance to get in a bootcamp for at least a year..or two..or maybe ever..people of the third world's country can't count to 1699$ so easy...
what i'd like to know is : do we,the non-bootcamper, have any chance of gettin' better? good? great?...or are we reading the forums. the blogs. hearing the podcast. for...NOTHING?!
i just want a little honesty...altough i realize it's hard thing to do when money are involved. but in a way. that's what JM is about,don't you think?. honesty when smth u want[ money, sex, relationships...] is involved. so maybe some instructor can be true to himself and speak something up.
i'd appreciate greatly.
I've traveled around the globe, spreading this amazing culture of ours, and I've met guys who have read the e-books, listened to the podcasts, and are GREAT in the field.
On the other hand I've met guys who have read ALL the ebooks, material, audio and video, and they are HORRIBLE in the field.
Differentiating Factor: Commitment and Action
Do you need to take a boot camp to take Action? THE ANSWER IS NO. I always tell guys that there is no secret when it comes to interacting with women. Almost everything is out there, for free at that. There are multiple forums, lairs, blogs, articles and what not. The most is what? Invest $30 on an ebook? This is the information age, and almost everything is online.
BUT as all of you know, only 8 to 10% would actually get their butt off the couch, dress up, and socialize infield. Only a handful will actually WORK and put maximum effort. I know the statistics, I used to be a lair president.
And guess what, out of those 8 to 10%, Less than half of that, will actually take things WAY FURTHER.
So now you know the statistics.
I've been to third world countries, a lot actually. And I've seen some really, really good guys. Here's the thing though...
What i also noticed was that it was the guys who were successful at it were also the SAME guys who knew when to invest in themselves
The giant killer, in one of my field reports at the blog. He's 5'0", and was from the Philippines originally, and was a very loyal follower of everything game-related. Not only that but he practiced A LOT and listened to the things i told him back in his country. He fared really well and was one of the intermediate guys there.
Then a twist of fate: He migrated to the states to start a new IT job.
No idea on how to talk to women of another race, nothing. New world out of his comfort zone. That meant a new set of anxieties and fears.
Take note this was a guy who had never gone out of any culture previously. BUT he had the inner workings and mechanisms of a guy with commitment and effort. HE KNEW that it was not enough that he had learned in the Philippines and decided he needed professional advice. More than a year ago he asked for my services and RISKED some of his income which he was gonna invest ANYWAYS. He got the professional feedback, instruction, and guidance from my end. Now, ADD the action part....and voila.
This guy who was so scared of talking to white girls a year ago, gave a Tommy Hilfiger model oral sex in her car. From a cold approach
I'm not urging you to sign up if you have very critical funds, but the lesson is
KNOW WHEN TO INVEST IN YOURSELF
Another shining example of the same work in motion:
My current apprentice turned instructor Timmy, who is featured in the 10-second escalation video, was literally IN DEBT when he signed up for the boot camp. He read the book, he heard the podcasts, had an idea of approaching and interacting, but wanted more. He wanted a professional take on it, and he understood that if investing in this is what it would take, then he would do it.
He was decent, but he didn't quite have an idea on how to take things to a higher level. Up until he saw us in action. From then on he never turned back. He knew it took ACTION. He made sure to go out every chance he took. He took the feedback, learned and went at it again.
Hungry for more, Timmy winged me on every Dallas boot camp after that (without being asked or paid), He showed me his commitment by assisting myself and Wayne over a few seminars, and consistently demonstrated to me his amazing skill in being charismatic and seducer.
Whatever $1300 bucks he spent doing what he did PLUS commitment and hard work, he already has recouped two, three fold. He has traveled with me over a number of boot camps. He has met some of the most amazing women he previously thought he could never even say hello to. He also walked away as a co-instructor I truly respect, and a man with amazingly improved game and overall charisma.
So, the lesson:
Winners run the same mechanisms in their head: They know it takes hard work, action and perseverance to get anywhere in life, and they also know when to invest in themselves and take risks.
Now, I do not know you personally nor do i know the readers of this thread, but i hope you guys can relate to the stories i had mentioned here, and wherever you are at right now financially, boot camp or no boot camp, I urge you to take the mechanisms of a Winner. it will take you a step further.
All the best guys,
God! I love Run and Gun!
Amsterdam, Netherlands...Walking Set Mayhem!
The last time i was sent to Europe, it was nothing less than amazing
1 Lay, 1 club pull, student make out (London)...multiple insta-dates, zero problems with opening. Walking set mayhem!
I would totally do it again, and this event is one of those rare shots to learn Juggler Method in the Holland/Belgium/Germany Region.
Take that shot
Here's what my last Euro-student had to say about the event:
Instructor Rating: Troy 10 (actually 12)
"Troy is THE MAN. He changed my life and my inner game completely. Expert in day and night game. Always supporting and helpful. He even continued doing running guns with us although the period already had ended. Winging with him was a gift. Thanks MAN!"
They say: If the student is ready, the teacher will appear. This was my bootcamp in a nutshell.
Take an ordinary guy like me with low self-confidence, little experience with women but the will to change things. Let this guy get in touch with an amazing instructor like Troy with an unbelievable amount of energy, inspiration and motivation. For me, this was the perfect match.
Not only believed he at the beginning more in me then I did it myself, he pushed me (with Alec words) in baby steps to greatness. I solved all the the tasks and whenether I did, he had the next challenge already prepared.
Getting confronted with situations I thought I could never handle I got more and more calibrated: Talking to strange people in a bookstore or in the streets, direct approach to get a coffee date, opening sets in a bar, dancing with totally strange women, dealing with the manager of a pub and getting a free drink of the manager, getting invited to a private party in a pub, beeing persistent in a group of 15 people shrinking to 5 to get a certain woman, handling AMOGS and steal their women, dancing salsa at Leicester Square with a bride, supporting naturals to get other women, going for the number and the kiss close, running guns and doing the Falcon Block at Leicester Square, winging with Troy.
To sum it all up: Troy and Alec put the best out of me, I always had, but never used. I have no idea who decided to send Troy to my bootcamp but whoether it was, thanks for the best weekend of my life and for changing my life.
Having nearly wasted 1 year of my life with reading pickup stuff in theory, your 3-day bootcamp changed my life. Practice easy things to work on the next challenge is the way to do it. The number of students to instructor is percect. They could work with me on my sticking points. I had so much fun with Troy, Alec and the other participants. At the beginning we were strangers at the end when everybody had to leave, we were like brothers. Thanks Wayne for inventing CA!
Take care the German Falcon is hunting.
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So, life as an international dating coach is pretty daunting sometimes. If you've read my recent lay report from SA, it was easier probably because I've been out of town for so long that it felt like a nostalgic boost walking through the same streets and entering the same clubs that made my career in this field jump start and sky rocket. I had that back up of experience come with me, and my game was like venom once i entered the club.
But for most of the time, I am out of SA. I usually drive or fly out to other cities in Texas, as well as in places like Washington DC (next weekend), then straight up to Europe (in the Netherlands) the week after.
I'll do a mission impossible quote by saying, "we can't have relationships, and I like it that way..."
So, My solution is to have plenty well-established relationships in the cities I eventually visit. I enjoy the fact that I can have women who will take care of me, like pick me up in the airport, take me to dinner, show me a fun time, and eventually give me great sex...as well as the sexual tension that comes from it as i announce to them a few weeks ahead that I'm dropping by.
Now, most guys would love to have this life, and some won't. Most would like one girlfriend who they can build a progressive relationship with and I can respect that.
But, if you're one of those guys who likes to have and maintain multiple girlfriends, then, read up. Here are my big tips:
a) Limit your discussions to the relationship being fun, exciting, unpredictable, and incredibly sexual -- remember the cardinal rule of escalation: changing dynamics keep relationships interesting. Keep it that way in her mind. When she thinks of you, she should be thinking of the aforementioned words. Make sure you highlight your personal stories on these precedents.
b) Don't "allude" to a serious escalation -- just like a boxer, you don't want to telegraph your punches. Don't make her think that the relationship is going to be serious. Don't instill verbiages of "love" and "living in together" unless you are sure of this. I keep my verbiage theme to what i mentioned in a)
c) Turn off ALL judgmental mechanisms -- you don't want to tell stories on how you think so and so is a slut for being with many men, or make any judgments on how certain women look. You don't want her to start thinking she is a slut. If you start judging people with her, then she will subconsciously think "what does he think of me??!" If she starts judging on other girls while you are out, don't agree or disagree, just brush it off. Trust me, you'll thank me later.
d) Appreciate her well -- Remember, she is doing a favor for you by giving you sex without going through a whole lot of stuff. There is nothing wrong with taking her to a nice dinner or something. Make sure you verbally reward, SOI, and reinforce to her how wonderful she is.
e) Give them GREAT SEX -- As some of you know, great sex in itself, will get them hooked...especially if you're one of the few guys they've done it with. I've had girlfriends who, have had boyfriends after me, but will totally drop em dead if I'm in town. We don't have to have a long date, its usually meet, eat, and...well...."eat". Read up on some great sex books out there...learn to be good at dirty talk, as well as setting up the mood. Also have some nice cuddling after. Make the sex memorable.
f) Relationship Maintenance through stories -- You don't have to call every now and then, but you want to keep them involved in your life. Tell stories on the phone (preferably) or on email. This is my favorite maintenance tool. They don't always have to be fun or exciting, most of them actually should be real (like my story i told one of my girls about this root canal i had yesterday)...the more insights she has on your life, the most likely she will be hooked without you even lifting a finger.
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So, I can't stress enough that when it comes to very solid game (i.e. you are expecting some tangible results from the interaction i.e. a relationship or sex) then you have to put particular importance to how you're coming across visually.
90% of people nowadays are visual. With the internet and multimedia age at a boom people are more visually focused on their Television screens, laptop monitors and ads. Most of people's referential system will be based on that.
I'm not saying looks are everything, however communicating certain qualities through your looks counts. Now, you cannot change your face, jaw, height, skin color (maybe surgically) but you can change how your impression is interpreted by women.
For today, I'm not going to go all fashion on you guys, but I will share my basic first impressions tool kit before I go out of my door everyday, meaning its the most basic basic stuff.
SKIN CARE -- I cannot reiterate how far proper skin care can take you a long way. It shows that you are clean, sharp, and kissable. I recommend hydrating with 8-10 glasses of water a day, getting 6-8 hours of sleep, and having a maintenance product. For me, I use Neutrogena's 60-second acne prevention mask. I slap it on there for about 60 seconds, feel the cooling effect, and rinse it off. It leaves my skin soft, clean, and protected from any acne build up. After that i put on Neutrogena for men Moinsturizer (SPF15) to make sure my skin isn't dry, and is protected from the sun's harmful UV rays. I apply this on my face and neck.
If Acne does happen, I found a miracle solution that instantly makes the acne disappear, and it doesn't dry or burn it like the usual acne creams out there. I use Clidamyzin Benza Clyn Topical Gel. It is AMAZING, trust me.
EYES -- I don't know about you guys, but my sleep schedule is usually out of whack, so I make sure I have some Visine Advanced Formula hanging around, as well as some L'oreal Advanced Revita Lift Eye Cream that I apply on my eye bags should they come up. You don't want to look like some super tired guy in front of people, let alone someone who looked like he took a shot of valiums.
TEETH -- I don't have perfect teeth (although I am considering getting invisaline braces next month for my birthday), but for now what i can do is keep them shiny white. I believe the Crest non-alcohol whitening mouthwash is perfect. Its mild, feels good in your mouth, and does create that whitening effect post brushing.
HAIR CARE -- Now, this may heavily vary (as does facial hair stuff), but I have pretty short hair so I use design line whipped wax which is more creamy than solid. But should you grow spikes or what not i do suggest using any of the spiking glue out there. Blow dry stuff out if you want to get the best angles.
BODY MOISTURIZER -- Now, this is also highly overlooked by most guys. You don't want to leave the house looking dry at your neck, elbows, knees and legs, so please use some body lotion.
STANDARD COLOGNE -- Always have your "standard" cologne, and stock it up good. Standard meaning its not just for the night time but for the day as well. My all-time favorite standard cologne is Hugo Boss Men. Its long-lasting and very very noticeable. Some like Aqua Di Gio. Its one of those passive attraction switches that will up your chances more, just like your first impressions in general.
There you have it for now. Before I leave the house I make sure those areas of my looks are taken cared of. I noticed that people did respond better to me versus not taking care of that area as much, and I could pretty much get away with a lot of things because I did project myself as a good looking guy who takes care of himself.
Later boys, keep reading
So I'm on a day 2 meet with this cute chick who apparently owns a bistro/karaoke bar around the city
I roll in with me and my wing. We come in expecting some party atmosphere, only to find out she closed the place out for some private fun time, therefore they were in casual clothes and where a tad bit intimidated as we rolled in. The logistics were, 4 girls, 2 guys
In the juggler method, the ONLY thing you have to really work for, is LOGISTICS, nothing more. Because our method is about vibe and putting your real selves out there as soon as possible.
So we get there, and get a feel for this stuff.
With me and wing man's busy traveling schedule, i can't really go for day 2's and such. There's no time so i have to go for the SNL's (Same Night Lays).
Our usual strategy especially if we have time by our side was to play cool -- one big rule in the way i see things is that you can't "push" an interaction unnaturally. So, we sit down, acclimate, and actually sing our hearts out for about 2 hours. We ordered some food, shared some laughs, and as the night progressed, the comfort level started to really build up. We do kino here and there with all four girls, and we reward those who take risks (like when 2 of them did synchronized dancing, one of them sang even though she didnt sing a lot, or when one girl who hasnt had any alcohol slammed 2 tequila shots)....So again, I NEVER PUSH, BUT i escalate once the windows for escalation (platonic personal--> personal sexual) occurs.
And that window happened to open
So at one point, we all got a lil rowdy, and started talking about sexual topics, so the leader of the group girl takes a mic, and starts dropping sexual stories about her friend..."So, it all started when HBXXX kissed this guy who was so and so's friend (it was funny as hell) that ended up in a blowjob..." The story was pretty sexual, yet I didn't see the other friend's ASD (anti-slut-defense) raise up other than a few reactions (while smiling), meaning she subconsciously wanted us to hear how sexual she could be. =)
So, mutual escalation, the talk about sex started. I think at this point i rewarded that girl 2-3 times, and i communicated to her it's ok that im hearing this stuff, i told her i found it sexy! (SOI again)
NEED to work on logistics....so...1 leaves, and we are down to 3. The other two i wouldve laid off of day 2's but i didnt have time to do any day 2's.
When one HB goes out to smoke, outside the karaoke area, i see the window for isolation, and I follow.
We talk a bit, flirt, tickle each other (whats with this tickling thing?) she touches my man boobs, (SEXUAL SWITCH ON) i start touching HER breasts...wow i like your breasts too...!....what are we doing...this is baaaaaaadd......MAKEOUT....her: omgggg what are we doing...then makeout again
I take her hand and lead her out with me...I open my car door...I jump in the back seat, turn the A/C on....i open the door, she gets in and we close it shut....we continue making out...groping and stuff...she takes of her pants for some fingering...i strip my pants...the whole time it was a whole back and forth of.."what are we doing....this is baad....OMG...what about....this is baad" Got blown 3x, then did the deed in the car...afterwards we talk some more, she has a modelling gig saturday, so im invited. I promise her to deny anything should her friends ask (and boy did they grill us!) and stuck with my word, so yes, she trusts me.
Pre-game mindset: No "buts" tonight. The only "buts" we're getting are
the ones with double-t.
So,Like Manille mentioned, we had walked into a "sidebar" type place.
Earlier in the night we had a few openings none of them really stuck.
The crowd here was mixed and Manille and I we're just enjoying it. I
was drinking my vodka redbulls and manille was drinking his heinikens.
We ran into HBTommy at the bar while we we're ordering drinks. Manille
opened. She was really nice, I didn't even think she was a model.
After Manille's open she just kind of stood there and I knew I had to
--- wait for it... --- rise above.
At this point I wasn't really thinking of gaming her. I just went on
with my conversation. I asked her about her story. It turns out she
was a tommy hilfiger model.
Simoun: So, What do you do?
HBTommy: I'm a model.
Simoun: Oh yeah, like what kind?
HBTommy: For Tommy Hilfiger.
Simoun: Cool. So anyway...
I just completely ignored it. If I thought about her as a model I knew
I would have some pre-judgments about her. So I just continued talking
and connecting with her. The whole time keeping my eye contact. I
talked about how I've been here a few months (in LA). She kept
relating about her pinay friends. I asked her what she was doing right
in the bar area and she said she was hiding. She was wearing this
white dress that sorta looked like she came from a wedding, I guess
she was uncomfortable. Carlo did tease her a bit about that. So I told
her: "What're you doing hiding behind me. I'm like 5' whatever and
you're like what, 8 feet? I'm not gonna be able to help you." She
started laughing seeing that I could make fun of my height and it was
no big deal. (I am the giant killer.. haha) My wingman buys us drinks.
Then some nice music starts playing and I'm feeling it. We start
dancing right at the bar area. Just to give you guys some perspective
on how tall she is, when we were dancing her ass was up to my chest.
lol. that's fucking insane.
She just loved taking pictures. I teased her a bit for being a
camwhore. "You're in front of the camera the whole day, and you still
wanna be in front of it at night? You're funny."
I had to sit up on a chair to level things. I started escalating.
Grabbed her hand and spinned her. Rubbed her ears. Started stroking
her arms. I never broke my eye contact. I was looking at her like a
lion looking at a helpless antelope. (In my case, we're talking
giraffe.) She starts grinding up against me. I just lead sat close and
grabbed her ass. She wanted to take another picture and I told her to
do a crazy one... she goes okay... and I tell her to do one of her
kissing me. We kiss for a bit. She's looking at me like she can't
believe what just happened. She's probably used to guys treating her
like a goddess and I treated her like I knew there was something more
to her than being a model. She was looking at me and I really can't
describe the look in her eye. It was as if I was taller and bigger
than her. lol.
Her friends come along to meet her and they start talking. Deciding to
be socially intelligent, I just introduce myself confidently. I talked
to her friends and ignored her for a bit because she seemed busy
talking with her friend. She grabs me later on for a picture.
I needed to go to the restroom and so did she so I lead her all the
way to the other side of the club. I lead her and she loved it.
Everyone, fucking everyone couldn't believe what was happening.
Everyone was trying to chat her up while I pulled her all the way to
the restroom. We kissed a bit again. I get a break for awhile and I
could all the people looking at me trying to figure out what just
happened. I vibe with Manille and completely ignore the crowd. If I
minded it, I knew pressure would be on me. I don't need that shit. She
goes out the restroom and heads straight for me. We start dancing and
making out in the middle of the dancefloor with about 10 guys watching
me. I just did my normal sexual dancing and was touching her all over,
not being apologetic about it. She was into it and just kept on making
out with me.
We got back to our spot in the bar and we talk again. The whole time I
was running my hands on the side of her body. slipped it inside her
panties for a bit then pulled away. The only word I could use to
describe her was "giggly" All of a sudden, a guy walks up to us and
asks her "So, I heard you're a tommy hilfiger model." She says "yeah."
I just ignore the guy and continue doing my thing. The guy was
standing there for a good 30 seconds just looking. I was kinda waiting
for him to steal her, but hey, if I don't acknowledge you, you don't
The bar was starting to close and I was trying to think of logistics.
(I don't have a car or whatever.) She wants to show me this place down
the road which is like a hotel/bar. We get there and it's starting to
die down too. We just sit outside in the lounge area and I did more
kino. She was telling me she'd really like to go out with me and that
she'd be free after her photo shoot tomorrow. The hotel/bar was
closing as well so we made out a bit more in the restroom (Can you
tell I really like making out, haha) and I tell her to get her car and
bring Manille and me to the parking lot where my wing parked his car.
We drop off manille and I tell her to go right inside the parking
building. I told her to park her car. (Again, leading and commanding).
I was talking about going down on her all night and I delivered it
I hit some ASD about her having this photo shoot tomorrow in the
morning. My experience tells me to pull back. She's apologizing and
stuff so I just say see me sometime. If she wanted to fuck me she
would've already. So I'll just be patient and take my time.
She told me she wanted to see me. I say next week. I get digits and
call it a night.
...and that's how david went up against goliath. despite the odds
against him. despite the laughs of the crowd.