31
October
2007
Its Halloween night boys, and this chick is looking for some Mclovin’
You should be getting make outs and/or getting laid tonight. You have a super high chances of that happening tonight. Tonight, FUN and Escalation is KING!
Lucky for you, I just did a successful bootcamp last weekend (expect the reviews soon), and it was cake walk. Halloween is like a handicap for pick up artists!
Some battle-tested field tested openers we used. Be careful as to use costume -specific openers (cop — arrest me!) early in the night and not overuse it since most guys will use that as the night progresses. You’re better off with these:
1) SO, who are you supposed to be dressed as?
2) SO, who are YOU supposed to be dressed as? (she’s obviously wearing XXX costume)
3) Misinterpret the costume.
4) HEEEEEEEEYYYYY! You guys are cool. *clink glasses*
When she asks you, “what are you wearing?” and you’re NOT wearing a costume.
1) We decided to dress up as straight guys today. Our inner lesbian was REAKING! that’s why we had to talk to you hotties (go straight into kino escalation)
2) Give her the shocked lady church-goer look.
More Battle-tested Stuff:
1) I’ve never kissed a (Vampire/Fairy/Marge Simpson XXX Costume) before – release thread, go into connection, then kiss her later.
2) For women with masks/facial make up – Are you hot under that make up? I HAVE TO KNOW. Oh, I don’t know, I’m not too sure, let me see your legs (let her bring her legs up) – proceed kissing her legs up her thighs. Release tension.
3) As you’re kissing….mmmm….Rainbow Brite I didn’t know you’d be this hot…..mmmmmm….
There you have it. Enjoy, don’t get too drunk, and get the girl. Lay to live!
Troy
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28
October
2007
San Antonio, Texas Charm School
This Weekend, Oct 26-28
Timmy D
2 Students
Pull from the street
Believe the hype boys
Due to heavy training, teaching, swapping experiences and innovating our curriculum under Wayne’s tutelage, I think Timmy and I have come full circle on teaching our boot camps.
We take our business and your business with us very, very seriously.
Simple Example: My number one pet peeve is how much a student understands and retains what they have learned. So on program, we’re not going to show you 100 Open ended questions, 20 SOI’s, 50 I-statements, 4000 Ways to open. You have the ebook, forums, and internet references if you want to be fully-armed with super-verbal-weapons of desire (laughs)
Thing is, if we teach you this on boot camp, we KNOW that you won’t retain ANY of those. Moreover, you will have NO IDEA of how to actually pick up girls. So, one of our favorite terms is “Cut the fat,”
We Cut the Fat. If you’re focusing on your verbiage, then there’s something really wrong with your game. If you’re writing 100 things on your notepad, then you’re probably going to be a clueless bloke in the field.
Fact of the matter is, we think it’s a fallacy that you can just simply talk your way to a woman’s pants. It’s utterly absurd and ridiculous. Scrap that idea if you’re thinking it’ll work.
So what do we do? We integrate full on, natural dynamics. But we show you and help you understand the dynamics of handling interactions…funny thing is, most of them don’t require a lot of talking.
Meaning we can take a student on a Friday, and by Sunday, he has learned simple, no-nonsense concepts and dynamics of how this stuff happens, coupled by a NEW REFERENTIAL SYSTEM — massive field experience, and a SOLID GAMEPLAN for how he should tackle the rest of the details after the boot camp.
We give you that golden benefit.
Unfortunately, this type of boot camp isn’t for everybody, which is probably why I have huge respect for anyone who goes and signs up. It will be exhausting, it will challenge your beliefs, your old referential systems, and ultimately you will be at a mental battle between your old self, and this new identity. Heck, you’ll probably get a taste of me or Timmy yelling at you.
I sincerely think that our stuff selectively weeds out the weak of heart. So for you to be our student, you have to be WARRIORS. Warriors, in mind, body, and spirit.
So, bottom line, Are you that guy?
Are you sick and tired of platonic relationships?
Are you sick and tired of e-books and thousands of referential material that confuses you?
Are you sick and tired of not having a CLEAR CUT IDEA of how this is done.?
If that person is you, and you are willing to WORK and have F-U-N. We welcome you and we’d love to guide you in this personal transformation.
Timmy D’s Schedule –
November 2-4 — Dallas, Texas
November 9-11 — Chicago, Illinois w/ Rob and Joe
November 30-Dec 2 — Miami, Florida
Troy’s Schedule:
November 2-4 — Denver, CO
November 30-Dec 2 — San Antonio, Texas
Open Private Instruction Slots — FULL
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25
October
2007
Why am i up at 5 am?
Boot camp excitement? I don’t fucking know.
But I’m writing this article to calm me down.
People always ask me, what are those qualities that make me successful in the field as an Asian Male.
Let me back track
Back when i was 13,14. I’d always hang out with my 6′4″, super huge, super cool half german, half flip cousin over the Summer. He started early, and was having girls in his house almost every day. By 16 he was driving a 79 Corvette, and was an uprising star in the street and breakdancing world. In other words, he was amazing.
He would always introduce me to girls, or since i was his cousin, all these young hotties would come over and go “Hey, who’s the guy you’re with?” And he’d be “That’s my cousin Troy” with a proud tone. And, in my super FOB-ish reply, i simply wave and throw that nervous smile. Nope, no words were said.
Ever since that event I told myself that would never happen again. As early as 16 I told myself my weak, FOB-ish self would never be!
So, if you’re in the same position I was in, or you can relate to this story here were the major transformations that occured.
a) Voice and Tonality adjustments — I progressively learned to be louder, and not be ashamed to speak my mind. I knew the importance of this that my goal for 3 years was to get into the motivational speaking circuit. Every week for 3 years, I spoke loud, powerful, and passionate. I could control a room filled with 5,6,7,30, or 100 people. I learned to inflect words, and to adjust my pacing, and to show different emotions with my voice. I was no 6 foot frat dude, but I could sure sound like one. If you’re the shy, timid type. Its time to look into this. Remember, Asian guys usually are not packed with testosterone, so you need to stimulate it one way or the other. Part of that is being loud.
b) Asserting my Will - This is key. I learned to adopt the mindset of “I am utterly deserving” so I learned easily not to take no for an answer. This is great start up training for someone who lacks persuasiveness and influence skills. When you assert yourself, your eye contact, your no-flinching, your utter dominance is projected, and it will be very very hard to dissolve it. My suggestion is learn from mixed martial artists or street fighting systems. They will teach you how to control your mind, not get intimidated, and assert your will over your opponent. Skill set wise, train your killer instinct. Be a closer, and don’t leave anything to chance. Its simple. “Whoever takes the prize, wins.”
c) Being an amazing storyteller — Something I innately developed over high school. For a good 2,3 years in junior high, I was THE storyteller. Every recess or lunch break would be a MASSIVE unloading of my life stories, whether my friends listened or not. Topics? ANYTHING. Through talking about anything with the same formula, I was able to filter certain points of the story that people listened on, and what points were delivered poorly or strongly. Through consistently adjusting and readjusting that, I was able to get more and more people interested in what i had to say.
d) First Impressions — I certainly care about style and grooming (although I am worried now that i’ll look like shit in a few hours), and so for hours and hours a day I would look at how i could improve my first impressions. Simple strategy — look at the successful guys in the bar/club, the ones with the girls, and see how they dress. Check out your body type, skin tone, culture, and contrast that to guys in the same model who are extremely stylish. Sometimes i go to club websites with pictures so i can see what these guys are wearing. One great tip, go to Bartabz.com Thats it for now homies. Gnight
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23
October
2007
You heard it right, it seems like this is where things are headed.
This could possibly be my last comprehensive Charm School boot camp for ‘07. I’ve been working the seminar scene like a beast for the past year, and just like last summer, I’m ready to chillax and enjoy the Christmas season with friends and family like most of you guys.
This will be your chance at our extensive training program taught by myself that is focused on a) creating an iron-clad mindset and an infectious positive vibe b) understanding micro and macro-level dynamics in interactions, and c) teaching you natural interaction skills and progressive escalation. If you are looking for these things without too much clutter in your brain, then you’ve come to the right school of thought.
And if I’m right, and don’t take my word for it, Wayne “Juggler” Elise himself might make a possible cameo appearance, I wouldn’t miss his golden words of knowledge either and the opportunity to ask him questions.
So do what it takes. Shift your schedule. MAKE the time.
If you’ve got the desire to do whatever it takes to get this handled, and the will to work on this together, sign up now while it’s still hot in your mind and use our combined years of teaching experience to get you exactly to where you want to be.
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18
October
2007
The game is 90% Logistics
I’m sure you know by this time that the guys who have more windows of opportunity, and eventually get more girls, have the best logistics. That’s the difference between a newbie and a pro. While the newbie is still rolling through clubs doing approach after approach, the pro is already planning how many women he’ll be having sex with that night after a nonchalant drink at the bar. He knows who to call, what conversational tangent to come in with, and more importantly HOW it will REALISTICALLY HAPPEN. Feels good to be a natural eh?
Okay, let’s talk women:
Women hate one thing — accountability
They don’t want to be responsible for their actions. If one thing leads to another, they want to be able to tell their friends that “things just happened”
What makes this possible?
Great Logistics
So,for this month till November, all phone consultations will offer a special logistics planning segment for you. This’ll probably be the best-spent hundred bucks of your life
We quickly and systematically go through time management, micro logistical planning in-set and macro logistical planning. We plan your smooth transition from your interactions to closing solidly and resume the interaction with smooth day 2 and 3 escalations, as well as sneaky one night stand planning to make it happen.
Wherever you are, college student, entrepreneur, professional, or an old dog who needs new tricks, this is for YOU. I’ve been through all these phases of life, and I can’t wait to unload the stuff i’ve learned from experience, as well as what various successful naturals do to close with little effort.
Whether you live alone, or with your parents, or miles away from the downtown nightlife, we’ll create an individualized game plan to funnel in lots and lots of women, so you won’t have to keep practicing alone, or do return 20 phone calls until one hits. We will make your transitions smooth as silk. I love this military quote that says “Amateurs focus on tactics, techniques and strategies, the pro’s focus on planning logistics” Think of me as your 4-star general with the war blueprint.
So, what’s on the docket?
1) You will learn how to plan logistics IN SET by using my favorite conveyance and foreshadowing tools as well as asking the right questions for the solid close
2) We create a macro-level logistics plan, depending on your location, lifestyle, special talents, etc. We plan out your day 2’s, day 3’s, and one night stand logistics realistically so the transition will be super smooth
3) I will teach you time-management techniques to create a PIPELINE of women, and how those women can be windows of opportunity for you to meet more women.
Jump on it while you can. Stuff this good won’t last for long. The order link is here:
CLICK HERE TO ORDER THIS SPECIAL PHONE COACHING OFFER
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17
October
2007
This’ll be good. See you there. Dallas has always been one of my favorite cities to do a boot camp.
It’s a bit impromptu but we had a client sign up for it, which means we’re down to ONE SLOT LEFT. Take the opportunity and I guarantee we’ll have a ball over at D-Town.
All the best
Troy
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16
October
2007
This is probably one of my favorite topics. I think that general charisma is something that allows people to be magnetized around you. I believe that through charisma, the natural desires of being wanted or being important in this world are validated between two people. I’ve enjoyed wielding this natural ability that has drawn people, resources, and other blessings to me.
At the end of the day though, this is also about getting the girl. I have had people go through the seminar saying “my goal is to be generally good with people.” Quite understandable if you have been socially awkward or have no exposure whatsoever to people. But for most of the guys who pass through my house, they are pretty normal guys who just had little or no idea of how to convey themselves in an interaction. Bottom line, they came here to get the girl. You are reading this because you want to get the girl you want.
I will smash this stereotype right now. WITHOUT escalation, you will not get the girl. “Being yourself,” and being likeable is great, but the bottom line is that if you do not know the key foundations of escalation, you will not be a great womanizer. Expect nice chats and dry spells over the next few months. But have no fear, I wrote this article just for you guys. Here it is, in all its glory. The HOW TO of sexual escalation, Juggler-style.
Transitioning:
There is NO transition when you escalate
REAL CONFIDENCE comes from the ability to transition AT WILL. We teach guys to be BOLD. So, you need to be bold all the way, from open to close. You have to want to change the dynamics of the interaction or relationship to keep things going.
If you go to Wayne’s seminars you’ll keep hearing about the snow globe theory. Like a snow-globe, it is your job to shake it. It is your job to rattle the cage and keep things interesting.
You will never know how quick things can escalate until you try. There is no set time, or warning signal for that to happen.
Mindset:
Personally, the first goal of mine was to totally rid my mind of blockers that will make me think that suggesting sexual things within the first five to seven minutes of the conversation is taboo. I know, it’s a huge mental barrier for most guys. You must be willing to change state at any time. You don’t need to endlessly talk as if it were a chess game to get the girl. Just change your state drastically on every high point.
Just remember that escalation on high points is not a skill set to manipulate a result. It is merely a way to help her fulfill her natural, default desire to be in that place. You must hammer in your head that being sexual is about you and her enjoying each other. Nothing is lost, and no one is being used. It is a win-win situation.
GET RID OF THE INCONGRUENCY GUYS. Most of you can’t SOI because it feels incongruent. Well that’s only because of your old programming. Keep doing what I tell you next and maybe within the next few days or weeks of interacting you’ll get your paradigm shift, like most of the students who pass through our doors.
3 Tools of the Trade:
If I want to suggest something sexual, I would either
Suggesting it
Or
Allow HER to suggest it
Or
SOI
I. Suggesting it:
Let’s say these words ALOUD:
Lingerie
Soothe
Massage
Kiss
Caress
Hold
Grab
Fondle
Make out
SEX
It’s ok to say these things. The act of talking about sex candidly tells a lot about your value as a masculine man. If you do this, then you must be a man who seduces multiple women. BE OKAY WITH IT. You must be a guy who is allergic, I mean REALLY allergic to platonic relationships. Don’t be comfortable with staying in that place. Imagine shackles and chains on you. Sexual escalation is taught now to free you from those bounds. Never again will women you are attracted to see you as just “a friend.” You will risk it. Face it; if a girl isn’t okay with that, trust me, there are hundreds out there more than willing.
II. Allow her to suggest it:
When I was doing Charm School in Washington, DC I demonstrated in front of a student the power of allowing her to get sexual. We were in a mall and within minutes of talking to a sales girl she was begging for my number. I reeled the student in 2 minutes in so he could overhear that we were talking about sexual fantasies and getting physical and what not. Right then and there she knew that she had to get my number.
Here’s an example of a no-transition from a real conversation, the transition to sex talk happened in less than five, six minutes:
Troy – if you could do anything and nothing would stop you, what would you do in the next 2 hours?
HB – I’d hit on an intelligent, good-looking guy (*smirk)
Troy – I’ve been hit on by my cousin’s friends before. If you could hit on me how would you do it in your own unique way? (Then allow her to play-act the part – this is powerful)
HB – well first, I’d bump into him nonchalantly, like this…. (Nudge)…
Now I know the direction of this is sexual. I can tell of numerous times where I had opened a girl platonically and they automatically mentioned sex was the topic of conversation. Be non-judgmental (using the mindset I suggested beforehand), don’t cut her off, enjoy her response, and allow the natural sexual progression of the interaction.
III. Statement of Intent, or SOI
The great thing about SOIs is that they can put you in a frame where the girl and you are talking about the two of you having sex. She cannot do this without imagining having sex with you. You have to plant the seed.
“A good SOI is really a sensually painted picture of the two of you doing pleasurable physical things to each other.” – Wayne
I for one am one of those guys who SOI’s sexually. For structure, use the words from the first part, “mentioning it”
“We should go play poker at the house and whoever loses has to give a soothing back rub…I’ll buy the cards you buy the lotion…”
There, you have stated your sexual intent. Say goodbye to the bounding chains of platonic relationships and welcome to your sexual freedom as a man. On a good note, even if she turns doesn’t address the situation, turns it down, or doesn’t react the way you expected her to be, she will still have a vision of what you are talking about. On the longer term this is a very, very good thing. You don’t waste any of your precious time.
Assume attraction; assume that she is coming home with you. SOI her, and when nothing is being said , it means she has accepted your sexual intent and the rest is all about logistical planning to make it happen for both of you. Now for sex, all you have to do is repeatedly SOI until you hit the bedroom.
Repeat to yourself, THERE IS NO TRANSITION. The juggler method is not a step by step process, neither is it a bunch of tools to manipulate the situation, the juggler method is a place, a place where the default desire of humans to be sexual is mutually achieved between a man and a woman.
These are our pillars of escalation. USE IT. And I guarantee you life will never be the same and you will feel free from the shackles and chains of platonic relationships. It’s ultimately your choice.
Kudos in advance,
Troy
Troy@charismaarts.com
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15
October
2007
Its still a development in progress, but yeah. Sooner or later i’ll be crashing in your neck of the woods, wherever in the world you may be. I will soon be designated to travel around the US to preach the CA gospel to people who have little or no idea on what we’re about. I did one in the Asia-Pacific Region last Summer while on holiday, and this is a review from one of the participants who attended. READ UP.
I got to meet one of my mentors from the states as he is visiting here to run a seminar on pickup and seduction - Troy. I was excited coz this I knew this guy was good.
I was wrong.
After taking the seminar and watching him game, I realized, this guy isn’t “good” - He’s hella BETTER THAN GOOD! I got to tell you, this guy is even BETTER than he says he is. He is the FUCKING REAL DEAL! He EXCEEDED my high expectations!
If you think that *I’m* good? This guy is 100 times better than me and probably 20x better than the best of Manila Lair combined!
I’m still recovering from the shock of it all. Anyway, here’s what happened:
When I first got in the seminar, I was late, took a look at his 5′5″ height medium build wearing a shirt and jeans, he didnt look like a pimp AT ALL! Just a normal guy.
Then he does the seminar… I was impressed how he makes everything simple. His whole system is fucking simple but it makes perfect sense. If your new at this, you dont have to go through a whole fucking checklist of techniques or mechanical abberations to game. He basically narrows it down to “vibe and logistics.”
Ok…we take a break mid seminar (this is friday). I introduce myself to troy. Cool motherfucker. No guru vibe when he isnt teaching.
Now the awesome part - troy sees a 3-set and tells one of the guys to do what he just taught us. The guy hesitates for a second then troy pulls him out and approaches this 3 set in front of all 30 of us watching from across the hall.
Before you know it - they are laughing and shit… a few minutes later, he is isolated with the target as the 2 friends leave. As I saw it, she was doing most of the talking and “trying to make a good impression” with troy. I saw him do EXACLTLY what he just taught in the classroom.
They probably talked for 20-25 mintues, like they knew each other, chick giving classic IOIs, then he number closes.
I listened more intently at the second half of the seminar after that.
Night game:
I arrive late to the club. Its at timog. Decades type club (Clubbers guide). I go in, he is just dancing with a 2 set along with his wingman. Nothing much to see. No sexual kino escalation. Just normal dancing and some talking. I chill with the boyz for a bit.
I go in again, next thing I know he is dancing with another chick, then after a cpl of minutes - makeout… A lair guys go to me and says - “I just introduced him to her 5 minutes ago.”
Troy pulls her upstairs to makeout somemore but chooses not to lay her as they had errands in the morning. He could have layed her. I have seen and done enough pulls (however spastic they are) to know when its do-able.
Saturday seminar was more informative than friday for me. He solves the approaching from a distance dilemna which is big for me! He also teaches some dance game which I badly badly need.
Saturday night:
He goes embassy. I follow and look for him. He and his wing is in a two set. Talk talk, picture, then they decide to go to Jaipur. They leave the 2-set, look back, point at them, and wave them over to go outside with them to go to Jaipur. They followed.
It was a fucking 5 minute pull!
The girls I think decided not to go pay entrance in Jaipur as I didnt see them in. Troy and his wing went in anyway.
I enter Jaipur, look for Troy again as he doesnt really hang to chill with the boyz at all, and he is in set. Just dance game with a 3 set. He gets bored with them as I see it, then goes over to a chick doing some breakdance-ish moves, and kinda matches her ala dancoff. This goes on for a while. In the meantime, his wingman is dancing with a chick and she has her arms around him, based from experience and watching it happen, they are about to makeout and reach the “indicator of pull” zone. All this wiithin the first 45-1 hour in the club.
This was sorta a replay from last night and I had only an hour of sleep the night before. I decided to go. I know at least one of them will get an FR+ / makeout as it follows the same thing that happened the night before.
This guy is the fucking REAL DEAL man! From what I seen, I think he can pull or FR+ 6-10 times he goes out. And the other 4 times he doesnt, he will get a solid number and get a day 2 with three of them.
Whats nice about his system also, it seems that it can work for any personality type. You dont have to be high energy to run game. His wing was low energy, and he got play both nights they went out (I assume he got play as they were slow dancing when I left).
You could think - “Its becoz troy and his wing has such tight inner game that he can do this.”
Sure they do, but I found out at the second day of the seminar, that its duplicable and it works!
- 2 students made out with chicks the night after the first class.
- 1 student madeout with 3 chicks - one for at dinner time and 2 at the club. They were sisters. Toungue down to the left… turn to the other sister and tounguedown to the right.
- 1 student got laid.
I asked them one by one what they did and how they did it, they essentially said they just did exactly what troy taught that afternoon.
I am still shaking my head just thinking about it…
(Just so you guys should know, I do not get anything by “promoting” this guy’s pickup instruction gig. This is what I saw and what I feel I need to document as I sense this “event” might be the start of me finally breaking through to cold approach mastery.)
This guy is the master of Yoda.
Sai
So, what do YOU HAVE TO DO, to get myself in your town?
a) Start a support group or email list. Get a group together who want to learn this. We are also in the process of making a page on the CA site wherein you can get more details. If you are curious and what to know what Charisma Arts is all about, and how we can teach you high level interactions, then time to gather people!
b) COMMUNICATE - email rob at rob@charismaarts.com or info@charismaarts.com If you can facilitate a talk usually on a Sunday. Let us know about attendance, specifics, and what not. Together, we’ll work towards it. If you’re in a lair and want us booked for your next weekend event, email us.
And as always you can email me at Troy@charismaarts.com
Ciao For Now
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14
October
2007
The wait is over
This is 100% answers from your emails, guys.
Troy
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13
October
2007
The Art of Sexy Dancing. =)
I am a big fan of dancing, and I’m tired of standard spin moves. Every time i go to the club some guy is doing it and its lost its luster. Time to step it up. Time to stand out from the rest.
So, I’m currently learning tons and tons of sexy salsa moves from Alex “Mr Smooth” Da Silva
The man probably sleeps with every one of his dance partners. His moves are just too spicy.
Send this mofo to dancing with the stars!!
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