As some of you know, I'm fully booked with work all the way through June. I've got some Charm Schools on the schedule as well as Private Instruction...but THIS ONE, is a can't miss.
Its going to be my first time in New Orleans, and I'm going to have the privilege of having one of our soon-to-be-superstars, Racetrack, running Charm School with me. Also know that this is the first Charm School out of the Alumni Weekend, so whatever new stuff we conjure up during the "gathering of gatherings" in Las Vegas will be introduced or applied to this boot camp.
Its mardi gras all over again...
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Time really flies by, it wasn't so long ago that I was mentoring Tim and we ended up doing a program in Mexico. Yes, we were both Asian and did not know how to speak Spanish, but what the heck, they loved us. I was running through some old video and decided to make a mini-compilation of that experience. Enjoy
A potentiated insta-date. Day game can be real fun. Thanks to you guys who are continuously asking for content over here i've decided to write one tonight. This will be part of a series so just hang tight and enjoy.
A – Stands for attention. In certain parts of the world I’ve done day game, there are some actual chill places where people really have nothing on the docket and are just relaxing. But for some parts of North America, most people are on the go. People have programs running in their head – errands, bills, relationships, paid vacations, and what not. I’m pretty guilty of this as well. Even when I’m chillin’ I’m still on the go. Thus, it will be very hard to get my attention. Actually, there was only one bum who ever really caught me in San Francisco. And he did so cleverly.
I remember I was in the Marina in San Fran enjoying my day with a friend. We ran through a bunch of bums asking for money in pretty lame ways. This was until we got near the Pier. This guy, out of nowhere said “Hey, you! That’s illegal!”
The guy looked dead serious… And paused…didn’t say a thing
I looked like “what? What?” – he definitely got my attention by this time. Something no previous bum ever did.
He then goes – “Do you know…..that it’s illegal….”
I’m like “????”
“Do you know it’s illegal to be looking good in San Francisco?” Me and my friend start cracking up, candid camera style.
BOOM. He got me. It was clever enough that he deserved that dollar.
Point is, you have to get their attention, or your open can be defeated by that running program in their head. So, my suggestion is approach with a “hey” or “hi”…hold eye contact up until they look at you. Pause. Once you’ve gained their full attention, you can now deliver your conversation starter. It is important to break the program. Try having a buddy of yours role play by concentrating on a book, and you opening abruptly. 9 times out of 10 they can’t even hear what you’re saying and you will have to repeat yourself. It’s best to avoid that situation using the aforementioned opening delivery. Now, this is applicable to women who aren’t looking your way, i.e. they’re browsing the shelves or doing their groceries. The program is even stronger on walking sets, but that’s another story.
One pitfall I’ve seen guys do is keeping the conversation topic-based, usually because of focusing their conversation on the item that they used to open with. I call this the distractor. If I’m opening using a flopsy, focus, or a spontaneous opener, the presence of the distractor (i.e. the book, the spaghetti box) can impede my escalation. So what I do is I grab the distractor, by saying “that’s an interesting book, lemme see that…what’s it about…” then I close it, lower my hand carrying it, and ramp up to a personal conversation. If you can relate to this, you know what I’m talking about. Another alternative is introducing a distractor of your own (I always carry a book I’m an authority on when I’m in a bookstore). Even though the book can potentially create a topic based convo, it is something that matters to YOU and is a good leeway to escalating personally.
Alright boys, hope that helped. The next article will be about personal escalation. Anyhoo I am leaving the country next week and will be coming home to lovely Philippines. If you're reading this and will meet me there. You know who you are. Every day will pretty much look like this:
Hasta, and sign up on the Austin boot camp when i get back! You won't regret it.
Sometimes, when you've been teaching heavily simplified concepts day in and day out, and you've churned some of your best articles that kinda "says what needs to be said," Its kinda hard to drum up new articles and find new inspirations.
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Life got hectic for a minute. So, i'd like you guys, the readers, to help me out.
One thing I've failed to recognize in this writer's block, is the fact that more and more new people are discovering the blog and/or are new to Charisma Arts and myself. I also discounted the fact that there are different developmental levels to write articles on.
Anyways, you guys have been viewing this site tremendously since its humble beginnings last year. All of you who have made 22 thousand views possible. I'm no internet analytics guy, but that makes me happy knowing you appreciate the stuff over here.
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