I've had a breakthrough thought recently.
As I head for my long vacation, I’ve spent the last few hours looking into the huge gains I’ve amassed through my businesses; one in particular, is my coaching job in Charisma Arts.
I love trends. I analyze them well, and I always reach very good conclusions and make the right decisions for my coaching job. I was a bit hesitant to share this information online, but heck this is for everybody to know.
This is not a marketing pitch. But with thirty thousand viewers at this point, I’d rather put on paper because this is EXACTLY what I tell every guy that gets in touch with me. This is ONE HUNDRED PERCENT FACT, straight from my business analysis and planning table to you.
I’ve had dozens of guys FLY from around the country, and FLY ME to see me work with them. Just this month alone I completed a total of TEN PRIVATE COACHING SESSIONS, which sets a statement to the insatiable demand for such a program.
One thing that struck me was the ABSOLUTE SUCCESS RATE OF THE COACHING over a short, medium, and long term learning curve, as well as the CUSTOMIZATION of the sessions to fit the individual.
It also hit me that there were certain niches of the market, that I’ve consistently seen signing up.
TOP GUN goes to -
- Guys who are just starting up and are in need of a rock solid foundation. Guys who don’t want to go through the painful process of reading through e-books, audio books and seminars only to get more confused. They just want a simplistic system to follow that is clear, concise, and effective to start with. And since I do teach everything, it’s a good reason to sign up.
NUMBER TWO GOES TO
- Charisma Arts Alumni. Our beloved graduates who are either somewhat good or are getting consistently good with women. Guys who have achieved a certain success rate with women, but need a system for consistency, or like said previously, a sharper game plan. I also love this niche because I can customize things and spot things that these guys probably didn’t see in the past. Always a pleasure working with Alumni. I suggest this if you’ve hit a plateau in your learning curve and want more out of your practice. If you have game, then expect to increase your averages drastically. I don’t teach things labeled “advanced.” I customize heavily.
NUMBER THREE GOES TO
My Asian Brothers out there who are on their quest to “improve the race” (lol, its an old family term). Look, they just don’t know. When I entered Charisma Arts I was the shortest guy out of all of them (at 5’7”). I had to adapt a lot of things into the system when I did realize that a huge percent of our clientele were young to mid-age Asian males who had the usual symptoms of weak Asian game: INVISIBLE and EXPRESSIONLESS. It’s easy to say things if you’ve got a six-foot-four commanding presence, but if you’re 5’2” and you’ve got the common issues most Asian students initially have in the field. No dice for you. I love working with guys in this category because I can totally relate to their issues and vice versa? No question you will get better.
Private Coaching -- Why Private Coaching?
You will hear a resounding conclusion on whether or not it’s recommended.
Most of my alumni mention that it depends. They’ll tell you that I don’t play around.
If it’s been 6 months to a year and a half and you still have no idea what the fuck you’re doing, you should be pissed off. Heck, I would be banging my head over this. Look, stop kidding yourself. You know for a fact that changes have to be made. Do you know what they are, or do you think you know what they are? Give me a weekend and a two-month learning curve program for you and I guarantee results.
My coaching may have been part of the success vehicle for these results, but more importantly, it was also the incredible drive to succeed that brought my students to me.
It’s the immense thirst for success. This is NOT a novelty coaching session.
About 98% of my business is based on guys who are totally driven and are willing to make sacrifices doing so. Not to take away from other clients, but sadly our industry has become so unregulated that we have clients who are merely treating this as a novelty.
The costs and work associated with private coaching changes that.
Think about the costs of private coaching
$1500 a day + Airfare for myself + boarding and lodging for myself.
That’s close to a $3,000-$4,000.00 weekend if you ask me.
Honestly? I think we should get paid more. I believe that might happen sometime soon.
Think about it. When you got that much laying down the line, I can tell that you’re not just mister-geek-behind-the-computer “trying out” shit. When you sign up for this, you know its game time and there’s no turning back. Now I know I can work with you and success is not an IF but a WHEN question.
Is this bigger than pick up? YES
Sometimes you’ll hear me speak some Zen stuff. Sometimes I drop golden quotes on habits and training. But when it comes to the meat of the session, this stuff is so simple that there should be ZERO HOMEWORK FOR SKILL SETS once you learn this. Meaning, you can use these tools to charismatically attract everything around you – friends, business, family, and financial wealth. There should be no reason on why you should stay away from discussing these at forums when you should be out there practicing on everybody!
Moving on, let’s look at this word that kept striking me for the past year or so. Credibility
Is credibility important when it comes to social interactions? Can it be more important than the mere tools to use? YES
I will give you the tools, customize your lifestyle and how you come across to create incredible credibility and rarely get denied from there on. I was once asked by a very successful client lately on the subject of how people always test you. Is it a vibe test? Is it a credibility test? My Answer: It’s an EVERYTHING TEST. But you don’t have to reactively deal with that. Private coaching helps you passively deal with tests given by your peers, business associates, and the women you meet because I work on the person, not just the idea of teaching social tools.
I hate outlines, but I just thought of sharing one that I made a few weeks ago.
- How to meet women everywhere. You will understand the simple dynamics on how to set up an amazing weekly dating cycle by meeting women the right way. We will teach you how to approach fluidly and create a favorable first impression that lasts.
- WHAT to say to a woman, WHY you say it, and HOW you say it.
- What key mindsets to have and what mindsets to avoid.
- What is vibe about and how it can convey a hundred positive things about you in a snap. (re: Credibility)
- How to transition easily into meaningful conversations with women
- How to convey a vibe that puts you out of the friend’s zone for good.
- How to work the night club scene and similar social scenarios such as parties and events to your advantage.
- What rapport is, WHEN to use it and WHEN NOT to use it.
- You will learn how to have tight follow-up game. We teach you WHEN to reach her and what tools to use when dialing up multiple scores of women. Increase your averages and eliminate flakes with this portion of the boot camp.
- How to meet women in broad daylight – in the gym, the supermarket, bookstores, the daily commute, and at school. We also teach you how to stop women walking around and get their numbers or insta-date them.
- “It’s not you, it’s not her, it’s the logistics” -- How to set a fool-proof logistics game plan and get the girl into bed, whether it’s hers or yours.
- How to naturally have a fun and playful chat with women to put them at ease.
Bottom-line is, I love my job. I love the changes that go on and the success that the people around me are getting. I extend my invitation to those who would like to see what it’s all about.
I am looking forward to working with you all when I get back from my vacation.
2nd HALF OF JULY – 18-20 Weekend is in CANCUN MEXICO!, and the 25-27 Weekend is STILL OPEN FOR STUDENTS. First Half is FULL. Call for weekday bookings or Thursday night game camps in San Antonio, Tx.
AUGUST IS FULLY OPEN FOR STUDENTS.
Book any of these dates and Immediately sign up for the program HERE
Reach out to me: Troy@charismaarts.com to set up a free consultation over email or the phone.
Oooookay. So its day game time. I remember our new slogan on the Charisma Arts site, and it said "We can do day game." I certainly agree.
So this is an up to date log on SGSparrow's training here in beautiful Toronto Canada.
After our 2 hour briefing on day game it was time to hit the mall. Again, it was time for warm up. Little did we know that he was gonna approach an Italian 10 and have a really long and awesome interaction along the way (like, she didn't want him to leave).
So, after demonstrating to him an instadate with a CEO (hehe) and leaving his ass, our homeboy was motivated.
1st approach, was this beautiful Eurochick sitting at the bench. As we were practicing skill sets, i merely asked him to do a seated approach with the proper body physiology. And he did! Actually he was nervous at first, giving me that wormy i want to shit in my pants stare. But eitherway, he did it.
Honestly he does not remember how he opened her, but I can assure you it was something low key like "hi"
With the proper entrance, he was money, up until his "pragmatic dance" was way off. He did engage well, but he didn't shift correctly, so In Super-instructor fashion, I used my ninja skills to pull him back, while saying "lean back." Do not try this in the field. For I can dissapppear quickly and undetected. (Read the other reviews)
As you can see here, better positioning with the girl moving in forward\
Same thing, Sparrow dropped his 2 cents, 3 cents, did some light fun stuff. She told him how she wanted to learn italian, and he said "its all about the accents...and started transforming into an Indian man..." Girl laughs and keeps mentioning "you're funny!" At this point she gets really into expressing herself, interaction lasting a good 20 minutes. Sparrow actually tried leaving twice but she wouldn't shut up.
Here she is enjoying such a fun time with Sparrow
"Well, I have to go get lost in this town, hope he shows up..." She tells him she's gonna bitch on him on the phone (apparently she was waiting for a dooooschbag date) and so sparrow solidly closes this one and with tight foreshadows it was a lock. Even as he leaves she continues and tries to engage, but sorry, we have to prepare for night game. Toronto Private Coaching
Warm up #1 - picked up a CEO
Warm up #2 - picked up an Italian 10 for day game
Sparrow 2 -- Worms -- 0
Don't ask about the Bird Analogy, his name is not Sparrow. Check the forums.
I'm supposed to be sleeping right now, but unbelievably i ended up chatting with two people who monumentally changed my life. It was because of them that I actually made those decisions which altered my life forever.
One, was a very good friend in high school, who i spent a full 2 hours crackin up with on how stupid and chumpy we were in high school. Yes I was chumpy once. And the memories were fun to remember, but were tough to live out back then. It was because of that chumpiness that made me decide to change when i hit Uni. It was a major step that started the spark.
And next, was my "first love" ex of 2 years (lost the v card) who broke my heart and started my player rampage at 19 years old. Until now as we chat on facebook, we still reminisce on everything. Although we never lasted as much as we wanted we both admitted that the sex was definitely priceless (especially the ones in public places like the library) and we really had good times under our belt.
Interestingly, the past feelings of being a loser, or anger towards my ex never even came back. Not one bit. I came to realize that I actually did not regret going through those tough times, whether being lady-less in high school, or going through a resentful, painful break up, because they were what made me into who i am now. It was because of those events that I made a decision that I stuck with all throughout.
Luckily through the pain i met a mentor who taught me this really awesome thing. When we were doing self-improvement seminars we would always do this activity to rid our clients of their baggage.
I remember we had our clients remember all the people who helped them, and hurt them. The ones who believed in them, and the ones who put them down. The room became very emotional. We had music playing too.
Our activity actually made a lot of people cry. The key to ridding baggage was actually saying these two things to these people you've met along the way...
I FORGIVE YOU
Its hard to let go of resentments if you don't somehow accept that they are paths to how things work out in your life. The best thing to do is to thank these people (even through a whisper), and actually get the guts to forgive them, and move on. I remember when i did this, things eased off smoothly. i didn't carry as much baggage and I was able to make those changes into a better, more self-actualized human being. 8-10 years later, I chat with these two people and reminisce over the glory days, and I am very much excited to see them again soon.
I know this is not a pick up topic, but I'm sure many of you out there still hold grudges and hard feelings in the past. Just search deep in your heart, thank these people, forgive them, and move on.
it takes a real man to do that.
"Dad would do backflips if he found out" -- Canadian/Singaporean Sparrow
As we got back from dinner and warming up at the local mall, the Eaton Center, we noticed 3 women having some wine at the hotel bar.
No blind side approaches. We stand a good 3 feet from them, have a little chat on how Miq was going to join us, and just like that we created presence.
Spontaneously my student catches eye contact and approaches smoothly.
They were checking us out beforehand, which made the approach very spontaneous and low key
"Where's circa?" A club we were to be at tonight.
Sparrow drops his 2 cents, they do as well, 3 cents, 4 cents.......
I get introduced to the group, and its game time.
We find out they're a bachelorette group of 25, and they booked 6 rooms at our lavish hotel. Sparrow drops his foreshadow and I-perspective, mentioning how he was shocked at the size of our suite, and how we had enough pillows to start a pillow fight (laughs from everyone.) Then I started telling them about the many bachelorettes in Austin, and my craziest experience regarding the bachelorrete "list."
They are all engaged. They want to know what it is
Foreshadow #2 - I tell them that the bachelorette group asked for my underwear (watch for the recall later)
I asked really quick, "Who is the mastermind?"
They both point out to the third girl, which Sparrow isolates very quickly.
As I'm talking he leads her to the bell desk and grabs a trolley for their stuff. Next thing you know, she's calling shot gun on it, and she's running around in the trolley (hint, hint, who's the CEO again?)
I drop more cents, but our interaction gets interrupted by two more women
Play cool, throw a sound byte here, a sound byte there, roll back to the interaction.
Foreshadow #3 on the places we'll hit up over the weekend
Girl says "Hey, you're free to join our party tomorrow, its a little younger crowd, but the music is amazing. What kind of music do you like?"
At this point sparrow number closes his girl, and she gives him her card.
Recall all the foreshadows on the weekend party, the underwear (When I see you, don't grab my underwear okay? Girls flirting back: "Oh we're taking YOUR underwear!", and text foreshadow the pillow fight tonight at the hotel)
As we walk away and high five each other, sparrow looks at the card.
" A CEO!?!?!? HOLY FUCK! I picked up a CEO!?!?!" We celebrate at the hotel room
And this was warm up?
Proactiveness, and the willingness to share yourself. These are keys to the initial escalation.
I think that the world's Xbox 360's, the internet, and the huge Dolce shades create the appearance of "minding your own business." All you have to do to break that is to SPEAK UP.
So, today was interesting. 2 weeks from the vacay and 3 more private coaching sessions to clear out -- one in Toronto, one with Scottc, and one with Brahmin. For those who are thinking of doing private coaching I will send you prep work that will get you ready.
Disclaimer - Do Not copy the words or take them for what they are literally. These are my thoughts irrelevant of whether I'm talking to an attractive female or not. Even if i were talking to you guys I'd share the same insights. Catch the dynamic.
I head out to the salon as the sides of my hair was forming like the bushes on my front lawn. Luckily, I had a real hot (and hip) hairstylist.
***Not her, but pretty damn close***
Beautiful South American chick. Was she Brazilian? She had blue highlights on her hair and some panda earrings. Complete look i would say is punk. Just as with some punk girls, she was very pretty.
Just as any hired gun, they're a) bored out of their brains and b) are going to initiate the conversation. All i have to is start dropping my cents.
First was the consultation. I show her a few pictures off of my I-phone I wanted her to see, plus a few photos of myself traveling. I told her how my stylist in Frisco made this really cool cut, etc etc. She tells me how i have thick hair and how that is the best for styling, and how she loves the Japanese and Asian culture.
Nice, a perfect match! - I tell myself.
So, I mentioned to her what I did (motivational speaker, sick of the MO), and she mentioned that she can see that. She likes the tone of my voice and all.
Enough of this stuff, lets get personal here
I remember starting talking about marriage. I remember the leeway was about my age and we started guessing each other's ages and I ended up asking if she was married or single.
Then she said she never wants to get into marriage. Long explanation.
I tell her the story of the Ecuadorian chick on Stripes' boot camp, and the buffoon who ended up marrying her for fear of losing her. "You know where that's gonna be headed." She says.
I told her i would never want to end up that way. She agrees.
I told her how I need a confident girl, etc etc etc
Well, she finally opened up. She had just broken off with her boyfriend. Like, lunch break time. They've been living together for 6 months now. (No wonder she doesn't want to get married )
She said her bf was everything she wanted in a man, they're so alike, blah blah blah
I tell her, well, you women don't work that way though
She said really?!?
I DQ by saying, you want to know what I think?
She says "yes!" enthusiastically
I tell her about the differences of how men and women think. On at how most men think A+B+C, and how women are more on how they feel at a certain moment. Its all about emotions. Right there, she was hooked. She enthusiastically said "Exactly!!!!!"
So, i tell her..."You're telling me you're so alike, blah blah blah, but even you wanted to cool of with him...now tell me, how are you feeling about your relationship? If how you felt was a sound. What sound does the emotion feel to you? "eh!", or "ugghh" or "hhhuuuhhhghhh!"
Without hesitation she tells me in a groaning sound.
Troy - "you're sick of each other!"
From there, I related on my old long term relationship. I went on this story on how despite we were perfect for each other and I even considered marrying her (a feat, no doubt), the distance between us made us sick of getting on the phone for maintaining the relationship for the sake of it. So thats exactly how i felt.
She totally related.
She tells me how its amazing we connect, and that she is a very hard book to read. She tells me she hardly tells her stuff to anybody and is glad that she feels comfortable to tell me.
I told her that he can't find many substitutes for her, but she surely can find men who are better than him. Then I told her she was very pretty and I can imagine her in short sexy pink shorts and a white top.
She sees the sincerity in my eyes. Through the mirror there was this "look" that said everything. I abruptly end this mood, as I set up my barrier.
I leave her wanting more. I cut the convo there, and head to the front of the salon to pay. Interestingly follows me to the front and she stays there.
I re-start the convo and plant my hand on her shoulder, saying "good luck with Japan, I really think you'll do great over there"
Just like what Wayne says, I talk louder outside. It will make others attempt to make a one-on-one convo with you. It appears to others as if we really know each other. When one of the cute stylists finds a weak spot in the convo, she buts in.
"What are you guys talking about?"
So we ended up chatting about Japan, the Harajuku Style, and the other stylist even buts in with "aren't the books there read backwards?" "Exactly! I'm surprised you figured that out! Are you an anime lover?" I mentioned. The great convos went on. Good vibe was there all throughout.
With the social proof established, this interaction was smooth sailing. I was a LEGIT GUY. The guy who wasn't mister pick up dude with no follow up. Not a chump nor a chode. At this point people were gravitating over me. My sister even noticed the hot blonde beside her come up close to overhear the ruckus.
I do some kino by massaging her telling her "you get ready now, make sure you'll make him want to f--k you when he sees you. Worse comes to worse you call me."
whooooof! number appears out of nowhere. I foreshadowed a couple of things, but left it there. I already turned two dates down as I am to fly to Toronto tomorrow.
I know this isn't like how i work at boot camp. The airplane ride with Stone, and the spectacle last weekend in Austin with everyone and their boyfriend's jaws dropped still tops the list of amazing pick ups. But I just thought of sharing this out, because it seems like a very normal close that can be done when you get your hair disheveled. Seriously there are a lot of cute and hot hairstylists out there. And plus once she falls into my follow up game, its game over.
As I end this 3 week run, I realize my interactions are becoming very solid, and that a huge part of the verbal and non verbal game in my part has been solid. For the past months I've done nothing but step aside and develop my character to again, as i mentioned in Easievibe's journal, create a legit first impression that lasts throughout. I believe I have achieved that.
Aight....Summer's here, and after the long break, I am back to working my blog.
I got big things poppin' soon guys, so thanks to the additional three thousand viewers who, despite a lack of new material, check the site out. Do not worry. I will upload some real dynamite articles, reports, reviews, and especially multimedia to you guys real soon.
I love you guys, peace.