Yes, thats one of my best buds out there, the "Drunken Falcon" AKA Andy.
Its been a wild ride the past few days. We've been living life "Entourage Style..."
Karaoke Nights are probably the best way to show a girl how much of an awesome human being you are.
I always said that if a girl saw me as high status, the first thing I would do is to head straight to Karaoke and goof off the whole time. Yes, we lit a fire on everyone's asses by jamming to Mr. Brightside with the "Godfather", and Andy, the whitest guy ever, busted a flawless rendition of Snoop Doggs "Gin and Juice"
We were around magazine editors, camera crews, stylists and models. We were being completely ourselves and I tell ya, it was a mini-concert.
See, I learned from a true "value guy" once that one of the best things is actually messing with people's expectations.
If they expect highly of you, then mention and LOVE the most mundane things in the best light possible.
Think of George Lucas, or any celebrity on an interview...they say the most mundane things, such as
"I dig Levis...black and slim" OR
"I find peace in taking a dump"
When I started doing this, I noticed I started letting go of the feeling of impressing people, or proving myself, or finding topics to talk about.
Whats even more insane was that the more I found gold in the mundane and the more i started believing it, the more women became interested in what i had to say!
Look, if you actually have had experience being with a "VALUE" crowd, you would notice that most if not all of them withhold all their awesomeness, and start talking about completely normal things first.
On a more damage-control note, you get rid of all the social climbers and materialistic people anyhow, who are just interested in your worth on a face-value level. I don't know about you guys, but I don't need people like those in my life.
To me, whats really cool is that if it ever comes up that SHE bumps into your awesomeness, it becomes a SURPRISE. Via an event, or a group activity, or her talking to your friends who tell good things about you.
The classic statement of interest of "wow, not only are you xxxxx but xxxxx" happens to ME all the time now. All the time.
And that my friends, is an even better boost of attraction.
Thats why, rewinding to my old theories, I've been against coffee/dinner dates. I want a credibility date that will show my awesomeness first-hand to the woman I'm with. Not another session of back and forth salestalk. This cuts my interaction time to a minimum, and our realtime moments a maximum. If you want to speed up things, this is the best way. Proven.
Oh, and the Karaoke thing was done right after my FHM Feature Article and Photoshoot. Holla!
....Involving seducing an FHM model on Thursday, Pulling 2 Hot Babes with a client in less than an hour Friday (awesome story), Instadates on Saturday, and some intense room domination and insta-pulls on Saturday night.
Oh, and I have to write about my client approaching and attracting his former pre-school crush who was working at Zara! That was so awe inspiring it almost put me to tears. All he used was my mall game theory coupled with BRM and 4 Vibes. She CLOSED HIM btw.
Also, my skype client got the lay on call #2 this weekend. All it took was 2 calls. He followed the Date-to-Lay Structure I laid out for him, read BRM, and voila.
A client of mine returned from Perth Australia last Friday, got laid over there, and weeks before that got a Formula One chick for a girlfriend. Yesterday I saw him get approached by a beauty pageant candidate doing a survey on her looks and he skillfully played this one out creating massive attraction from her, thus having her offer her number in the end. This time he interweaved my 4 Vibes technique and used BRM.
I have found a way to combat Approach Anxiety for good, and it can be found in three words... LINE OF SIGHT. You heard it here first folks. Will talk about it soon on my Wiki I'm putting up next week.
Cheers to the Clients!
Before the homeboys leave for the holiday vacay, I was actually surprised to see an event review posted from a few months ago!
Thing about him and his PI: He listened, he applied immediately, and he looked at the BIGGER PICTURE versus just one-on-one stuff. Now, he is living the life.
If you're reading this, Kojones, then I give you my deepest gratitude and I am very proud of what you are making of your life. You are the man!
PRIVATE INSTRUCTION WITH TROY by Kojones
To tell the truth, I was kind of freaked out about meeting Troy for the first time. I listened to his podcasts and read his posts. Some of the private instruction reviews on him scared me. I expected him to be a PUA drill sergeant (ie. “Did I teach you to do that sh*t? ! Did I?!”) I almost wanted to back out. But I’m glad I didn’t.
Turns out Troy is just a regular guy, and easy to talk to. He’s a good listener. Obviously he has keen insight into human behavior and boundless energy. My instruction was held in a pad which overlooked the bay in San Francisco. This was Troy’s friend’s place. It was private. That made it easier to talk about my goals and experiences. I was impressed that Troy’s friend (whose pad it was) was in a healthy committed relationship with a quality woman. In other words, Troy’s friends were not all player-types. That made an impression on me.
Troy talked to me about my goals, got a sense of who I was, and then started fixing me – my posture, my movements, my clothes, etc. As we prepared for night game, he drilled me on how to lead, how to kino, how to escalate, and the logistics of club game. I took tons of notes. Then I went back to my hotel to rest, and to prepare for the night ahead. I was nervous. Night game scares me.
It’s been said before that Troy is the real deal. He lives what he preaches. In the club, he did real approaches. And he didn’t just do the easy sets, either: He did the hard sets, dealing with the sh*t tests. He took a stripper by the hand, snagged her from the couch where she was sitting next to her boyfriend, and danced with her in the middle of the floor, social-proofing the room. He swung her around, grinded, and then returned her to her owner, a handsome guy who looked like he stepped out of a GQ cover. This expanded my idea of what was possible. It also taught me strategy: He danced with the eye candy and built social proof in a matter of seconds.
Some of the stuff that Troy teaches about night game you will never find in the JM ebook or anywhere else. It’s stuff that he learned through trial and error in the field. I love JM but some of the stuff won’t work in noisy club environments. It was fun walking through the club with Troy while he dissected everything going on.
Imagine walking with Morpheus through a noisy club while he freeze frames and says, “Do you see it Neo? Do you understand? This guy with the cowboy hat is about to get blown out because he is hovering and doesn’t have the balls to sit his ass down. That girl over there in the three-set is the weakest link because she’s not engaged in the conversation. And the entire room is about to become ours because the strippers are with us.” Walking through a club with Troy’s mind racing and dissecting everything in sight was an eye-opening experience for me. I’ll never look at a club in the same way anymore.
I opened a girl sitting on a couch at Troy’s suggestion and sat down next to her. She wasn’t the kind of girl I expected to meet in a club – just a down-to-earth girl from a small town in North Carolina. Later I opened a two-set that Troy had softened up earlier. Troy taught me how to properly run a two-set without a wing, which was eye-opening for me.
While on this topic, I’ll say that the PUA body of knowledge is constantly changing, as girls become socialized by so many approach artists. Girls have become wise to traditional wing tactics. Troy knows this. He blasts through the pretense of traditional pickup. How many sets have been blown because the wings always come in at the same time and always says the same stupid thing?
The most important lesson for me was learning how to lead. I moved a two-set around the venue. Later, I took a girl by the hand and led her downstairs and danced with her. It was awesome. I did Troy’s patented dance move and couldn’t believe I was doing it. I’m scared to death of free form dancing, but I actually had fun. The main thing is that I learned it is not as hard as I thought. It’s a skill that can be learned.
The next day, Troy gave me some good pointers on crib design and crib logistics. We also talked at length about Facebook design. This was big. I’d never given much thought about how my Facebook page was set up and maintained. Troy distilled this down to a science. Now I manage my Facebook page like a PR campaign.
I’m an older guy, 39. I’m interested in women, but that’s no longer the only thing. On some level, pickup is about designing a life to bring women into. Troy taught me about attracting other things into my life: quality people, business, money, etc. He talked about engineering a life that is fun 24/7, so that pickup is not just a role that you play. As you go about your life, you are the party. After sarging at the club, I hung out with Troy and his crew at a diner. Troy surrounds himself with quality guys, real guys. We swapped stories and chatted about developing skill, life lessons, adventures, and of course, women. This might sound weird, but it’s the first time I’ve ever had fun hanging out with guys.
Troy savors every moment of the day and is enthusiastic about the little things in his life (like his new iPod game) and the big things (like his LTR). This was the lesson I walked away with: how to live my life. The game can never be bigger than the way we live our lives. And the way we live our lives ultimately will determine the quality of women that are drawn to us.
When I returned to my small hometown, I opened a cute Asian girl in the Laundromat, late one night. I practiced physical leading and we ended up salsa dancing while our laundry dried. A week later, I was approached by an exotic brunette in my gym who thought I was the dance instructor. I didn’t let her leave, though. I practiced physical compliance and got her to demonstrate her capoeira moves on the dance floor. Then I number closed her. Last night I found myself drinking wine in her bedroom. In two weeks I will fly to Dubai to be with my beautiful Russian babe to greet the New Year. I love this life.
I’m thankful I was able to take private instruction with Troy. Wish I could have spent more time with him. I had a lot more questions. And God bless Juggler and his method. I’ve met some amazing women this year. And I know this is just the beginning.
Mind Set Mind Map 1/2: Troy's TOP THREE BELIEFS EXPLAINED
I've been a certified sales trainer for 3 years, a self-improvement coach for 2, a regional track medalist in my home country the Philippines, a competitive martial artist for 3, and a professional pick up coach for 4. I've gone from nothing to success, to competitively playing, to eventually training and molding future winners, and eventually deconstructing my beliefs.
When I flowed from one interest and industry to the other, the main thing that really overlapped, was MIND SETS. Any time the beliefs and the attitude of someone is set to overdrive, the body will follow, and achieve maximum performance. Its been proven scientifically time and time again. If you mentally expect excellence, you will become excellent.
Without further ado, here are my top 3 beliefs.
I. TROY'S MINDSET #1 "When in Doubt, Think...WOMEN WANT MEN"
let's face it. Without that masculine energy and self-permission, there will be no real sexual result from all your efforts. I am aware of three KEY things, that if you look at it, puts YOU on the power card. After reading this you might stop putting women on the pedestal:
a) Women's Biological Clock - Time is running out for them. As women age, their "stock" goes down, as we men age, our "stock" goes UP! We gain more resources, are more mature, more experienced...that's why you'll often see older guys dating younger women 4-6 years their junior. As women's biological clocks start running out of time, the more they'll realize they need YOU more than ever.
Note: Age 24-26 is a GOOD niche of woman to date.
b) Women's Sex Drives - We keep hearing that a woman's sex drive is the same, if not greater than men. I believe this is true. I've had some real freaky women in my time who at first glance, you guys would never think would love sex as much.
Note: its all about NOT making her look like a slut in front of her friends. Address the freak inside of her in closed doors, privately. learn dirty talk and phone sex.
c) The REASON for all their make up, clothing, spa and tanning salon & going out spending ---> YOU!!!!
It was FJ Shark that said it best, "Women are busy and bored." I know of tons of women who have more money than me, and are easily getting big breaks in sales, real estate, and modelling because of their looks. At the end of the day though, despite the apparent "sameness' between men and women via status and resources there is still something missing in women's lives: A MASCULINE FORCE.
See, we are built differently, no matter what. Hormones for both sexes are different, and i won't even talk about upbringing and the importance of the father-daughter relationship to a woman's sexual attitude. Bottom line, instill in your heads that all that resources, all the nights of going out women do, and the hours and hours of getting ready and the constant "Cosmo-girl" insecurity, is all for one purpose: Snagging a cool catch like YOU!
So, when these 3 key things all add up, WOMEN WANT MEN!
II. TROY'S MINDSET #2 "X = X"
X = X is one of my OLDEST, main foundational beliefs. Its sort of like my golden rule but applicable in many ways. Most of my successes in dealing with clients and future clients rely upon this. I treat clients how I want to be treated, and more often than none they get the feeling as if they've known me for a long time now.
Now, when it comes to interactions with women, I'm going to be a little specific.
a) What you feel = What she feels
- If you have prejudgments about them, they will have prejudgments about YOU.
- If you hesitate, they will hesitate
- If you do not commit, they will not commit
ON THE OTHER HAND
- If you are genuinely interested, you'll get the same back
- If you have the fun vibe projected, you'll get the same back
- If you commit, she or they will commit
- If you FEEL sexual towards her, she will FEEL sexual towards you.
b) Your personal fashion style somewhat gears yourself to attract certain niches of women
Not to talk in a stereotypical way, but it is a fact. Most fashion styles do attract a certain crowd. if you want to be taken seriously, mix up your stuff with casual. if you want to be a rockstar for today, suit up on the accessories! Its all about X = X...people are attracted by other people they are familiar with and can identify with.
III. TROY'S MIND SET # III. THE RULE OF COOL : "What you think is cool, is COOL"
My cousin Bradley is one of the guys I really looked up to early on in life. He was pulling chicks home at 12, and by 16 or 18 he was a machine. By 21-22 he dated ONLY 10 blondes and even got Hawaiian Tropic Models and future WWE Divas. Thing is, he NEVER cold approached! BUT, he constantly FASCINATED women.
He didn't have much resources, but he did have very unique and interesting hobbies. Turntabling, Break Dancing, his old corvette, drinking, and many more. The reason people were fascinated by him was because he WAS INSANELY INTO HIS STUFF and WOULD NOT STOP TALKING ABOUT THEM!
I noticed that when it comes to HYPE, hype just happens because of a single person's hardcore belief in it!
How to use: Try the Rule of Cool on the most mundane things.
Why are locals fascinated by foreigners/vacationists/visitors? Because they have genuine appreciation for things that, well if you were a local you would take for granted. Like if i were in Japan, and I saw, for the first time, a vending machine that cooks REAL FOOD in front of me, i would FLIP OUT. But, if you were a local Japanese person, I'm sure it wouldn't matter much because machines like that are found in most street corners and shops.
But then again I think I'd flip out MORE if i saw an underwear vending machine!
See. that's what REALLY fascinates people around you. Its not the DHV (ugh) stories, its your UNUSUAL AND UNIQUE INTERESTS!
And not only that, its HOW YOU ACTUALLY SHOW AND TELL PEOPLE YOUR INTEREST IN THEM
Does this apply on all people? YES. Does this apply to WOMEN? HEEEECK YEAH!
Case and point: BMX/X-Sports Athletes. I once met an uber hot chick who was dating one of the semi-pro guys on the BMX circuit. I asked her what it was that really made her fall in love with the guy. And she said, "I love that he's into his (BMX) passion...i don't mind being number 2 because I just enjoy seeing him do this....I support him with everything I have..."
How beautiful would it be if all relationships were like this eh? Again, all you have to do with the rule of cool is to think (whatever thing it is) is cool, and it WILL BE COOL.
Take what Timmy D, the proverbial DIMSUM guru said awhile ago:
"Look, if i were to choose between Maria Ozawa, or that goooood, steamed, ha-kaw dimsum....Shit, I'd take the dimsum"
"If i had ONE LAST MEAL before getting hung or shot or what not....it would be that gooood, ha-kaw dimsum"
(While walking with a chick) "Oh...My....God... is that? Is that a DIMSUM STAND?!?" Dayyaaaammmnnnnn!
There you have it guys, my top 3 beliefs. These beliefs have carried me from one successful interaction to another; from one project to the next; from one insane career to another. I hope you guys can implement it in your lives to eventually have that rock-solid belief system to create that 24/7 attractive life.
RECENT ALUMNI LAY REPORT: SOEASY
As some of you know, I love posting student successes on the blog. Soeasy, my good ol' buddy from San Francisco (if Kojone's mind blowing review wasn't enough) just texted me today, letting me know he just successfully closed a chick. And the funny part is, as much as soeasy is getting INSANELY GOOD at conversational game (Thanks to continuous coaching and BRM), this was an instance of very practical pick up:
Friday, 2AM. We pick up two girls from a local bar, and bounce them to our typical after party spot. It's got plenty of games, food, and drink. If you know me, you know what I'm talking about. My wing is just a friend of mine who's fairly good, but is neither in the community nor knows about my involvement.
While everyone else is playing Rock Band, it's clear that it's on between my target and me. Lying on the couch with her, I ask her:
"Would you freak out?" "About what?" (turn her head towards mine) "You know. " "Maybe I'd scream and embarrass you in front of everyone"
Multiple make outs ensue.
By this time, it's probably around 4AM, and my wing and I are actually ready to call it a night. These girls still want to party, so my wing suggests walking over to his place to play Scrabble (yeah right). Unfortunately, the layout of the apartment makes it impossible for either couple to get any privacy. He tries to kick us out, but she stays on the couch with him, so my target runs over to the bed. I roll with this, so we cuddle/make out and get blue balls for the rest of the night. Since neither of us slept much, I felt like a train wreck the next day.
Saturday Night. Her (11:22p): "Actually... It was your pants. How's the xmas party?" (reference to earlier convo)
I've been partying since 7pm, so I don't even notice this text till nearly 1am.
Me (12:53a): Absolutely awesome what are u up to now? Her (12:54a): "Just got back from the city and into bed."
I call her up:
Me: "So was that an invitation?"
Her: "Haha, no. I need to get some actual sleep."
Me: "Yeah, me too. Okay, what's your address? I'm coming over."
Her: "[address]" Me: "I'll be over in 20 minutes"
Really quick I just wanted to let y'all know that this eventful widget I got here is again very useful for me to get your feedback. I've been contemplating on my events for 2009 and if i went as far as London, New York, Belgium and Asia, without a doubt anything can happen. So whether I'm close to you (such as within the United States) or not, definitely drop me a "DEMAND IT" ping!
Recent Testimonial about BRM:
Yo Troy! I just gotta say, BRM = da bomb! I think my game is decent but this BRM is really sick....because i tend to overcommit BRM just fucking shuts out the problem for me Thanks for that bro!
Another happy chap. Glad to have helped bro! Rapport is just real easy when you get used to the cycle.
Anyhoo, since its the end of the year and I got people to thank, I decided to make this post on....
A SPECIAL TRIBUTE TO TEAM MATES 2008
First off I want to say that I've been surrounded with AMAZING TALENT. I know I've got a few more people to mention but its 6 AM! To be continued....Details later
If i could describe my game its really a mix of MACRO (Lifestyle, Awareness, Vibe, Culture, Logistics) and MICRO (Conversation, Non Verbals, Physical Escalation). I'm a huge proponent of the 24/7 Attractive lifestyle because I noticed pick up artist skills aren't sustainable for the long term (you can't be "believable" forever, you have to be AUTHENTIC) and believe that integration of simple competencies to a guy's lifestyle is really what will get him consistent success.
Probably the most analytical of the team, I believe I can see through big theories and cultures and pick their most useful characteristics to break down into practical, no-nonsense dating advice. I didn't come in from the pick up community which means I have a lot of real world experience and advice under my belt.
I am known to yell, chastise and scream at students acting a fool at boot camp, but its because of genuine love and desire to help students succeed which is why. I'm an avid button pusher of the "flight or fight" response, which gets students motivated to move or face imminent death by way of ball shrinkage. =)
The end result? They become bad-asses, and I have a running record for bad-ass Alumni (see my homies below and the reports on the forum).
I am currently in a relationship.
Major Developments this Year
1) NON VERBAL GAME -- I totally broke that down. Broke down multiple forms of eye contact, body language and projection. Found out it was simpler and much lethal than mere talking. Took student's game to another level. Totally undetectable by other guys too (read up on the tractor beam), and therefore you never get "AMOGGED"
2) THE 4 VIBES -- Vibe is KING. But its the number one factor why people's games aren't progressing much quicker. I further broke vibe down into 4 subsets with their own strengths and weaknesses -- Fun Vibe, Charismatic Vibe, Dominant Vibe, and Sexual Vibe,
3) THE BRM Manual -- I finally compressed rapport into less than 10 pages to a model that actually make sense in escalating.
TIMOTHY "MONSTER" D
Timmy, described animately, is a WRECKING BALL. The guy is relentless, high energy, and uber flirtatious. He doesn't hesitate and will go for the hottest girls in any venue. Next thing you know this 5'7" cat is getting mauled by half the group while they're all laughing and having a great time. He has the sickest PUSH-PULL/PERSONAL/REWARD/PUSH-PULL sequence I have ever seen. Walks in any set, then boom they all love him. Was once coined as an Asian Gigolo by people in the club. Also an avid day game lover.
Major Developments this Year: (to be continued)
1) THE TAUNT
2) THE CONQUISTADOR
3) PUSH PULL COMBINATIONS
ANDREW "TIE GUY" SEGARS
Andy runs "Chill Guy" game. His Artistic nature and chill persona account for his happy go lucky attitude. Very non judgmental which is an asset he has, but spits poison upon contact with hot girls. He has a very "don't give a fuck" attitude, and is a master at hired guns (Especially Hooters). He's called Tie-Guy simply because he wears ties. Once told a student to tell a chick she gave him a hard on, and they ended up hooking up. Juggles 5-8 girls a week.
Major Developments this Year: (to be continued)
1) THE STINK EYE and Expressions such as "Right On" and "Its a Beautiful thing"
2) HIRED GUNS
3) FOLLOW UP AND TEXT GAME
JULIAN THE GERMAN FALCON
"Julian is the next BIG THING", an attendee of last Summer's Alumni Weekend mentioned after seeing him take off with a hottie within 12 minutes of entering the venue. Runs things VERY textbook, and that's probably why he can pull so well (still uses my "deck of cards" pull excuse) with almost no room for error. His intent is unparalleled. Whether its his own placebo or not, when he says its on, IT IS ON and most likely he will pull home a chick. Also very damn good at rapport. Currently rejects girls if he doesn't want em.
If you haven't tried THE STONE before, then you must be on crack. Putting a woman's hand on your Big Kahuna is the best way to show your sexual interest. Stone is one of the coolest, fun guys to ever have around. Very philosophical and zen like, and phone calls with this guy usually run my half-day because of it. Very dynamo but recently pushed further into the realm of intimate relationships. Currently under the radar now because he's dating someone special.
Oh, and on that last picture. If you think he looks like he's about to have sex with her a moment later, well HE DID.
I only knew this guy late 08 but i had to place him here. Most Improved Player IMO since he winged Tim and Andy. Listens intently, applies immediately, and whapow! Check mate. A very genuine guy with a very genuine heart. A Nice Guy with Game. Both times we winged he went 2/2 on his lays (including the chick above).
THE NAT SED BOYS
It took about a year and before I knew it the Nat Sed boys were at the top of the social food chain. These guys really took the 24/7 Attractive lifestyle angle, and some of my best stuff (Micro and macro) and now they don't even have to pick up. Their lay reports consist of not just the detailed story, but photos and video. Its the "no game, game" as my main man Nash says. They get laid too much its exhausting to write a Lay Report. Some of them are beta testing BRM right now.
Oh, and those are DOUBLE vip stamps. Reckognize bitches!
THE SG CREW
My boys in Asia who work with me at Synergy aren't your average business men. These young men are some of the biggest players I know. Just in case you forum users don't know. The Falcon Block (Yes, where you STOP the chick on the street) was invented in Singapore in field. They currently appeared on an episode of Singaporean National TV teaching these newbies game a'la Seduction School, and totally turned them around. Oh, did I mention they just do this for fun?
One thing that kept bugging me on boot camps (and the main reason i kept evolving them) was the fact that a lot of guys were really STUCK AT RAPPORT, and if walking up and dealing with approach anxiety and all those inner game demons weren't enough, the whole concept of creating a free flowing conversation seemed to be such a "holy grail" that guys were adamant to achieve.
The thing is, at the SAME TIME on program they're taking in tons of other EQUALLY RELEVANT TOPICS wired in their brain such as physical escalation, teasing, logistics, social proof, kino.....and the list goes on.
Pretty tough act to juggle. And don't even get me started with folks who try to compensate with routines.
Now i understand that talking should be spontaneous, and structureless with no apparent transition. Real "in the moment" good stuff. And that's fine, if I'm talking to half of my family members over Thanksgiving Turkey, or if I'm hanging out with my golf buddies on a Tuesday afternoon. I seem to be totally unattached when it comes to people I'm NOT SEXUALLY ATTRACTED TO.
Thing is, this is regarding WOMEN. And with women, it is IMPORTANT to have a basic, seamlessly easy flow of rapport that you can just wash, rinse repeat, thus saving you from all that hassle of endlessly trying to decode her reactions and thoughts.
The common denominator here is PURPOSE. There must be a PURPOSE for Rapport with women.
I don't know about you guys, but I'm a very busy individual. I deal with so many people and projects on a daily basis that its utterly RIDICULOUS for me to do this Pick Up Artist seven nights a week World of Warcraft rally. I don't have the time to learn and implement 30 pages of routines or keep trying and failing over a seven month period and NOT GET LAID with it.
I learned to make it count. Everytime.
Making it count is one of the best forms of self respect and discipline. If you go intense in a gym, or if you isolate a move like a power athlete, you get results FAR MORE than the average dude. Its reality.
In my opinion, there should be a PURPOSE for using rapport when talking to a woman. More than just "getting to know each other", or "connecting", or building comfort
The purpose of rapport in my opinion should be THIS:
RAPPORT IS TO ESCALATE
The flow of rapport isn't even that complicated. Its just a basic cycle that goes like this: Here's the EXACT Basic Rapport Model from the BRM manual:
Statement/Tension Builder/Answer -> They Relate --> Question --> Statement/Tension Builder/Answer -->They Relate --> Reward --> Escalate/WHAT YOU PLAN TO DO
Here's the Million Dollar question guys:
Can rapport get you laid: YES AND NO? Can it help you to get laid? ABSOLUTELY!
You see, what really matters i rapport is justified interest, and getting that justified interest AS SOON AS POSSIBLE.
There's no need for deep connections, or too much conversations. Those things are stuff of day dreams and unrealistic theory. What matters is you can find a justified interest in her, escalate, and keep repeating the system. Its that EASY.
Since launching the Skype program I've been doing an ACCELERATED PROGRAM for guys who are serious about this. As we speak another of my guys got ASKED OUT by just doing BRM EXACTLY HOW IT WAS WRITTEN
Now you all know that the Skype program does include the BRM (Basic Rapport Model) Manual which is my straightedge way to not only boost your interactions with women, but gets you through a lot of the bullshit with purposeful escalation. I wrote this to be your daily guide in practicing this type of rapport, so that you can make this a normal thing in your way of communication. In that you can start dealing with other relevant things like your Basic Date-to-Lay Structure, Relationship Management, Nonverbal Game and Managing the Different Vibes.
Here's a very recent Success Story on BRM
"Troy's BRM Model WORKS! Even in different languages! I used it to bait...hook...escalate...and that was it! At first I thought...Isn't rapport to get to know somebody better? its NOT! More like "Rapport to Escalate!"
"I Never thought I would get this far with just ONE PHONE CALL and chats with Troy. I did exactly what he said...Less words...HOOKED...conspiratory eye contact...HOOKED...Now within just 3 rapport exchanges I am getting asked out! I am so happy I am learning all this good stuff at my age right now. The BRM Model...plus Mr. Popular, plus the date-to-lay structure we created...EQUALS Repeat BUSINESSSSSS!!!"
T, 20 years old from Japan.
I've been getting massive responses on this on Skype and I'm scheduling weekly spots that are dissappearing soon, so definitely let me know if you're interested. My handle is tdtroy10.
Aright guys, I know i just posted something, but my recent chat exchange with my fellow Conquistador as pictured above, Barney, has led me to write this fun-filled success report. Barney is a pretty fun college guy who loves golf, alcohol, and getting laid. I've taught him extensively in the past and I do enjoy his field reports. He's also taken my lifestyle advice to a whole new level, as he became a club promoter while juggling school, play and women in his life (now THAT is a juggling act), He's also currently testing the Basic Rapport Model mini-manual.
Without further ado here we go...
Hey folks!! its been a while since the last time i posted..ive been really busy with school tryin to graduate soon and getting drunk every other day hehe.. anyway. . I posted this because i think its really amazing how this shit works. . this could be educational because ur gonna learn some spanish as well hahaha....
For the past few weeks ive been trying to study and master classroom game. . some of you know where i study. . and man a LOT OF HOT CHICKS in my school . . deng i wish i could post photos but i dont have any...
So what i do in class normally is I sleep . never listen to the teacher.. never participate in class. . i try tho but man. . u understand right??. . . id rather work in the clubs than in school . . I really really want to graduate soon and get out of that place
anyway since i dont get noticed that much in class or in school. . . i had this sucky feeling that im a piece of shit i gotta do something. . Like get the hottest girl in class. . nail her and her friends. . . that would be awesome. .
So lets cut to the chase. . . Ive started to position my self in class where everyone would notice me. . started participating . . . and fuck even giving wrong answers work. . people make fun of me for fuckin up hahaha(in my spanish class) Started to specialize specific parts of the classroom. . . I think of it as a CLUB. . . but a hundred times smaller. .
(This is great solid stuff that I keep saying differentiates VENUE GAME from just one on one. With venue experience and calibration, a classroom or a college, in fact play under THE SAME RULES. Barney runs very very smooth club game and he realizes this is NO DIFFERENT)
One day in my Spanish class building. . i felt Jolly that day and the vibe that id love to call waLLop. .
entering class.. "OLA! Sir I am NOT LATE!" (interupting the whole class) but its all good. .
PROF: Oh senor barney. . blah blah(in spanish) you pair up with "B" and create a dialogue in spaniol. .
IL CALL her B coz shes that pretty. . . actually the hottest in class. . Fortunately haha I also assume that shel transform into an "A" with more comfortable clothes. .
SPANISH DIALOGUE WITH B IN A ONE HALF SHEET OF YELLOW PAD PAPER that we presented later on in class. .
me: Ola buenas tardes! (Hi! good evening!)
B: Ola amigo buenas tardes! Como te llamas? (hi friend good evening! whats ur name?)
me: Me llamo barney, y tu? como te llamas? (my name is barney. . you are?)
B: me llamo B (my name is B) me: Como te apellidas? (whats ur last name?)
B : me apellido ----- (my last name is---)
B:que idiomas hablas? (what language do u speak?)
me: hablo engles tagalog etu? que idiomas hablas? ( I speak english and tagalog u?)
B: Hablo engles tagalog tambien Que casualidad! (me too i speak tagalog and english) me: Donde VIvez? (where du u live?)
B: Vivo en kalye (her adress) (I live in -----)
me: Mucho gusto (i think this means nice to meet you)
B: igual mente me: tu eres lamas guapa que he visto aqui (you are the prettiest ive seen tonight)
B: Gracias tu tambien eres moy guapo (you are handsome urself) me: tu tienes nobio? ( Du u have a boyfriend?) B: No nobio y tu? tu tienes nobia? (no bf bout u? du u have a gf?)
me: No nobia! QUE CASUALIDAD! ( i dont have a gf! what a coincidence!) something like that haha
B: tengo CALOR. . (I feel HOT)
me:LO se ( I know ) lol:
me: podemas comer juntas? (would u like to eat with me *something like that hehe)
B: Si Perpecto! (Yes perfect!)
me: a que hora? y donde? (what time and where?)
B: alas siete dela noche en punto en serendra (7pm sharp at X SPOT)
PROF: hahahahhaa what the ?? These two are flirting with each other!!! . . .Barney, aren't u gonna get her number? me:
hahahahah yeah i forgot!
me: cual es tu numero de telefono movil?
got it. .
Classroom game. . . 1. Dont sleep 2. Dont sleep
thanks For reading my Fr. . . i kinda missed posting. . wish me luck on day 2. . :
Truly yours ....Cheeseburger Barney. . . .
After A few weeks..
it took me i think 2 weeks to day 2 this chick.. since she dropped out of class and i just found out since i myself have been busy with golf and school..and yeah partyin with the crew.. anyway just this one 7:30 dismisal from akik building.. i was walking to the parking lot.. and thought about this chick B.. Called her.. asked her how she was doin yadiyahh.. and so she filled me in what happened to her.. Shes gonna be a chef soon.. she got a job from somewhere..
Barney: anywayz..i should be taking you to serendra soon since thats what i promised you..
B: Oh yeah! u remember...
Barney: actually i really dont have money for that now.. but! i know this siopao place right across the street! we can go to this spot if u want but the siopaos are only 10 cents! =)) cmon! wheres ur building?.. come down from there!
So that was my day 2 with B .. "siopao date".. hahahha didnt fuck her because.. i dont think boys are allowed inside their dorm..
So i just played cool for her to get to know me more.. everything was simple.. not much escalation..but fuck .. im sure she wont forget that siopao date..
and yeah.. i know by looking at her that she was having fun.. I was having fun..
we talked about life.. about her family.. amazingly she was opening up to me to the extreme which is a good sign.. we even talked about her period.. hahaha ewww but atleast ..yeah =)) well,, her humor made me kino her tho.. held her hand as i walked her back to her dorm and i can feel she wants it hahaha
anyway.. just being myself is all i needed to pull this off.. as Troy Dizon would say it..
Rule Book What?! lol
stay tuned for the day 3.. P.S for this date, i only spent less than 5 bucks, and again "the imperfectness was perfect"
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