October
2009
Lay Report: TDD Bad-Ass Instructor Marinetti Speaks on How Pointless Looking for IOI’s are
For those of you who are TOTALLY NEW (and thank God for that), IOI’s are an acronym for ” Indicators of Interest”: Signs that the woman likes you - like touching you, saying a verbal compliment, or brushing her hair. These so-called PUAs say that you gotta look for them to move forward (and how that fucks them up in the field of getting laid or getting a girlfriend, I’ll explain in another time.)
On this RECENT REPORT, our Bad-Ass Instructor from Chicago, Marinetti, bares all on how doing that is pointless to look for IOI’s and how he, like other guys in our stable, get laid even when there are ZERO indicators during the first meeting.
I always say, “Women are like sand castles, and you shouldn’t put stock on them because they change abruptly, your best bet is to create a SKYSCRAPER - YOU - which is solid and immovable” - I think this is one of those reports that really amplify that sentiment.
Before he takes it from here, I am announcing that BOTH Marinetti and Myself will be in Boston in December for a talk and 24/7 man Camp in the East Coast. For inquiries email us at info@troydizondating.com
Alright bro, take it away!
Hey guys, I have another quick story to tell, with a lesson in how to deal with girls that are on the more conservative end. You know, the girls who seem to be enjoying time with you, but don’t seem to be giving off any of the traditional IOIs. No lingering hand-touching, doesn’t seem comfortable kissing (or perhaps avoids it all together, seemingly uncomfortable in front of her friends or in public), and so on.
Well, it doesn’t matter. At all.
A few weekends ago I was out not too far from my place when I said hi to two girls sitting at the bar. I liked their vibe, they were having fun, not particularly crazy or wild, but they looked interesting. So I came up and said hi. The one sitting closer to me was the cuter of the two I thought, but the funny part was, while we were all having a good time, and I guessed in the back of my head that she was into me (learning to listen to your own instincts is very important) so I kept enjoying my time with them.
They were leaving together, so I got her number, gave her a quick kiss, and she left. Again, I felt like the whole interaction was good though, so I called her a few days later and picked up where I left off. We agreed to meet up that coming weekend.
That weekend, two things had likely happened. 1, she had better logistics. 2, she was prepared to spend the night with me.
And that’s what happened.
So remember, when going out, a few key lessons.
1) Have fun. I had fun with them the first night. Had fun before I met them. Had fun afterwards. I had no doubts that my own vibe was down fine.
2) Make sure they see you as a sexual person. While sitting at the bar we talked about sexual topics in general, including how irritating sexual frustration can be (and how ridiculous it is, considering how many men and women there are IN THIS VERY BAR looking to have sex that night). Dropping a sexual topic, and then moving on from it a bit later is great, because it lets the woman’s mind stew on the topic, and she’s horny and thinking about sex later on.
3) If it doesn’t work at that exact moment, relax. One night stands are great, but there are MANY other possibilities. A quality girl very likely will not want to go home with a guy the night she meets him. It’s also very possible that she doesn’t have the proper logistics for the night. However, if you show yourself as a cool, sexual guy, and arrange to meet up with her again, she won’t make that same mistake twice…
Overall, once you have your own interests in life in place, and you have the confidence and self-esteem of a 24/7 man, these steps are simple. The supply of women is practically inexhaustible.
Awesome Shit, and practical, solid advice by Marinetti. Again we’ll be in the East Coast in December so watch out for that guys. Just as a quick announcement, due to technical difficulties here, we are releasing COC 8 next week, October 13.
