Yep, that's right! Our main man in Asia is on it's biggest female magazine. It's on the stands right now so get a copy!
Xavier on his acceptance speech for being Her World's top pimp daddy
Xavier is definitely a role model for many, many of men that take his seminars and camps. At only 22 years old, I truly believe he has achieved what most 22 year olds never get to do in that time of their lives. It's good to know that people are starting to realize and recognize that. As the main man for our Singapore City Operation, he's also spread out to do talks in Hong Kong, Mainland China, and Malaysia.
The thing that makes Xavier the man you can trust is that he is, like TDD, a transcendent. Hanging out with the guy for less than a few minutes will definitely boost your faith in that normal guys don't have to learn weird, overcomplicated methods or act unnaturally to get quality women. As his date on the article said (and mind you, he was rated the highest among 2 other dating coaches), he is comfortable under his own skin and that's the key to being a natural, as many naturals will tell you.
Bottom line, He probably likes the same things you like (maybe except gambling he loves that!) and comes from the same background that you have so don't worry if he knows what its like (read his story on the link below).
The real special thing about Xavier is his attitude. It's the attitude that really made it for him and its the same attitude we teach our clients on top of the skills so they can be 24/7 Attractive. You can't go wrong by having a role model that doesn't live far away or anything. He lives in Singapore and he's around to show you the path. Hang around him for a few and you'll know what I mean.
Check out his Full Profile on his blog, "A Life to Love" HERE
In terms of his Private Instruction Camps, Xavier has become a really good mentor. The Singapore Crew has grown from a brotherhood of men who had this simple goal - to socially dominate and improve themselves to guys who actually set out to do it and made things happen. When I hear that there's a Masterclass about to happen over there the first thing I feel is envy because I know that the way they're killing it there was way different than when we started it 3 years ago. Now they have different roles and I'm sure Xavier will get that on video soon on TDDTV.COM.
Anyhow, if you want to meet him in person and hang out, we have a FREE LIVE SEMINAR in Singapore on May 22. You are not required to commit to anything but just go through the entire thing. It will be your chance to meet Xavier in person as well as see what the brotherhood is like. You can reserve your slot by emailing him at firstname.lastname@example.org.
If you want to ask him about taking Private Instruction Camps (available every month) or the Masterclass with Nash in July, you can contact him via email on that as well. All of his latest articles are on his blog, A Life to Love. (click here). He is also open to lair and group talks as well as media appearances.
Wow, this conversation is getting awkward... TDD, HELP!
Gentlemen, its fight week
These big fights, whether MMA or boxing have been killing my going out in the clubs time (not like I haven't had any, we were sleeping 2-3 hours every day on the Lifestyle Retreat). So, while I'm waiting on Jose Aldo to kick Urijah Faber's ass (sorry California, don't hate), I decided to drop even more knowledge for you up and coming 24/7 Attractive men aka "Newly Born Sharks."
We're one hour away from the first fight, so I'm going to make this quick:
There are only TWO WAYS you can fuck up a conversation (day or night or in-between or under your legs)
1. Either you are being too cautious, or
2. You are dominating the conversation too much - Peee-Youuu-Aaayyyy Junk
Now, I'm going to ignore the second one, because the obvious answer to that is to un-PUA yourself and join TDD. But kidding aside, I would say that 85% of guys are in the first category, being too cautious...
...And it's not that they have nothing to say, or that they don't know what to say next. It's the "timing lags" that continue to throw them off.
Allow me to elaborate further...
Here's the usual "timing lag" situation that plagues guys in ANY conversation:
Guy asks a simple question...
Guy **thinks** of a brilliant answer ...
Guy swings his head away from the girl to think of a "well-packaged" answer... (Communicating nervousness and analyzing)
3 Seconds have passed...
Guy gives her well-packaged answer (in his head it is at least)... the interest is gone. Guy wonders wtf just happened and blames the dead interaction to lack of material or better packaging.
Guy leaves at the obvious low point, and that's it. He's donezo.
If you're part of this group of guys, conveniently grab your balls and say "I promise you, my TWIN TITANS, this is the last time I will allow this so you can FINALLY taste sweet success!"
So, here are the 3 MUST HAVE Skills when it comes to getting that Natural Timing down:
I. Make a Statement first every time you begin an interaction
This should be an absolute habit when learning TDD to begin with. You should be able to comfortably unleash your opinions and thoughts FIRST then let her relate to you.
Don't throw out a question in the beginning and be highly dependent on her answer - very huge beginner or average guy problem.
Just throw out a personal statement, no matter how short it is, and get in the habit of doing it.
Now it might feel weird in the beginning because you're not used to it, or you might encounter roadblocks such as the girl isn't interested in what you have to say when you try it, but I guarantee you the averages of doing things this way is higher than doing anything else.
To add to that, if you're getting the "little or no reaction" road block then you can conveniently isolate the fact that maybe your vibe or first impression needs work. But in terms of getting the interaction straight, you're good.
Here's an old example from the gym:
"Hey, I notice you around here a whole lot. I thought I had the craziest gym routines known to the 210 area code, but after watching you I had to ask if you're an athlete or just plain crazy."
II. Respond with what you're "Naturally" Knowledgeable with
To avoid the timing lag of responding, don't give a second and respond with what you ONLY KNOW. If you aren't knowledgeable about what she said, then don't give it a second and tell her you don't know much about it (like if a chick started talking about parasailing, shit I wouldn't know anything about that) and ask a process related question (the most ENGAGING question known to man).
Girl: "Haha yeah I'm not crazy, I windsurf" (let's assume the worst case scenario and she gives you something short like that.)
So, in response to what women say, I usually go
"Well, WHAT I DO KNOW about windsurfing is that it's either something that will make me 100x a bad ass, or break my spine if I fuck up (Double Relate - a powerful either or transition from COC 12)."
Girl: "ha, yes! It can hurt your ass if you don't learn it right, but it's a surreal experience once you get on it.. blah blah blah blah blah blah..."
"Really? Wow, you're a monster hiding inside a little blonde girl's body (laughs and flirting)...So how does one get started with windsurfing?"
Girl: "blah blah blah blah" - Now totally engaged.
III. Avoid Questions and Follow up Statements that do not pertain to YOU!
These are called empty or diluting questions or statements. You want to ask questions that will bridge to your dimensions, core identity or a future event so you don't have to *think* about the answer.
Back to the windsurfing example where she probably has already talked for 30 minutes on her passion (due to the process related question), then I might say:
Me: "Wow sounds really adventurous and scary at the same time (god that double relate is so awesome)... I think I'm a pretty adventurous guy, but I'll l need a very good windsurfing monster *wink* *wink* to motivate my ass. My ultra wise dad once told me to get a real woman who's intense in every way. (Telling her what you want in a woman and sexually foreshadowing it)"
Girl: "Haha yeah sure, trust me you'll see I'm more than just a little blonde girl when we hit the waves."
Me: "Oh yeah? Sure we'll see. So when's your next surfing session?"
Now, I don't want you to read in too much on the windsurfing example, but rather apply these to any scenario and get the habit of doing so. I guarantee you practicing your natural timing down over the next 2 months will free you from the "what to say next" problem.
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Paul is one of our valued Champions of Choice subscribers who decided to share his stories for us on the site. He's a University Student living in England who likes to play guitar and hit on cute girls. He's collected all the COC's and was just annoyed that he didn't have 1-3 so he harassed me on skype to get them (don't get any ideas guys). Anyhow, he's got lots of potential and is a pretty cool guy.
If you liked his reports, please don't hesitate to PM him on the forums and tell him he's awesome. I can't wait to hear from him after he uses the stuff from Champions of Choice 14: Covert Seduction (on sale only until May)
Alright, go get 'em mate!
Guys, there is no getting out of the "friend zone"... Unless you Know TDD
I had known Stacey all through secondary school. Almost all this time she had had a number of different boyfriends, all of which I had been friends with too. She was in my immediate social circle - I would see her almost everyday, and when all of my crew would go out to see a film or get together for drinks, she would always be there. I was attracted to her, but there was never any sign that the feeling was mutual, and I never made my thoughts known.
So I left for university, and we kept in contact now and again - not more than once every 2 months. I saw her once when I came back over Christmas, but that was it.
One day, I saw she had broken up with her latest long term boyfriend. A few weeks later, I decided to have a chat on facebook messenger. It was a totally normal, safe conversation, talking about general boring stuff, a few stories, nothing particularly interesting. And I used to study mystery method and all that shit, there was nothing in particular that could have DHV'ed me or any of that funky shit - possibly one story about getting thrown out of a club for deciding to try piggyback wrestling with the lads in the middle of dancefloor, but thats hardly a DHV anything...
All was safe and normal, just being chill and vibing, until at some point she started talking about how unattractive she was (why are so many hot girls insecure?? Just makes no sense!), and I started giving her shit for it.
Her: yer it really sucks, Ive got a lot fatter, I'm going to start jogging
Me: well, you always used to be HUGE, so I think you really should start working out
Her: ha OMG! But yeah that's why I'm going to start jogging
Me: well as long as your not jogging to the BAKERY...you always did love your iced buns
Her: you wanker!!! And it was always you who had the Danish pastry buns!
Me: I'de like to see your buns...what? you say what??
Her: lol you think your so funny don't you. Your as bad a jeff (a mutual friend)
And it continued on like that, joking and messing around. The difference was at one point I genuinely said I found her attractive, and didn't make a joke about it. (note - this is important, its fine to joke about, but at some point you have to put your balls on the line and be genuine about wanting her).
I didn't speak to her on facebook again until I came back. All of our crew arranged to go hit some bars on a Friday night, and of course Stacey was there. What I would have done back in the day was not show any interest, be nice, and not drink very much. And then I found the community, and in particular, TDD.
I spent the night doing as it should be done. We were a group of about 16, so the group split into several smaller groups, as big groups always do, and as I was always in Stacey's line of sight, I made sure I was always talking to people and messing about having fun. We took pictures, threw coins into Adams drink when he wasn't looking (we managed 21 coppers before he noticed...), and picked up Jess to see if she was heavier or lighter than the Gruffalo.
When talking to Stace, I didn't hide that I was interested in her, I used my trademark strong eye contact (I would go as far as to say eye contact is the MOST important thing in getting sexual attraction...just dont go too robbie williams), checked her out blatantly, told her I liked her dress...but would like to rip it off her more, and all infront of all the crew.
Later on, after we had hit a couple more bars, we hit tigertiger - which was crammed as always. It was too loud to talk, everyone was waiting in the bar queue, and I could feel the attraction and sexual vibe were just begging to thin. So I grabbed her hand and told her "lets go dance", and lead her to the middle of the dance floor, out of sight of the guys. After a little bit of dancing, we were making out heavily. From there, the night was mine. At one point Jeff, a notorious player and acquaintance of mine bumped into us as we were making out. He looked Stace up and down, grinned and high fived me, earning me a laugh and a slap.
She even paid for the taxi back to hers, where we went for "pizza". good times.
I REALLY REALLY REALLY liked this question, because it's something that pertains to Retention and getting girls to come and appreciate your personality dimensions. This is a Conversion lesson, gentlemen. Most guys have pretty decent personalities and lives but it's another thing to get a girl (or girls) to realize and appreciate them.
This SINGLE Mailbag Question will give you VALUABLE INSIGHTS on how to get girls on dates and have them actually show up and not flake. As I've said, legit questions will get legit answers.
Oh, and by the way the new DUO Pack that has the absolute essentials to Dimensions, COC4: The Science of Knowing Yourself and COC 10: Dimensions and Identity are now bundled FOR FREE on every Mentorship Package. There are two packages left so grab em while while its out there!
Here we go!!
Here is my question if you have time to answer:
a. Situation: I'm getting better at niche, dimensions, rule of cool. I'm an improv performer. I've still invited several girls to my improv shows and they either flake or decline.
b. Goal: To get the girl to come to my show.
c. Obstacle and Usual Situation:-sometimes am I being too forceful? If I know I won't see her again for a few weeks and our conversation is being cut short due to whatever reason, I've sometimes left it at that on a high point, and sometimes went for it by asking her to my event quickly?
Neither seemed gave me results I'm looking for.
Is my goal ("getting the girl to come to my show") a bad goal and too dependent on her reaction? Or is "getting the girl interested in me AND to come to my show" better or worse as a goal?"
Thanks. I still think too much.
CONTINUE READING BELOW FOR MY RESPONSE AND PERSONALIZED LESSON PLAN FOR KEN TO SUCCEED
First off, kudos for giving us an excellent question, and kudos for having what I think is 80% of the game down in closing down on your niche, dealing with your dimensions, and so forth. If I'm right, the last I heard was you had more women than you can handle. I like this question because its legit, its experience based, and there are more than a handful of ways to make sure this doesn't happen again.
Now, I know that what you're trying to do is systemize your 24/7 Attractiveness, and rightfully so. You're trying to integrate your dimensions into a well oiled machine that will suck women in like moths to a flame. It's a very good way of stepping things up.
By the way, a very good supporting article to this is my recent big one on the TDD Forums, The Simplified Breakdown of Bringing Her into Your World (CLICK HERE FOR THAT ARTICLE).
The weakness in your system is that you probably are just inviting women for the sake of it instead of giving a pretty good pretense to why they should come. Yes, getting her to simply come to your show is a very low goal. The goal is to get her to be interested and want to come to your show. That's where the TDD skills really count!
Merely asking them to show up is no different from saying "let's hang out." We all know the phrase "let's hang out" doesn't give any decent results because it's pretty vague and nobody with a life would really invest their time on something they can't really see any benefit from. Hence, the women really don't show no matter how cool you think your improve shows are.
Okay, Now for a Troy Dizon Dating Skills Assessment and Explanation:
I. When you foreshadowed your shows beforehand (and I'm assuming you did), was she included in the picture? Did you paint a picture where she sees herself in it?
OK here's a fine tuning lesson on the art of Foreshadowing. Now I'm not a performer, but I do remember the time I laid this chick from a beach vacation using conveyance like you did. When we first met on the beach with her friends I told her she should show up and watch me skim board later in the afternoon, and that I knew for sure I would need her to cheer me on motivate me like I had my own cheering squad. I also told her it would be one of the VERY RARE TIMES (check out the hype build up - rule of cool) that she would see me legitimately fuck up in front of a girl.
Sure enough, she showed up and did exactly that. Oh and she had a lot of fun doing it because she already saw the picture beforehand in her mind and it included her.
II. Was this a continuation of a go-stop-go escalation strategy to build tension?
When she showed up to watch me, I was actually more focused on the skim boarding versus talking to her or moving the interaction forward. The fact that I only gave her bits and pieces of attention created MASSIVE TENSION. Of course I'd make very short sexual hints like, "too bad I can't completely look at that body... got tougher things to do and I promised myself I'd get this skim boarding sh*t down" even amplified the tension more.
As I've said before. PUA's, they like to keep plowing and engaging to the point of getting empty kisses, drunk make outs, unhappy hand jobs with their pants on, and statutory rape - me? I actually want them to DESIRE AND ENJOY sleeping with me. So, I pull the brakes and use the date/event as a tension builder. Imagine, she had to waaaaaait patiently. So come the night event, we made out right when I walked in the door of the beach bar.
III. Was there a legitimate benefit to her if she went?
I asked her beforehand on what her plans were in the afternoon. She told me she was going to just hang out and get lazy the rest of the day, so, Again I told her that there was a benefit if she showed up (see number I. à IT WAS FUN) - Not only was she going to meet a cool guy, she was going to have a fun time around him too and that was evident. So, she showed up.
Now, not everyone is going to love Skim Boarding or Improv Shows. And new people you meet who don't really know you as much usually need a legitimate reason to show up on your events. So sometimes you have to educate them on WHY you think its fun and how can they benefit from showing up.
IV. Was there a dimension of you that you were supposed to surprise them with (aka the "dimension flip," my favorite)?
Now, if I remember it right, when my wingman and I met these chicks, he was basically the guy who talked most of the time, and I played Mr. Covert (Get Champions of Choice 14 - COVERT SEDUCTION while it's still available this month to assimilate that ENTIRE side of the game).
He was trying to get with my chick's cousin, and was basically being his fun and charming self. With that in mind, I did not compete with that energy, but rather played a supporting role but skillfully planting my foreshadowing seeds later on with the chick I liked. When she showed up to watch me, it was a "dimensions flip" because now it was MY TIME to captivate her with my passion, rule of cool, and determination to get this skim boarding sh*t down. At that time, my wingman had already taken his girl for a walk so it was a perfect flip from being "Mr. Covert" to "Mr. Captivating Awesomeness."
You can completely manipulate and adjust the way you want to be known by people. Sometimes the improve thing is a good "front dimension," but sometimes it's equally as effective if it was something she was going to discover if she showed up.
Alright Ken, you've got more weapons now. Use them to systemize the way you want your girls to convert into sexual and romantic relationships.
Here's a VERY BIG ANNOUNCEMENT regarding the Team,
Over the next three to four months we are going to promote people in TDD. What are the grounds for promotion? I will be dropping this article series as a "skills check" for anybody who is willing to go through the rankings from Alumni Basic to Upstart, to Captain Candidate, to Captain (Apprentice Instructor) in a matter of three to four months.
HERE'S A VIDEO OF TROY THE SPARTAN TALKING ABOUT HIS PRIVATE INSTRUCTION EXPERIENCE WITH PHILIP MARINETTI IN CHICAGO, HIS FAVORITE TDD TECHNIQUES, AND THE ROAD TO CAPTAIN
For Private Instruction Inquiries and Logistics Planning wherever you are in the Globe, email us with the Subject "Private Instruction Info" to email@example.com
Obviously not everyone will make it to Captain, but hey its worth a shot. Being a Captain in TDD means more opportunities in helping more people, gaining mentoring in teaching and training skills, traveling all over the world, gaining a wealth of knowledge in entrepreneurship (via Synergy), and over all a top-level skill recognition in TDD.
If you think your passion is in inspiring and motivating others to make that change, take that risk and succeed, and you gain happiness in seeing success in others, then maybe this line of work is for you.
To apply for a promotion, email me at firstname.lastname@example.org. with the following:
a) WHY You want to be a Captain or Apprentice Instructor for TDD
b) WHAT are the unique talents, skills, and capabilities you have that you can share with the team
c) WHAT is the definition of a Captain or Apprentice Instructor to you?
d) WHAT are the skills that you need improvement on to get to the next level?
e) WHAT your time frame is for getting the gold.
Obviously, pre-requisites are at least a Champions of Choice Member (minimum 3 COC month subscriptions) all the way up to PI Alumni.
We will get back to you via email for a Phone Interview if you make the cut and will be sending Captain Requirement Packets as soon as June.
Who remembers the '08 TDD Fad - "The Rolling Bar"?
It was created on one of our Private Instruction Camps in Mexico. I remember packing my trunk with Champagne (must have), Vodka, Hypnotiq, maybe some beers (not a big fan of beer), and that deadly Patron.
When pulling girls home and converting dates was an imperative in TDD back in the day, we had to find the easiest logistical way to create an after party, and the Rolling Bar was the insta-party!
Now being a guy who doesn't drink much, those bottles purchased at wholesale went a LONG WAY. We're talking 7-10 girls in 3 weeks, whether from a pull or a date. 99% of the time these girls would agree to come home with us or take us to their apartments.
Why the high rate of conversion?
Here's the MAIN LESSON: Women need an excuse to get laid. Even if you get it to the point where both of you want each other, the "excuse" is the deal breaker. Ask anyone who's pulled a girl home. It really is.
Watch a Video of the SG Boys Xavier, Dan, Val and Jordon do a 5 Chick Mega Pull... Same Story different day:
You can critique all you want about the use of alcohol, but again, alcohol is just another excuse for her to drop the rest of her clothes off. Doesn't matter if it's in your apartment or the trunk of your ride ala rolling bar, it's just another excuse.
I will admit right now that I am a lightweight when it comes to alcohol. A couple of bottles of Smirnoff will get me really red. Patron will get me drunk, and well, a combination of both will turn my lights out.
This is actually when I realized that drinking (amongst other excuses... keep reading below) was just an excuse for her to escalate on me.
Every time I'd admit to being a lightweight, or when I tell girls that I easily get drunk, the MORE they wanted me to drink.
Two minutes later when my head is spinning I feel her hand up my inner thigh under the table. Lesson is, She didn't want to be labeled the aggressor and wanted to blame the aforementioned Patron/Vodka combo on that thing that "somehow just happened."
Nowadays I just act drunk. I really don't need to be guzzling all that alcohol down or I'll forget the bedroom action later on. Try acting drunk, it's a lot of fun guys.
Now let me just tell you it's not just the alcohol, it could be anything; Here's a historical trend over the years:
'03 - '05 was "watch me play guitar",
'06 it was "let's watch the NBA playoffs" at the apartment,
'07 it was "playing cards" in my hotel room,
‘08 it was the infamous rolling bar,
'09 was "check out my laptop" conveniently placed in the bed...
And the list goes on.
Again, first thing you need to think of when it gets to that point is... what excuse would be the easiest for her to say yes to?
So, try any of the aforementioned examples, try our past year traditions or a permutation of it, but this is something you definitely you need to think over if you want to take things sexual and close the damn deal.
PS: If you're in Singapore, the Singapore Powerhouse Crew will be doing a FREE LIVE SEMINAR May 22. Email Xavier at email@example.com NOW for details before seats run out. Oh, and ask him about his rolling bar, he used to have one too (with a mattress believe it or not).
PPS: If you purchased Champions of Choice and don't have a forum account, email me with your forum name so I can upgrade it to COC status.
MAKE YOUR NEXT INTERACTIONS WITH WOMEN COVERT, UNSEEN, AND LOW-KEY
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Here's a quick back story followed by what's in store for ya.
About 4 years back, I was labeled by a lot of people who saw me in the field as the high energy guy. I somehow had limitless energy and enthusiasm and I used those natural traits to take women by storm. It worked for me and it worked for many, many people I've taught around the world. You might remember an old TDD term, Force of Nature - a key mentality to have if you want to proactively dominate and seduce. Well, a lot of my Alumni from 2006 and up put this to heart and succeeded exponentially.
As Forces of Nature, we were applying key TDD concepts by the book - It was an easy to do system that liberated so many guys from the complicated Pick Up Community that never actually dealt with any of the real issues regarding seduction.
We came in, mega-vibed ANY environment, made people love to be around us, engaged women sexually with great nonverbal body language and lead women to our beds because we had elaborate Macro Logistics Plans. That was it.
But we all know, there are just some nights where that's just not the case. 10 to 12 hours in the office or a plethora of errands during the day can change things. When we grew as a company, we started having clients who were busy professionals during the day - Doctors, Lawyers, and Vice Presidents of Banks - surely they couldn't pull off a Force of Nature consistently with the amount of work they had going for them.
To add to that, I also had times where I got lazy and didn't feel like walking around or having much of a chat with people. Ever since I worked out twice a day dancing stopped being one of the first options for me. Didn't matter, I knew then that there was a pinpoint way to deal with this scenario.
Now, since I'm Troy Dizon and I am one of the most active social scientists out there, I went on the path to becoming the contrast to my high energy persona: I started to study the low key player.
I spent the past 2 years developing this into a science while observing low key players who had exactly the same successes I had using less work (Trust me, I had to FIND and befriend these guys first and that took more than a smile). I saw the stuff they did that worked and didn't work, and kept the best stuff blended into our TDD System.
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In most cases regarding team game, my standard thing to do is to suddenly shift into the role of being a "sly fox." It's here that I employ some of the Ninja Tactics that I will fully reveal to the public in three days when Champions of Choice 14 Releases.
Being the low key, inconspicuous guy helps because women can tell I'm not socially pressured in any way to go beyond what I can do (I'm tired and lazy, remember?). It's like subtly saying, "I don't move for anybody. I choose to move when I want to move." - A good leadership trait you can convey. Just when every PUA is paranoid on having approach anxiety and the need to do something, you're the guy that women see chilled out and relaxed. While some of these guys are moving like crack addicts (oh the whoo state was it?), you'll appear the more refined gentleman who's comfortable in his own skin.
During the last 2010 Lifestyle Retreat, the thing that blew everyone's mind was the fact that I appeared to hardly do much in the field (or so that's what they all thought) and still yielded the SAME RESULTS.
Since I had already expected that everyone was going to be on a major excitement rush (all of TDD were in one spot in the world, it wasn't hard to foresee that haha), I made it a point to take a step back and play the sly ninja running the background work as everyone went on 5th gear energy wise. Appearing to do nothing but having short, platonic looking chats here in there, they'd find out days later that I ended up landing the girl I did NOT spend more than 20 minutes chatting or dancing with. I would later reveal that I was employing Ninja Tactics the whole time and that my plan was to have these techniques revealed to the public on April 15th.
Now apart from the leadership conveyance that I show by being low key, applying the material on COC 14 also adds an element of mystery in my character. If you're like me who has a firm grasp in the dimensions of my personality, or you have tons of dimensions, then deploying the techniques and strategies on COC 14 will definitely be a breath of fresh air to you in terms of execution.
With Ninja Tactics, you can use some of our sneakiest ways to build intrigue and tension on women who think they know you. Remember, women LOVE filling in the pieces of the puzzle. The more hints and pieces of your personality you drop off for them, the more they'll clamor and go crazy on wanting to get to know you more.
I'll teach you in this 40-minute podcast how to subtly drop hints, tell quick, 2 minute "puzzle-piece" stories, and the right way to do a "smokescreen" style exit making her think, "who was THAT guy? I want MORE!"
We will go over the basic guidelines and premises of the "covert player" that ties in all of the techniques you'll learn here into one specialized system of attracting women.
I'll also teach you to have the EYE OF A NINJA: A special set of tactics I've developed over the years to help you SEE different opportunities as they happen in the field, whether in a group level, a micro conversational level, or on a logistical Macro level. One of the advantages of being a Ninja running the background stuff is that you can play the observer role where you can literally step back, have a better assessment of the situation, and spot opportunities real time and act on them.
One of the most important parts of COC 14 is the part on Engaging.Yes, I know that in TDD we don't deal much with the art of approaching women (90% of the time Line of Sight and Vibe does the job), but since this is about being a Ninja, I'll show you ways to blend into the background, approach without looking like it, and in a few seconds - voila! You've initiated multiple interactions with groups of women. I'll also drop critical pointers on Disengaging - how to leave the right way causing more intrigue and more mystery in her head
If you've been looking for the deal breaker tactics to handle groups, then this is the COC for you. On this COC I will teach you how to be an opportunist. I will teach you very slick and unheard of tactics to engage groups of men and women, and through an easy process, leave them wondering who the heck you are and how to get back to you. On this 14th installment I throw down step after step after step of how to point out and filter which group dynamics you should engage, what to say to engage them, and how to go from there to create MASSIVE retention within that group.
This is also the COC where I go into sharpening the way you paint pictures in her head. Again, the key to being a Ninja is great time management and planting seeds in her head when you see the opportunity. They KEY skill set in planting seeds is the ability to paint pictures verbally. On this COC, I will go into both basic and advanced ways of doing so. Before you get in their bed, you have to get in their head, so this major piece of COC 14 will deal with that.
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It's been half a year now of 2010 TDD Operations and I have to be happy with a lot of things.
I don't know why I'm typing this, but I guess I'm really inspired by what's been going on with our crew mates lately. I said during the wiki that, this season is "single season," and its truly been like that, but I guess if you're a TDD Guy you can bend the rules to whatever you want it to be.
I found myself in March looking at most of the guys I've plowed the field with for more than a year, and well, they are all in happy, loving, and long term relationships. Even the notorious Nash Casten, is one of them (who remembers his "relationship belly" from last retreat?)
Here's a video that our TDD Apprentice Instructor Rafa made for his girlfriend, who has been uber supportive of us last valentines day. To this day I still show this video to students worldwide to inspire them (Sorry Raf).
Before the peak of the pick up community, my idols have always been guys who were able to find a quality girl that they chose and have the attributes of a 24/7 attractive man to make the relationship successful. Now, 28 years old, I have been through three major relationships that went past a year, and I guess its those experiences that make me push that TDD is way better than ANY Pick Up company - because at the end of the day it's not about the phone number or the kiss or the approach, its about the beautiful and blissful relationships with women that develop after and over time.
Tonight I got another IM from a crew member of ours who again is joining the ranks of the "girlfriend season" within TDD. I told him, "Hey man, wherever you're happy.... If I somehow helped you get there one way or the other... I'm happy."
TDD Isn't a pick up company, and I never envisioned it to be. Matter of fact, one of the reasons I created the system was to make sure the high turn over with people who try to learn pick up tricks could be permanently over with; That somehow there would be a common grasp on reality that would make these men stay on and continue to improve the quality of their lives and find great relationships with women without having to put themselves in the position pick up artists do because we know there's a time limit on that.
The REASON TDD was made, and I'm assuming that's why you're here, is CHOICE. We want to have the choice to know, through experience and know-how, that we are making the right decisions in terms of the relationships we commit to.
Yes, its true that men are made to spread their seed and arguably are polygamous by nature, but with the turn of the new century - busier lives, fewer and smaller social circles, and emotional baggage going both ways, it becomes increasingly tougher for men and women to just settle for "someone" they don't think they deserve.
And as men like yourself are continuing to improve in many areas or dimensions of life, it becomes increasingly difficult for you to just settle for someone that you feel isn't like you, or someone you don't actually enjoy being with.
This is a good reason to commit to become excellent in TDD. Not because getting a phone number or getting laid is a temporary filler for your insecurities or lackings, or that "so and so technique" sounds fun to implement in the daytime or at the bar or club. It's all about improving the overall quality of your life - socially, physically, spiritually, fiscal-wise, and romantically.
I always say, "It's never about the battles in the field, its about the larger picture"
I had just attended a wedding of one of my closest TDD compadres, and I have to say that being there, was emotionally moving.
So, if somehow TDD has helped you find your ONE, then kudos to you and keep the good work up.
PS: It's recruitment and promotions season in TDD, so if you're interested in writing for us, becoming an instructor, or joining the many quality crews around the world, shoot me an email at firstname.lastname@example.org.
It's Troy again coming at you with another content packed article. I'm writing to you from my hotel room in Honolulu Hawaii. I have to say this is one of the most exciting Private Instruction camps out there: Island fun, great weather, and tons of babes day or night. Last night was merely a tune up night and boy did we tear it up.
Here are the basic components of the TDD Success System,
c) Skill sets
Compared to any other dating guru system out there, clearly this is the most "real world" you can get in terms of developing yourself. It's also the most daunting task to get good at the TDD system simply because it doesn't follow the underdog mentality and you will have to face a lot of components you've been ignoring all this time. You're going to have to face reality hard.
Today we're going to talk about a Mindset component in TDD, and it's called Presumptions
How do you know you're not shooting yourself in the foot when you go and approach women? Have the right presumptions.
1) Prejudging people is the number one vibe killer of all
2) Vibe and energy overrules all threads of conversation,
3) TDD Rule of Cool - Whatever you think is cool, is cool
4) Women want men who lead more than any other quality
An easy way to "flow" from conversation to conversation is to quit categorizing people in your mind based on what your referential system tells you. Remember that every situation is different and every person is different. Always engage people with an empty cup. Have the attitude of a hitch hiker travelling cross country - you're in it for the ride.
A Vibe of someone like that, who expects nothing but is open to everything, creates an aura of magnetism which women are attracted to. It allows her to be herself and suggest her dimensions (sides of her personality) to you, while enjoying the interaction. This has always been the problem of airtight PUA routines. It's so suffocating, and in some cases downright rude that it's just a cop out for nervous people who don't have much of a personality.
This is always why I advice people to throw out any game plan in the beginning of the night or interaction. A great goal in the beginning is to just vibe and flow into conversations and groups of people.
When an interaction is a two way street, based on the attitude I just mentioned, both parties actually enjoy contributing to the interaction. This is why vibe overrules logical syntax of communication. She can flow from topic to topic with you simply because she enjoys being around you and the vibe you give off.
BUT, let me put the brakes on real quick. Although the aforementioned presumptions I just mentioned are literally going to make you enjoy interactions flawlessly with people, it STILL isn't enough to get you laid with the woman you want. Here's why.
On a primal note, women are looking for a back bone in men. Sure they would love a great conversation, but there are certain things that "trigger" her sexuality. Trust me; I used to work with a company that fostered conversational tactics on women. None of these guys got laid and got lost in merely "enjoying interactions." This is TDD guys, we work on the sexual side more than anything.
The basic common denominator is that most men that women find sexually attractive talk about what they want to talk about. Most guys who end up in the friends zone cling onto women's conversational threads like walking on a tight rope. You must realize that in order for women to be interested in you, you have to be interested in yourself! You have to literally be your biggest fan.
Look at all the archetypes of guys in society who have bagged lots and lots of great women - they all have one thing in common - they talked a whole lot about what they were interested in, what they believed in, and what they did. On a micro level, this shows her that you've got a back bone, that you're a MAN. In many primal levels It shows her that a guy like yourself can be a good mate, boyfriend, even father... simply because you can make your own damn decisions on your preferences, opinions and beliefs in life. There are no shortcuts there, guys.
This is where the TDD Rule of Cool sets in: Whatever you think is cool, IS COOL. (see wiki and the Retention Method)
Now THIS is COOL
Thing is, there are no specific archetypes of attractive men, really. As long as you think what you're doing is absolutely cool, it draws women in. Ever had somebody refer to you as "cool"? It's because there's something unique and interesting about you, and nine times out of ten it's something you legitimately enjoy that requires zero validation from people. That's how people know you're genuinely passionate about something.
Okay, that's it for now. As always, all our articles on the site and the newsletters are important, so please apply, apply, apply! There's no sense in just writing this stuff down and keeping it in mind. You have to apply that to your character and interactions consistently. I guarantee you that you'll get a HUGE improvement in the way you carry yourself in social situations and with women.