April
2010
Want to Get Over that Final Obstacle to Getting Laid? Read On For the Deal Breaker
Who remembers the '08 TDD Fad - "The Rolling Bar"?
It was created on one of our Private Instruction Camps in Mexico. I remember packing my trunk with Champagne (must have), Vodka, Hypnotiq, maybe some beers (not a big fan of beer), and that deadly Patron.
When pulling girls home and converting dates was an imperative in TDD back in the day, we had to find the easiest logistical way to create an after party, and the Rolling Bar was the insta-party!
Now being a guy who doesn't drink much, those bottles purchased at wholesale went a LONG WAY. We're talking 7-10 girls in 3 weeks, whether from a pull or a date. 99% of the time these girls would agree to come home with us or take us to their apartments.
Why the high rate of conversion?
Here's the MAIN LESSON: Women need an excuse to get laid. Even if you get it to the point where both of you want each other, the "excuse" is the deal breaker. Ask anyone who's pulled a girl home. It really is.
Watch a Video of the SG Boys Xavier, Dan, Val and Jordon do a 5 Chick Mega Pull... Same Story different day:
You can critique all you want about the use of alcohol, but again, alcohol is just another excuse for her to drop the rest of her clothes off. Doesn't matter if it's in your apartment or the trunk of your ride ala rolling bar, it's just another excuse.
I will admit right now that I am a lightweight when it comes to alcohol. A couple of bottles of Smirnoff will get me really red. Patron will get me drunk, and well, a combination of both will turn my lights out.
This is actually when I realized that drinking (amongst other excuses... keep reading below) was just an excuse for her to escalate on me.
Every time I'd admit to being a lightweight, or when I tell girls that I easily get drunk, the MORE they wanted me to drink.
Two minutes later when my head is spinning I feel her hand up my inner thigh under the table. Lesson is, She didn't want to be labeled the aggressor and wanted to blame the aforementioned Patron/Vodka combo on that thing that "somehow just happened."
Nowadays I just act drunk. I really don't need to be guzzling all that alcohol down or I'll forget the bedroom action later on. Try acting drunk, it's a lot of fun guys.
Now let me just tell you it's not just the alcohol, it could be anything; Here's a historical trend over the years:
'03 - '05 was "watch me play guitar",
'06 it was "let's watch the NBA playoffs" at the apartment,
'07 it was "playing cards" in my hotel room,
‘08 it was the infamous rolling bar,
'09 was "check out my laptop" conveniently placed in the bed...
And the list goes on.
Again, first thing you need to think of when it gets to that point is... what excuse would be the easiest for her to say yes to?
So, try any of the aforementioned examples, try our past year traditions or a permutation of it, but this is something you definitely you need to think over if you want to take things sexual and close the damn deal.
Talk Soon, Guys
Troy Dizon
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PS: If you're in Singapore, the Singapore Powerhouse Crew will be doing a FREE LIVE SEMINAR May 22. Email Xavier at xav@troydizondating.com NOW for details before seats run out. Oh, and ask him about his rolling bar, he used to have one too (with a mattress believe it or not).
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