May
2010
Sexualizing the Interaction comes from the CHARACTER, NOT something you do.
A lot of people, ever since the "old school" days, STILL find showing sexual intent the main stumbling block to their success with women. It's been how many years now and I'm hearing the same song.
What a lot of them fail to realize is that sexualizing interactions doesn't come from the act of simply injecting sexual innuendo, changing the tone of your voice, saying the word "sexy" or even doing attempted sexual touching,
Sexualizing the interaction comes from the CHARACTER of the man doing it, not what he DOES. It is his BEING that ignites the sexual mood. More often than none that sexual character doesn't really have to do anything and women just feel that uncontrollable urge to make it sexual with them. Why? Because it's THEM, that's why.
This is why we build so hard on the character - on all our programs we lock in your mindset, deal directly with the issues, and build true confidence so that you become the character that naturally sexualizes things with women.
This is also why I don't promote or teach kino or kino escalation, or escalation ladders, elevators, or ramps or anything like that. This is why I've held back so much on going into finer details of innuendo because I definitely know one MAJOR FACT:
It is absolutely impossible to give any "how to" sexual material to someone who applies it OUT OF CHARACTER and expect results. Imagine the weird guy in Office Space trying to be Barney Stinson.
So, instead of trying to find ways to twist your words or touch women to turn the heat on, why not build on the skyscraper - yourself.
Here are TEN MUST DO GUIDELINES on what to subtract and what to add to make that happen:
5 Things you must absolutely QUIT:
If you have morality issues with sex or anything sexual, quit it.
If you think that you need to be friends with a girl first before getting her to bed, quit thinking that.
If you have a generally feminine, overly laid back archetype, quit it.
If you generally avoid conflicts and don't want to fight for what you believe in, then quit that habit.
If you think every great girl you meet is "the one". Quit it because it'll ignite your girly hormones.
5 Things you absolutely must have or do:
Be the guy who is constantly willing to risk the interaction by suggesting sex or sexual acts.
DO work out and induce some testosterone and killer instinct in you to close.
Have a circle of bro friends who actually go for women.
Be the guy who can look a woman dead in the eye and not flinch or look away.
Be the guy with an edgy, adventurous, and go-getter side to him. No, I don't mean playing Halo. Try MMA, water sports, or even get into sales if you fancy that.
Ultimately, the words will come out naturally, because you've built yourself to naturally do that and you've quit those life habits that are preventing you to simultaneously. It's in YOUR CHARACTER to not only make things sexual, but to exude the sexual vibe that just makes women want to amp it on you.
Become sexual, and they will become sexual to you by default. X = X.
Troy
PS: I want to thank all of you for a powerful June. All Mentorship programs sold out, and while class is in session and we aren't accepting new program students for now, we are going to reopen that window second week of May. If you are interested or have any questions about this no-nonsense and customized program, shoot me an email with the subject, "Mentorship" and I'll get back with you.
PPS: I am accepting one final batch of mailbag questions over the next 2 days before I put them together into one email to send out to you. Again, here's the format:
1. Specific scenario or trend of scenarios that happened to you
2. Specific goal you wanted to attain from said scenario, and
3. The hurdle or obstacle that stopped you on your tracks.
If you're going to ask customer service questions, like how TDD is compared to anything else out there, you can ask them via skype, my username is tdtroy10. Other than that i strongly encourage you to look around first and have a feel for what we represent before doing that.
Yes to the killer instinct! Stop being wet blankets guys and get some goddamn testosterone pumping through your veins.