May
2010
The TDD Success With Women Guide: The Attitude Adjuster Part 1
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Isn't it a wonder how most people root for the underdogs yet they follow the top dogs?
Most people look for the magic pill, the secret formula, the instant success technique that will cover up their lack of self-esteem.
They want to prove otherwise that they can live with their lackings and succeed at the same time. It's the biggest joke of all time and that's why only a few people are winners and majority of people are lost.
You can follow this losing mental habit all your life, but you won't start succeeding with women when you're not even READY to accept the fact that success with women will come into your life starting today.
You have to give yourself permission to succeed with women. THE FIRST STEP TO BEING AWESOME STARTS WITH SELF PERCEPTION
If you don't see yourself as a person who deserves a woman then you've shot yourself in the foot before you go to battle.
Remember that what you "see" with your own two eyes can be a bitch. What you see with your eyes can cause ILLUSIONS that can influence how you act right now.
Most losers out there are easily fooled by what they see with their own two eyes. They are influenced by the tangible things they see - their appearance, the way people react to them and what they lack in life.
They have to wait for "other people" to validate them and seek their approval.
They undervalue themselves and the attributes that make them naturally attractive.
They see successes as "luck" versus something they take complete credit for.
They play safe and stick to where they are most comfortable at.
They do not have the most important winning habit of INVESTING at all.
Because of this, these guys' attitudes are fueled by FEAR versus its direct opposite, FAITH.
Instead of making a change internally, they REACT to what they see NOW, and because of that they never truly get better because all their actions are merely to avoid what is now and NOT to completely change the game in the future.
You may not see it right now, or maybe there aren't many external evidences to back your affirmations up, but remember that everything external is only a direct reflection of what is going on internally.
Here's a Key Fact of Life and a Reoccurring theme when it comes to TDD Mentality:
24/7 ATTRACTIVE MEN BULLSHIT THEMSELVES CONSTANTLY
You heard me right, 24/7 Attractive Men bullshit themselves on a minute-to-minute basis, including yours truly.
You have to see yourself as extraordinary,
EVEN IF your "eyes" tell you otherwise.
EVEN IF other people don't see that in you
EVEN IF you don't get the "favorable" reactions you want from women
Call it dogma, or philosophical bullshit, but it's a self fulfilling prophecy. The more I started seeing myself as extraordinary, I started to set expectations for myself that went BEYOND what I was presently capable of.
Instead of trusting my eyes and what I saw now, I started using my VISION MUSCLES and created an image of where I wanted to be.
I reflected on it, defined it in a SPECIFIC and REALISTIC way, and instead of trusting what my eyes saw now which could possibly derail my success, I trusted my vision muscles instead and acted towards my FUTURE self-perception of myself.
I focused more on my good attributes... that lead to my self-esteem building up.
I started respecting myself for my beliefs and my values... I didn't need others to validate that for me
I started having faith in women, that despite previous failures in the past I knew there were still some great ones out there I should meet...
More importantly I now had the drive and commitment to improve all areas of life to get to where I wanted to be...
The more I saw myself this way the more I projected it...
... and so by virtue of X = X (What you project is what you attract), other people started seeing me this way, especially WOMEN.
Women respected me. They saw my future self in my present self, and so they reacted to that. That is how I gained so many relationships with women when I was young. They just felt that I had a high level of self esteem. This cycle of success happens to this day, on a WORLD LEVEL.
This is 1,000,000 times better than being liked by women. You could be "liked" on a totally platonic and friendly level but the woman will never ever ever ever sleep with you because subconsciously she doesn't respect you and what you represent.
If you're a kiss-ass, agreeable, and no-back bone nice guy, then you have to change this. Have the mentality of "I'd rather stand for what I believe in rather than stay in the comfortable friend's zone and never get the respect, admiration, and sexual attraction from women."
Aim for respect. SELF-RESPECT.
Just remember, what you appreciate APPRECIATES, and that's YOU.
Troy Dizon
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