-- My official Fashion Logo. Bad-ass isn't it?
The girls are digging it over at myspace.
So, I can't stress enough that when it comes to very solid game (i.e. you are expecting some tangible results from the interaction i.e. a relationship or sex) then you have to put particular importance to how you're coming across visually.
90% of people nowadays are visual. With the internet and multimedia age at a boom people are more visually focused on their Television screens, laptop monitors and ads. Most of people's referential system will be based on that.
I'm not saying looks are everything, however communicating certain qualities through your looks counts. Now, you cannot change your face, jaw, height, skin color (maybe surgically) but you can change how your impression is interpreted by women.
For today, I'm not going to go all fashion on you guys, but I will share my basic first impressions tool kit before I go out of my door everyday, meaning its the most basic basic stuff.
SKIN CARE -- I cannot reiterate how far proper skin care can take you a long way. It shows that you are clean, sharp, and kissable. I recommend hydrating with 8-10 glasses of water a day, getting 6-8 hours of sleep, and having a maintenance product. For me, I use Neutrogena's 60-second acne prevention mask. I slap it on there for about 60 seconds, feel the cooling effect, and rinse it off. It leaves my skin soft, clean, and protected from any acne build up. After that i put on Neutrogena for men Moinsturizer (SPF15) to make sure my skin isn't dry, and is protected from the sun's harmful UV rays. I apply this on my face and neck.
If Acne does happen, I found a miracle solution that instantly makes the acne disappear, and it doesn't dry or burn it like the usual acne creams out there. I use Clidamyzin Benza Clyn Topical Gel. It is AMAZING, trust me.
EYES -- I don't know about you guys, but my sleep schedule is usually out of whack, so I make sure I have some Visine Advanced Formula hanging around, as well as some L'oreal Advanced Revita Lift Eye Cream that I apply on my eye bags should they come up. You don't want to look like some super tired guy in front of people, let alone someone who looked like he took a shot of valiums.
TEETH -- I don't have perfect teeth (although I am considering getting invisaline braces next month for my birthday), but for now what i can do is keep them shiny white. I believe the Crest non-alcohol whitening mouthwash is perfect. Its mild, feels good in your mouth, and does create that whitening effect post brushing.
HAIR CARE -- Now, this may heavily vary (as does facial hair stuff), but I have pretty short hair so I use design line whipped wax which is more creamy than solid. But should you grow spikes or what not i do suggest using any of the spiking glue out there. Blow dry stuff out if you want to get the best angles.
BODY MOISTURIZER -- Now, this is also highly overlooked by most guys. You don't want to leave the house looking dry at your neck, elbows, knees and legs, so please use some body lotion.
STANDARD COLOGNE -- Always have your "standard" cologne, and stock it up good. Standard meaning its not just for the night time but for the day as well. My all-time favorite standard cologne is Hugo Boss Men. Its long-lasting and very very noticeable. Some like Aqua Di Gio. Its one of those passive attraction switches that will up your chances more, just like your first impressions in general.
There you have it for now. Before I leave the house I make sure those areas of my looks are taken cared of. I noticed that people did respond better to me versus not taking care of that area as much, and I could pretty much get away with a lot of things because I did project myself as a good looking guy who takes care of himself.
Later boys, keep reading