That’s right My Johnny Wolf.

Look, I don’t know you, but as far as I know you’re the one living in Thailand right now so if you think that our guys have been banging FOB’s (How funny he’s the guy derogatory amongst his OWN Asian race), well why don’t you come down here in TEXAS and prove me wrong. Maybe another idea is we go to Thailand and use our apparent “FOB” skills and we’d probably still kick your ass on the Aces.

I’m going to sidetrack you a bit from another content packed Retention video you were supposed to get today if it wasn’t for these idiots. What a controversial start to my long and crazy week.

Have any of you guys heard of Johnny Wolf, Asian Playboy (psshhh) and ABC’s of Attraction?

I knew for months that we’ve been getting under their skin. I actually wondered when the day would happen that Mr Johnny Wolf or Asian Playboy would actually try to save their mindless followers by start hating on TDD. Well, the day actually came and its perfect because now we’ve got a reason to shit on them.

First of all, I’ve been aware of the exploits of this MM-based company that started in Dallas of all places, ABC’s of Attraction (see Mr Wolf, I have the balls to say the name of your crew in public because none of what you can offer can match anything that we can offer).

So, here’s their MO:

They use racism as leverage to sell their stuff to Asian men who are looking for actual confidence builders and because most did not find an alternative long ago, they took their boot camps and so forth.

It’s already 2010 and these yahoo’s are still talking about MPUA’s and AMOG’s and what not to still sell the PUA Scam. Honestly, Mr. Wolf, you weren’t even on our radar until today.

Now, since my market are NOT PUA’s, we just continued what we were doing, eventually gaining the respect of not just Asian Men in the US, but men all around the globe spanning from the US to Europe, to Asia, Australia and Dubai. We’ve built our own brand, our own family members, and way to teach our stuff. The PUA community to us is like the ghetto (ever seen the movie Brooklyn’s Finest? Kick ass movie), and our job is to get “certain people” out of the ghetto. We do not wish to remain in the ghetto and deal with the crooked people (like Mr. Wolf and Co.)

I’ve said this before and I’ll say it again: We don’t want those guys working with them. Let me repeat, we don’t want their market. If this shit hurts your wallet, Mr. Wolf and company, well that’s not our intention to begin with.

However, doing what we do eventually gets to their guys anyways.

Slowly but surely, my hunch was, the guys on their end were starting to notice. They have been fooling people for YEARS on AMOG Tactics and multiple “Underdog Strategies” supported by Racism studies to explain their lack of confidence

Their people in my opinion started getting wise and are becoming more educated on what alternatives are to this horrid company that’s derogatory even in their OWN race and started probing around.

In comes TDD, and the rest is history.

Look, I’m not even gonna put a boot camp sales pitch like you did on your hate mail, Mr. Wolf. I know my guys and honestly, that was a funny play trying to sell them products after hating on us. What goes around comes around man, and someday you guys are gonna get exposed and outlived.

Troy Dizon.

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2) Seeing the fruits of Retention is a true confidence builder. With the blueprint I will provide you, you can easily come to the conclusion that women ARE attracted to you, and what is it about you that got them hooked. Well, when you know what got them hooked (and what continuously gets them hooked), BOOM. CONFIDENCE IS GOING TO SOAR.

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5) Finally, if you’re sick and tired of doing the pick up stuff and what I said on the Previous Video sounds right to you, follow your gut. Your gut is almost always correct.

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Hey, Troy Dizon here.

What did I say about core values and X = X? Heck, this should be a fine example of mega proportions on how far you can really take it if you make yourself a results based company based on simple, effective human nature concepts. We never were based on hokey pokey hypnosis tactics or elaborate pick up lines that make you look good temporarily and gain you shallow results like the phone number you’ll never get a call back from.

Back in 2007 I made the conscious decision to really attract the right people to me and my company. During the years of 2005-2007, I navigated through the inside confines of the pick up community and met a huge spectrum of guys who were my market at the time. Generally, some of them were:

1. Guys who had their ego crushed in the past and were in desperate need of pimp knowledge to get back on track,
2. Newbies who have never interacted with anyone past their family or social circle,
3. Dedicated guys who were willing to do anything to getting the dating and social aspect of their lives down, and
4. Some kindhearted guys who just wanted a meaningful relationship with a nice girl and settle down.

But on the other token, there were a lot of guys in the community I did NOT like at all. I will not enumerate it in detail, as most of you probably already know what they are, but put it this way, it was a lot of people who used the community as a launch pad for LIES. Not just lying to another person on how so and so WILL WORK, but lying to themselves thinking that they can choose to IGNORE the facts of human nature and expect to be widely successful in their dating lives with a totally UNNATURAL WAY.

After seeing all this over the years, I had chosen not to suck up to the community and really blast my stuff in there like a rocket propelled grenade and shock them with something different. I was intent on picking up the right people by branding what I believed in properly and more importantly living a life that reflected that.

Like any PUA routine that has a beginning and an end, I watched these guys do their thing over the years and eventually grow out of it. There’s some truth in the high turnover of most guys in the pick up community, and my number one reason for that is it never jived with their lifestyle and did not address the CORE ISSUES they needed to face. At the end of all those months of practice they realized “heh, that was a good run… time to move on.” and move on they did. Most of these guys I never heard speak of pick up ever again. Now the real bummer there is that most of them picked up a couple dozen bad habits from doing the pick up stuff. Again, those habits were never answered.

I am THANKFUL that I never put myself through that. Right now, 2010, I can say I’ve outlived all those people who didn’t believe in me when I started. Their marketing with no substance could only take them so far. Moreover, the lack of real, verified results killed most pick up businesses substantially. Oh, and thanks to the recession, the event that made people clutch their wallets and not just spend their hard earned money on hyped up sales pages or or “hearsay,” it opened up a can of problems for my pick up guru counterparts. They might have been financially successful at one time selling these hyped up products, but the market started to catch on and they were forced to produce even more BS to stay afloat. It came to the point where you’d look at their stuff and be like, “you’ve gotta be kidding me, it can’t be THAT complicated!”

By making the decision to stand bold on what I believed in and what I’ve experienced with, the move paid me and the company back double, triple, even quadruple in kind. Yes, in the beginning I must admit I wondered how the heck those guys made gazillions, but after being through all of this, I am glad I never joined the bandwagon. Now more than a handful of years later in the personal improvement industry, I can just imagine the life of MISERY these gurus have to go through.

They have to be constantly building and selling hype to guys, having to deal with their 1,001 ridiculous questions, lying through their teeth in seminars saying their stuff is going to work, and more importantly taking the costume off after the weekend is over and living a life of absolute seclusion (most of these guys don’t even have friends, just bottom feeder disciples who don’t really give a flying fuck about them).

I was DAMN HAPPY.

I had the clients and friends I wanted around me. I created partnerships with the right groups who felt that this was a social responsibility more than just a business. I had my own brothers for instructors who proudly flew our banner straight and took any immediate criticism from the community blokes. These were really great guys who deserved the best for their efforts in improving themselves. Why surround myself with any other people, right?

As you know, TDD is successful today as any huge enterprise. The secret is within its structure and the people that get attracted to it. Hey, we may not be the most internet savvy guys out there (since we live in the real world), but thanks to the internet (or word of mouth), you found us!

Let’s bring the experience back to your first run down with TDD. If you’ve perused the articles or downloaded a couple of podcasts, the first thing you will notice about TDD is “what the heck? Why is he not talking about this or that, or how attraction can be achieved through steps?” and “how are these guys getting that result without giving any reference to so and so method?”

A few hours later after getting intrigued, you listen to TDD podcast #4 you’re starting to realize a recurring theme: “wait a minute, this guy Troy actually HATES the pick up community it seems! Ouch! Off with his head!”

Well, if you survived through those podcasts and are still reading this note, then there IS A DELIBERATE REASON you’re still onto us.

Let me emphasize the true fiber of attraction that brings people to you - its the commonality with who you are with who they are, and the commonality of where you’ve been and where you want to be with where they have been and want to be.

This one simple concept by the way, is SEAMLESS (I guess that’s why Xavier calls it the seamless approach, well I’ll call it the seamless everything). It applies to anything in life. Women, friends, loved ones, business, money - they all wrap around certain people like a damn magnet. And those certain people have their “skyscrapers” down. (our term for a solid sense of character, social awareness, lifestyle and vibe).

This is what will make you amazing in the LONG RUN. Not some hyped up concepts that will die out once you realize they’re not compatible with your life. Now, there’s enough material here on our site and on our forums to prove to you that these are REAL PEOPLE succeeding with our stuff. (Thank you FTC for making a rule on fake testimonials). TDD clients are not customers, they’re family members. Its very, very, very comforting to know that there are a hundred brothers out there going through the same processes you’re going through now. Its also a good thing to know that most of them are excellent, well-regarded members of society and the lessons they learned from TDD have bridged out to all other aspects of their life.

Okay, why am I pouring my heart out on paper for? You probably know these things already. Well, I’d like to announce that for the first time ever, we are going to do an official TDD Seminar partnered with the Singapore Ministry of Defense.

Yeap, you heard that right. The Ministry of Defense.

Let me tell you a quick story of a two year process that lead TDD to this project that came to us.

When we came to Singapore, there were a few image consultants and the underground pick up guys who were the only go to guys if you wanted to learn how to become attractive. As always, I was met with resistance. A TON of resistance. Haters left and right, heck one even wrote a fake rip off report that was never readdressed. I never budged, and continued to bring true client transformations the more I visited. By 2008, Xavier became the head guy in Singapore. By 2009, he was awarded the level of Falcon (top level instructor) during the Lifestyle Retreat and consequently started a wave of propaganda projects to let people know we were the real deal.

There’s a very huge parallel with his story and mine, in the sense that those guys who were opposing him in the earlier months of TDD in Singapore were again, outlived. These guys disappeared into the shadows over time while Xavier, being a TDD figurehead, kept growing and growing and growing. First there was Razor TV, then Her World, then Channel News Asia. He passed through all those with flying colors.

But you know what guys, it wasn’t just the brilliance of the TDD Brand or the marketing or his excellence in the field that got us the project, but he was a living example of a true before and after picture of what happens if you just dedicate yourself into the TDD success system. I still have blackmail photos of this guy back in 2008 that are available upon request. This guy came from being your average clueless person to a true 24/7 Attractive Man. (check http://alife2love.com for his Bio).

It was this life of being an example, that got the Ministry of Defense to ask us to do seminars for them on dating and social interactions. They looked at every other company out there, saw through the razzle dazzle fancy websites of many, and found Xavier and TDD the most knowledgeable, reputable, and results oriented one.

One they would actually spend money on.

March 12, will be the event, FOUNDATIONS OF ATTRACTION by Xavier See.

Immediately upon announcement we currently have 20 slots booked and not too many remain. If you are in the Singapore Army and would like to participate, all you have to do is get an application form via the Intranet (OA) to Ng Xiao Mui (MAC), PSC under send to.

If you would like to inquire through Xavier, you can email him at xav@troydizondating.com

Congratulations to Xavier and the rest of the team for living with excellence.

Troy Dizon

The DREAM TEAM of Winging: Combined Smarts, Macro Plan, 
Image and Swagger. TDD Winging is all about being IN SYNC.

I can name a couple of things to distinguish top gun TDD guys from novices, and that is excellent wingmanship. One TDD guy is good enough, but bring two or three more working under the rules I will mention in this article, and you’ve got a consistent play every time you go out.

The best thing about the TDD infield programs is that a bond is formed with that one weekend that lasts post program: Instructor and student become very good friends. After racking up a couple of years and dozens of alumni back in the day, I started gaining more and more allies cut from the same cloth. Since we hung out a whole lot, it was important to bring to the table a code to live by in the field so we can start operating perfectly in sync. Practicing this over and over lead us to form the elite group called the Falcons, and with the size of TDD increasing dramatically by the day, our rankings system was created and now we have Captains who are just as skilled at winging.

Today I will share that code to you guys. You want to make Captain or Falcon? This is a direct pre-requisite to the test.

You’ve heard it over and over in our podcasts. We, at TDD work over a blueprint we call the Macro plan, but within the borders of interaction level micro skills, we’re largely based on working off of one thing: our Gut Instincts.

This is why pick up artists, and they can keep lying to themselves about their shallow results, will never be able to catch up. It takes instincts to kill any lag time and generate an “in the moment” interaction. Thinking on an interaction level will get you killed. It causes an awkward vibe and timing for any spontaneity to take off, so don’t do it and make your gut your best friend.

So, part of excellent wingmanship comes with Quick Gut Instincts. Probably quicker since there’s two of you out there.

"Uhmmm...you go first...uhh lemme warm up with the guys." 
NO BITCH you're FIRED get out of my face!

How to know if your wingman is not worth winging with: If he has WORSE gut instincts than yourself. Fire the motherfucker and move on. He’s gonna get both of you killed. If his tentativeness affects you, move on and make friends with social people in the venue. You’re better off that way. Tell him he should take a TDD live camp. Other than that, just go solo. Social Inferno tackles all you need if you’re going out solo. (click here for SOCIAL INFERNO while its still available)

If you have any desire to become a true valuable wingman or crew member, here are some pertinent skills to follow. Otherwise you’re just taking up space in your crew. Put these into motion and maybe your local captain or TDD instructor might put you up for a promotion. Don’t follow these rules and you might find yourself weeded out of the group for your lack of skills.

Great Vibe + Fun personality + TDD Dance Seminar Skills - DONE.

I. First to contribute his vibe and energy to the table - here’s what makes a pua wing different from a TDD wing. PUA’s have generally sucky vibes. They have nothing to contribute on a group level and their ebooks usually tell them to isolate first. WRONG. You don’t isolate in the beginning. As a wing, if your main man approached first, it doesn’t matter what you have to say next. Your immediate job is to bring a good vibe and fun to the table. This is also why its important to learn how to dance because its a very good lead in on vibe contribution.

There's nothing wrong with a little bit of fun and games.

Quick Note: Remember that Vibe is generated from eliminating pre-assumptions and pre-judgments, as well as pre-partying and generating the fun vibe moments before even going out.

II. First to foreshadow the Macro Plan - as an excellent compadre you must be aware of what the Macro plan is should things go well this evening. Where are you guys going after? What are y’all doing Sunday? These are questions you ask. Now mind you, these are all loaded questions. The reason why you’re asking that is because you and your wing already have a macro plan, i.e. “Hey we know an after hours spot off of Austin Highway, bring your friends too.” or “Sunday we usually chill around the pool at so-and-so’s house. You girls should come and bring some drinks while you’re at it.” A TDD wing must be sharp enough to have the instinct to do this, otherwise, there will be no leading (and no sexing) involved here.

You take care of me, I take care of you. 
Two Wingmen complimenting each other while one plays Host.

III. First to Be the Host - Sometimes, you and your wing will tackle huge group situations. In these scenarios, it is important for you and your wing to do a very important vibe switch: from Fun to Charismatic. There will be many times when you will have a stalemate - a point in time where the only option is to chill back and make friends with everybody, lets say you’ve already planted the seed with her and the macro plan is acknowledged. As the wing, you must spot these stalemates and not fuck it up by being overly aggressive if seeds are solidly planted. Its your job to be the host, be friendly, and make sure you gain allies within the group. This switches up back and forth with 2 excellent TDD wingmen and is seen a lot in Captain to Falcon upper level tiers.

IV. First to compliment his own wingman - look, the most important person tonight for you will always be your wing. Its your job to make him look good in front of others. This is also a reason why you eliminate losers in your life who do nothing but make you look bad in front of women. If you know your wing, then you know what makes him a great guy for women. I always, always give props to my boys. I always brag to girls on how Rico is the guy when it comes to salsa and bachata (in which he actually hooked up with a chick through that on Stripes’ house party) or on how Ramon (my other wing) is the most down to earth person I know. I know all the good points of my wings and will not hesitate to make girls know that, and vice versa.

"What brings you guys here? Oh a drink? This is just our 
warm up. WE have a BETTER spot we should all go!"

V. First to solidify the newly formed group - An excellent wing knows to look if the girls know where they’re going or not, or if they’re new to the place. Not only will he play host and warm up the vibe, when he sees that the girls or the group are fresh fish, he never fails to solidify the group by mentioning the word WE. Remember that most groups are looking for a game plan because they don’t have one. A good wing takes the chief position and suggests that WE should go to so-and so spot after.

Let me reiterate that this is a VERY IMPORTANT ARTICLE. If you want to up your skill level, whether your solo skills or as a wingman, these are the exact rules we in TDD live by in the field and its also why watching 2 or 3 TDD instructors in the field at one time is such a work of art. The moves are so seamless you just see the results and wonder how the heck they got there. Well, this article shows you why.

By the way, really quick April to May Private Instruction Camps worldwide are now available. Contact us at info@troydizondating.com for logistics and payment plans. We also have a ton of Masterclasses coming up. Lets also not forget the Lifestyle Retreat in less than 20 days and the Manila Masterclass that will showcase the ONLY TIME you’ll see Marinetti, Xavier, Dan, Rafa, Nash and Myself in the field.

Cheers,

Troy Dizon

“The General”

The Next Duo Pack Release for March Will Be Named:

Mastering Your Core Identity

and will consist of Two Top-Selling Retired Champions of Choice Releases:

Champions of Choice #4: The Science Of Knowing Yourself - By Aaron Dan

and

Champions of Choice #10: Dimensions and Identity - By Troy Dizon

Two VERY VERY ESSENTIAL COC’S TO MAKE SURE THAT YOU ARE THE SKYSCRAPER AND THE ROCK IN THE RELATIONSHIP.

Again, being a subscriber of Champions of Choice has its benefits. You are receiving, for only $29.95 a month, an HOUR LONG specific skillset or lifestyle design premium podcast by Troy and the team. We have had subscribers since January of last year. For our loyal subscribers, we RETIRE each COC before the next one comes out.

That means that if you want to get #12: Nash’s Black Book of Bars and Clubs, I’d get it now HERE before its gone in a few days.

The DUO-Pack, on the other hand, is for TDD’ers who missed out on the releases last year. This is your chance to get 2 COC’s that are truly made for each other. Last time, we had Social Inferno, which was a combo of 1 and 8. This month we’re bringing out 4 and 10. We are retiring Social Inferno on March 15, but the combo will still be bundled with the Mentorship Program. Click HERE for More on Social Inferno.

More details soon.

Dean

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I’ve said this before and I’ll say it again…

You can compare all the live programs out there (especially the one we released on our newsletter about some pick up dude in Asia) with the TDD way of doing things. Here comes another event review from the beautiful country of Singapore under Nash’s tutelage.

This April, Nash is headed down to Kuala Lumpur to do another Masterclass after the retreat so if you want this type of real deal result and not become even MORE LOST than you are studying pick up crap, then email us at info@troydizondating.com.

Okay, without further ado, here we go:

Guys,

Joe here. I just recently attended a Masterclass conducted by Nash. So I am just writin a review of it.

A background of myself: I come from a conservative Asian country. My social conditioning was such that a boy should not talk to a girl unless he had a valid reason to or they both were married. Girls were like a taboo to me and the thought of talking to a strange girl sent shivers through my spine. I was very active on the internet and came across one of the dating self help sites in early 2005. I paid for the audio course and e-book and it helped me a lot to overcome my fears and talk to girls. I took some time …like three years to get myself to a level that I had a couple of girlfriends. These were the girls that I knew from my work place. In early 2008, I came across MM. I downloaded Mystery’s videos and a couple of other e-books and thus entered the PUA community.

From 2009..I started sarging in the malls, grocery stores, etc. I did so many approaches. But the max. I could get was a number and a date thereafter. Nothin more. Fed up with the system, I was on the look out for a something that was result oriented. Then I saw Nash’s emails on our local lair and it had links to the TDD website. I researched the website, read the field reports, success stories….and I wanted to try this out. I had some money I was collecting to buy a gift for myself. I heard Nash say on one of the podcasts…that the money u invest in this course is like investing in yourself. So without further delay I signed up for the course.

The Masterclass was held in a different city and I had to fly out there. I had come across the terms like swagger, foreshadowing, vibes, etc. But the info I got in the masterclass blew my mind away. Honestly, there was so much info, that I felt I couldn’t digest it all. I made notes, asked questions…I wanted to learn this stuff. We were explained in detail the foundation concepts like vibes, body language and swagger, leading traits, foreshadowing, x=x concept and a whole lot of other stuff. I had this fear of dance floor in me that was keeping me away from this night spots. I had Nash tell me that…U have only one life…u gotta live it to the fullest. Try everything before u die. On our first night of the class we headed to one of the popular clubs in the city. I was so nervous. But once on the dance floor, Nash gave us some tips…like line of sight, dance moves, etc. We were dancing on the floor just having a good time. I couldn’t believe myself that I was dancing. I didn’t concentrate much on the moves….But I made it a point to just move my body to the rhythm of beats. There were these two middle aged women that were dancing and I liked one particular one who was wearing a black dress. I took her hand and started to dance. As I was nervous, she could sense that in me and she just ejected away. Then Nash came to my side and took me to a corner and told me wht I did wrong. Now I entered back..with the smile and right vibe in me. I again went close to the woman that i liked and pulled her over to dance with me. Two minutes of dancing, she goes up to a raised platform in front of me, takes my head and puts it on her massive boobs and starts rubbing. Her other girlfriend is shocked and pulls her. But my woman doesnt stop. Instead she takes my head and puts it in between her thighs. We have a debrief and head over to get some rest.

Second day, we again have a ton of info on logistics, Micro and Macro plans and talk about things that could be done better on the last night. We head out to the same place again. I was having a good time on the floor. I approached a few girls on the floor. Some danced with me but left. There was this nervousness still in me that they could sense. Almost at the end of the night, I see this woman in her late 30s wearing black glasses standin near the bar. I approach her, smile and look in her eyes and take her hands and lead her to the dance floor. I compliment that she looks pretty in her glasses and after 5 min of dancing, we are making out on the floor…I couldn’t believe what was happening. She has to head out. But she takes my number and leaves and tells me that we should watch a movie together.

First of all, I had done something I had never done before…I was dancing on the dance floor. Secondly, I made out with a woman and had her number and a date setup. All this on the second day of masterclass.

Success story 1

I had this new female colleague of mine that joined the company recently. She too is from an Asian country and is very pretty. All the guys in our company start hitting on her…askin her for her number, date, etc. I could see the frustration on her face everytime a guy went upto her. I interact with her normally without hitting on her. I do the staredowns, fun vibe, core value demo while we were in a group at lunch. I lead her and just tell her to meet me at 7 in the lobby of the hotel. I told her tht I am gonna take her to a place where we could have fun and enjoy. She says yes and smiles. Then we meet up and head out to a walk on the nearby beach. Then I lead her to rollerblade. We have fun. I drop her back at her room and bend over to kiss her. She moves away and tells me that she has a boyfriend. I smile and tell her..that its cool that she has a boyfriend. The next day, I again chat up with her and we setup a date. I tell her tht I am gonna show her somethin interestin. I lead her to my room. She hesitates a bit and I tell her that..its cool and her boyfriend’s not gonna know abt it. She smiles and gets in. Then we watch a movie…i actually downloaded this movie. This girl had mentioned that she likes this movie so much. Then she is surprised and happy at the same time. We sit on our bed and enjoy the movie. This time I bend over and kiss her on the cheek…she is still reluctant and just smiles. I remembered that Nash said “No means slow”. I just back off and we enjoy the movie. Then I head out to get a drink and when I come back, I just sit close to her. Look her in the eye and smile. She just puts her head on my shoulder while we watch the movie. There came a scene where the hero kisses the heroine. I paused the movie, bent over and kissed her on the lips. She immediately kisses me back…but pulls away. We finish the movie and as I lead her out to the door, I kiss her again. This time there was no stopping and she hugs me and kisses me back wild. After we have made out for abt 10 min…I could sense tht she is still shy. I decide not to progress and escort her to her room.

The next day she catches me in the lunch room and tells me that she has a couple of movies on her hard drive and she would like to watch it with me. Game on. We watch movie in my room. Make out several times, I get her naked…turns out that she is so shy. Hence I didn’t go for the lay. Next day I get the news that she is called back to her home town for some urgent work. She is so sad to leave me. Nash also tipped me to make every interaction memorable. So I head out to Carrefour and shop for her fav stuffed toy. I wrap it and surprise her while she was busy packing her stuff. She is so happy and tells me tht its the best thing she ever got. There were tears in her eyes. She pulls me down and we make out so hard. I almost laid her, but she realizes that she has just half an hour to get to airport. I stay cool and drop her at the airport.

I realized where I was a couple of months ago doing useless sarges and now where I was. I knew I was heading in the right direction.

Success story 2 (Woman of Power) I move to a new training facility and we have this HR manager brief us about our course. She is in her late 30s and very attractive. She gets a lot of attention from guys….so much that other girls hate her. After the class, I talk to her abt mundane things like the place, how I am new to it, kinds of food I like, etc. I talk abt my core values abt life, being a vegetarian, honesty, etc. I foreshadow and tell her that we should have dinner together at this famous place. She agrees and we meetup the next day evenin at this place. She talks abt her life, the attention she gets, the stupid proposals tht men make to her, etc. I again talk abt my core values and mix little humor. She tells me she enjoys my company and we have dinner together. I lead her and tell her…we have this new movie in town. We both should watch it together. She agrees readily and tells me that she will book the tickets for me. Next day after work, we meet up at the movie. I again lead her to the place I wanted to have dinner. We watch the movie cuddled up like a couple. We make out during the movie and she is grabbin my hands all through out. I tell her that I still am hungry and we should pickup some instant noodles and eat it at my place. No resistance at all. She buys the noodles for me and we head out to my room. She cooks the noodles for me while I put on the same movie that I had watched with the other girl. 10 min after eating the noodles, we are makin out so hard and wild. The next min she is completely naked and strips me. As Nash had taught me to be prepared with condoms, I had them when I needed them. Condom on, I lay her. We then sleep for the night and when she wakes up in the mornin, she tells me that….she couldn’t believe she had slept with me. But she tells me tht I am wild and she liked it.

Such success within a week of masterclass…..Unimaginable!! But I am the living proof of it guys.

Rockerboyjoe

Originally from Dubai and Singapore Masterclass Alumni

Alright, you heard the man. This is what awaits if you mentally and physically get ready for a TDD live program. Its going to be an emotional rollercoaster but if you trust the damn system, these results can be yours as well.

As for Nash Casten, we have three major events (as well as Private Instruction Camps) to take a note of that will have him coach:

I. Special Masterclass Manila alongside myself (Troy Dizon) and the TDD Team, March 26-27

You can inquire by emailing him at nash@troydizondating.com. There are only limited slots with this Masterclass due to the time and seminar room space.

II. Masterclass Kuala Lumpur April 23-25

Only 4 Seats will be on this Masterclass and pricing will be announced in a few days. Again, email us for a reservation and/or questions

III. Masterclass Singapore July (Date TBA)

We will release a 4-split payment plan for this Masterclass for Early Birds. Again, email us for details.

As for Private Instruction Camps in Manila, inquire directly with Nash at nash@troydizondating.com

AAAAND THE RESULT…..

These succeeding videos were filmed just moments ago at the Private Instruction-slash-Dance Seminar today in San Antonio. Teddie, our Captain Candidate drove from Houston to get some upgrade training from our Dance Seminar Master, Capo, and my man Moses flew from the Bay Area to train with me under a Private Instruction Camp. We’ve had a helluva weekend so far and I can’t wait for you guys to read the reviews and results this weekend!

Just sharin’ the love guys. By the way all these camps are going to be available after the Lifestyle Retreat, so in April we have only 2 Private Instruction Slots and 1 Dance Seminar. On JULY PURE NIGHT RETURNS IN LAS VEGAS! For more info on booking, logistics to San Antonio Tx and/or Vegas, and flexible payment plans, just email us at info@troydizondating.com

STOP BEING THE UNDISPUTED LOST SOUL SARGER OF THE WORLD AND LISTEN IN TO OUR LATEST ROUNDTABLE PODCAST WITH OUR VERBAL SPECIALIST TRAINING (VST) PROGRAM ALUMNUS HSONG, CAPTAIN CANDIDATE TUAN, AND RECENT SINGAPORE MASTERCLASS ALUMNI JORDON.

Here’s on the Docket for This Week’s Podcast

• Core M*****in Values
• Foreshadowing and leading her mind
• Game Plans
• How to Project the Sexual Vibe and Attitude
• Using TDD in different environments
• Being a Man, not a PUA
• Putting Investments into Interactions
• Female Psychology and How Women Are, based on Troy’s experience

ON THIS CONTENT PACKED PODCAST TROY GOES THROUGH WAYS TO PROJECT THE SEXUAL VIBE, SHARES SOME OF HIS PERSONAL CORE VALUES THAT ARE DEAD ACCURATE WHEN IT COMES TO MALE-FEMALE INTERACTIONS, SOME NEW TECH ON FLIRTING, AND GOES THROUGH SOME Q&A WITH ALL THE ALUMNI.

This Product is Unfortunately Off the Market as of 03/04/09. Thanks to all the Club-Invaders-to-be that bought this lifestyle blueprint release. Email me when the first totally untouchable hottie in the club comes after you and uses a pick up line using this material. - Troy

GET YOUR HANDS ON THE INSIDER INFO TONS OF PICK UP GUYS ARE CRACKING THEIR HEADS TO UNDERSTAND

Knowledge is Power.

If you don’t know the environment, then how can you possibly understand how to dominate it and win the incredibly attractive women that play inside?

This is WHY we’ve chosen this month’s Champions of Choice offering to be a Blueprint Product. We want you to be able to have that insider’s knowledge so that you won’t have to be wary of the club or night game ever again. We know some of you are scared, but let us take that away by educating you in the ways of the Jedi (or Falcon).

The biggest misconception is that the night scene is only for guys who can dance, who drink a lot, do drugs, and are good looking enough. While to some degree it may be true, this judgmental angle towards the night scene is what’s stopping you from showing up and taking the girls home. It’s the wrong perceptions and lack of knowledge that forces guys to take an alternative like day game or social circle game. While all those are okay, it would be a loss for you if you continue doing this NOT KNOWING what could have happened if you took a shot at the night scene.

And let’s face it: There are hotter girls at night.

Since this is a special Champions of Choice release, we’re bringing in our renowned Night Scene Kingpin Nash Casten. Nash has been a 3 year TDD instructor and has been with us through all our boot camps and seminars back in the day.

The guy is literally a success story more than anyone else I’ve seen. He came from the old 1.0 of bars and clubs (going out, prowling, approaching, hopefully getting a number or a make out), to getting to the upper echelon of the biggest bars and clubs in his city, further increasing his knowledge and experience of what truly goes on behind the scenes.

WE’RE GOING TO LITERALLY HAND YOU OVER OUR WELL-GUARDED SECRETS AND STRATEGIES.

You’re going to get your hands on the same information we TDD guys use to navigate our way through ANY night environment - may it be a club, bar, social gathering or gala. Heck, you could use this in a wedding reception and get the cute bridesmaids. It’s the reason why the infield portions of our live programs, the Private Instructions, Pure Nights and Masterclasses, are pulled off with such great precision. Get these skills sharp and maybe you’ll get to enjoy the freedom we feel when we walk into a club with a ratio of 13 women to 1 guy.

But before that, it’s ALL ABOUT THE KNOWLEDGE. Here’s the list:

How to Separate Fantasy from Reality: Why women are a lot more dolled up and how to deal with that mentally. Listen to Nash as he talks about the IRONY OF THE CLUB and your perspective towards intimidating women are going to do a 180!

Investing in Relationships in the Club: Nash goes through the different “investment” approaches for different relationships.

How The Law of Averages isn’t the best approach to women in a club (approach x number of girls, talk to x number of girls) and on COC 12, Nash gives a better, battle-tested alternative.

Cracking the Cliques: Nash talks about who to approach first in a social circle. This is a master move we always do to gain friends dramatically at birthdays, bachelorette parties, and closed off cliques.

The Different Intentions and Ulterior Motives of the Characters in the Club and the “Lottery Mentality” of Women.

Not All Guys are Competition: Nash talks about filtering out the orbiters, lower level promoters, and befriending the player.

Tipping: Who to tip exactly. Nash goes over them ONE BY ONE.

Nash goes over the CORRECT WAY TO APPROACH in a club. He goes over the environmental factors (something no one else discusses) and how to use that to make a sure-hit self introduction.

How to Deal with Club Drama, Crazy Girlfriends, and Angst-ridden Overprotective Guy Pals. This is where Nash’s 4 year experience at the top-level night scene environments come into play.

“THIS CHAMPIONS OF CHOICE PLUS SOCIAL INFERNO EQUALS NIGHT SCENE ANNIHILATION!”

Talking in the Club: Nash gives the final verdict and shares with you the things he says that are short, sweet, and effective. His club lays are usually less than 2 hours on an average.

Club Dynamics explained: Why certain people stand out, who the “bandwagon people” are, and how to use the swagger walk and “thinking big” can get your attitude right.

State Regulation and the Bell Curve Strategy: Using the MUSIC as an environmental factor that you can use to time your escalation strategy.

How to get to the top 10% of the club: Doing Recon and targeting key characters by knowing the hierarchy of the club. He also talks about the mentality to go about this. Guess what, it’s NOT the club owner! If you get this hierarchy and how to put these allies to use, its game over! This is the stuff the average clubgoer has NO IDEA ABOUT.

Nash goes on how to befriend the right people to begin with and explains the value for value concept.

What a High Status Guy Means in a club. There are various archetypes and it’s important to know what their motivations are as well so you can take the lead and benefit.

What are the negative effects of being a High Status Guy? Nash shows you how to deal with it quick so you don’t fall into the booby traps most of them fall on.

…and a lot, lot more!

Get ALL THIS GREAT MATERIAL NOW , listen to Nash’s personal adventures (and misadventures), and get on the Troy Dizon Dating REAL SUCCESS BANDWAGON by getting this Champions of Choice Podcast NOW at less than a dollar a month! Only $29.95!

If you missed out on the Early Morning Podcast Recording, you can catch it by DOWNLOADING Below! As always thanks to the attendees!

Watch out for the release of Champions of Choice 12 Monday!

Hey guys, it’s another prime weekend to succeed with women because it’s Valentine’s Day! If you nailed down a great gal using our tips, strategy and techniques, then good for you! We’ve had lots of past clients attribute their current long term relationships to the awareness aspect of TDD. Heck, just today I was told I was the “Joan of Arc of Relationships” whatever that meant! What can I say a lot of people owe me!

If you’re in single mode, well not to worry. There are literally hundreds of women out there wishing for love this weekend. The mood in the air is inescapable. It’s a Friday so you can expect me to walk around using line of sight with nothing less than a Bulls eye on my back shamelessly flirting with girls. We’ll talk about that in Part 2 tomorrow.

Some of you probably have women to go out with this weekend, so on part one of our V-day article, I’m going to give you some very important tips if you want to make your date succeed beyond just a good night kiss and a hug. If you want a girlfriend, you may want to read carefully as well. (Some of these were taken off COC 2: How to Get a Girlfriend, released June 2009)

Let’s start this off with a KEY TDD Belief: Women, like most human beings, are into experiences. Let me add to that: intense, memorable experiences. They could care less if you blow a couple hundred dollars on hard to get theater seats or spend absolutely nothing but end up watching the stars on a cloudless night. What matters to them is the quality and content of the experience. Is it something they can brag to their friends about? Is it something so awesome they’d like to keep it a secret? Is it something they can cherish for days and weeks and months to come? Well, you’re the one who can answer that with the help of these tips:

It’s always good to bring a Valentine’s Day date to a fairy tale or chick flick style dream date. We’re talking great background visuals - like taking her to see the view of the city from a hill top, walking on cobblestone roads alongside the river, taking her to dinner at a hard-to-get-in restaurant where both of you have to dress like you’re going to the Oscar’s weekend, or a U2 concert with amazing stage pyrotechnics and laser lights.

Again, think “experience.” Take her to a place so majestic in visual detail and watch her get swept off her feet because she’s probably seen these numerous times in movies and television shows. Difference is, she’s in it this time and she’ll love you for it. Women want to be dazzled by great background visuals. It easily adds a special charm to a date that your apartment and grandma’s hand me down couch can’t compete with.

Try to eliminate the” middle man” in dates. Avoid any date where you guys sit in front of each other and talk about random surface level stuff. Stop asking girls “out for drinks” or “out for coffee.” If you look at it from a woman’s perspective this is not what women look for and if you think it is then you’re a victim of society’s programming. They want to know who you are first and foremost, so take them to places where you can show your personality - your passions and the things you love dearly - and the connection will accelerate quicker. if you’re into art, take her to an art gallery. If you want her to meet your awesome friends, take her to the usual Saturday hang out spot. If you want her to see your fashion sense, then go to a show or shop together.

I used to play the guitar a lot, so instead of taking some random coffee date which won’t go anywhere I like inviting women to my place to have some Canadian Ice Wine (good stuff I researched out, trust me). The guitar is carefully positioned and highlighted by a halogen lamp and is the first thing her eyes catch on to when she walks in. I’ve had almost a hundred dates start with a romantic serenade of John Mayer’s “Your Body is a Wonderland” over Ice Wine and well, you can imagine what happens next.

Have an Atmosphere of Intimacy somewhere during the date - Being in too many social places during the date won’t bring her true person out because most women have to act a certain way when there are many people. It’s okay to bring her to places where you both can be distracted for a minute but make sure that part of your date involves a moment somewhere more intimate where you can get private, quality time with each other. For me, I have a porch in the back where I can have a nice intimate moment with her over some wine and dimmed lighting. Some people spend it in a park, or in a Jacuzzi in their apartment complex. Some people cook for each other. One of my former instructors always suggested listening to his old Jazz records in his room. All of this stuff works. Just make sure you plug this part into the date if you’re going out this weekend.

One Final Tip is that you document these dates. Tell her you should take some of the table napkins from the place you dined at and that you both autograph them just in case one of you becomes famous. Use your spontaneity and get candid, fun photos and videos during the date. These are great memories and pre-requisites to a relationship should you proceed with this girl you’re taking out. If you don’t document this stuff, it can be forgotten and passed as “just another date.” Again, women love experiences and fond memories, so the more you make the date unique and memorable, the more lingering thoughts she’ll have of you. If you want a future with the chick you’re dating, then follow this and start documenting.

With these tips, you’ll have a successful Valentine’s Day date. Again, it doesn’t have to be extravagant. I’ve put in a few examples on this article already; its time to put these things into motion guys.

The Mentorship Program is BACK. From Feb 16 to March 12, I am allowing less than a handful of Mentorship slots to work with me one on one. The Mentorship Program is our foundational, one on one distance program that has been proven by hundreds of our TDD cadre as hands down the best phone coaching service ever. I took it out of the market last month because we had an overflow of clients on it, but for the next 30 days I am allowing another batch.

With the Mentorship Program, You get 4 One hour progressive calls with me over 4-6 weeks, and all calls are going to be recorded and sent back to you for review. Again, everything is comprehensive, customized, and progressive. Its also the only chance to work with me one on one if you can’t afford to travel to Texas and do the PI’s.

To add to this limited offer, we are bundling our most powerful Social Man 1-2 punch product, the COC Duo Pack, Social Inferno FREE to the Mentorship program clients who pre-order now until March 12. Mentorship Clients will not only enjoy one on one coaching with me but will also get Social Inferno in their hands as well. The Duo Pack is a combination of both COC 1: Social Domination, and COC 8: Innovative Social Circle Seduction.

As always, this won’t be here for so long, so get a Mentorship Program slot with this amazing bonus for as low as $250 per month by CLICKING HERE NOW. I will only allow 5 slots in the next 30 days so get on this offer at a great price.

Okay, that’s it for now, talk soon everyone and have a powerful weekend!

Troy Dizon

troy@troydizondating.com

Twitter: http://twitter.com/troydizondating

Hey, its Troy yet again with another controversial, “hit you like a truth brick” article. No wait, this is actually an activity this time around.

Every now and then when I’m spending my time scouring for knowledge to better develop the TDD system, I usually come across something interesting that’s worth posting on the main site (like other articles I’ve already put out).

A month ago, I came across a popular Sex-Role Inventory Test marketing analysts use to gauge their client’s transgenderfication status (i know, big word). This test does not tell you if you’re “manly” or “girly”, since people are a duality - we have both masculine and feminine attributes. This spot on test will let you know where you’re at in terms of what your personality and beliefs identify more - masculine, feminine, or both. The final figure on the test will also tell you how you fare with the median masculine and feminine role

Alright guys, take a deep breath and answer this while your roommate’s asleep.:

Following are THIRTY personality trait characteristics. Rate yourself on each, using a seven point scale.

1 = never or almost never true

2 - usually not true

3 = sometimes but infrequently true

4 = occasionally true

5 = often true

6 = usually true

7 = always or almost always true

1. Defend my Own Beliefs
2. Affectionate
3. Conscientious
4. Independent
5. Sympathetic
6. Moody
7. Assertive
8. Sensitive to the needs of others
9. Reliable
10. Strong Personality
11. Understanding
12. Jealous
13. Forceful
14. Compassionate
15. Truthful
16. Have Leadership Abilities
17. Eager to soothe hurt feelings
18. Secretive
19. Willing to take Risks
20. Warm
21. Adaptable
22. Dominant
23. Tender
24. Conceited
25. Willing to take a stand
26. Love Children
27. Tactful
28. Aggressive
29. Gentle
30. Conventional

Now, tote up the scores on items 1, 4, 7, 10, 13, 16, 19, 22, 25, and 28 - Divide the total of 10 and you’ll arrive at your raw masculinity score.

tote up the scores on items 2, 5, 8, 11, 14, 17, 20, 23, 26, and 29 - Divide the total of 10 and you’ll arrive at your raw femininity score.

So how are we going to interpret that? Well stay tuned for the next part of this activity tomorrow. There’s more to it than just a score.

Troy Dizon

PS: Starting Feb 16 we’re bringing back TDD’s Flagship Program, The Skype/Mentorship Program. For those who don’t know, thats 4 one hour calls with myself, online or via the phone. All calls are recorded and we’re sending it back to you to keep. The Crazy ass news is We’re going to bundle it in with Social Inferno at a very affordable price for you guys if you’re looking for one on one instruction with us and keep one of our most foundational product yet.

Hey guys, this is urgent.

We’re looking for a room mate for Philip Marinetti during the Lifestyle Retreat on March 21-April 4 Manila, Philippines.You will be staying at a 2 bedroom fully furnished condo unit with amenities and great logistical access to the mega clubs we’ll be doing field work at as well as the nicest outdoor malls in the city. This is a great chance to room with a TDD instructor during the 2 1/2-3 weeks we’ll be out there so if you’re looking for a top of the line learning experience, this is it.

If you’re in Asia or Australia and have the budget to go for the best three weeks of your life, do contact me ASAP at troy@troydizondating.com so I can give you a breakdown of the lodging and training costs with available payment plans. Alumni get a discount as well.

Troy

As I mentioned on the Mastermind Group Email list, Xavier Hide our top tier TDD Instructor in Singapore, and the rest of the Singapore crew will be featured on Channel News Asia this weekend on a documentary entitled, Love, Sex, and Marriage. I announced this last year and we had photos of the filming but this is the final product! So if you’re in Singapore do stay tuned.

Also, Xav created this video for all you guys over in Asia who are looking for a complete evolution. We’re not talking about just communicating to women or using some fancy pick up lines. We’re talking about a holistic change in mindsets, skills to attract women, and lifestyle design. Our TDD crew featured in Singapore have been through those evolutionary changes and I’m proud to say that because of all the hard work and the local leadership of Xavier, Val, and Captain Dan, the results are pooling in. If you haven’t seen some of the testimonial videos here’s one below:

These exceptional Upstarts have been through the Private Instruction and Masterclass camps.

Troy

In anticipation of Nash Casten’s Masterclass in Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia after the Lifestyle Retreat, we’re giving a special treat to all the guys in the APAC region. Nash, who is authoring this month’s Champions of Choice will be doing a free teleseminar over Skype (download http://www.skype.com) for the KL Lair as well as the rest of our fans in the region.

It will be at 9 PM Hong Kong Time (or 8 AM Eastern Standard Time) this Saturday Feb 13, 2010. Nash will be doing an hour talk on all things TDD and the various steps it takes to get to the 24/7 Attractive Man level.

All you have to do, is download skype, get a headset if you want to participate, and add him. His username is Mantheycallpimp. Again, that’s Mantheycallpimp.

Nash has been holding the fort doing our programs in Manila for 3 years now and just got back from the Singapore Masterclass.

Men that have trouble understanding the way to success with men and women in my opinion have blinders on. It doesn’t help either that they’re learning some 100-step method where they apparently need to banter, throw some slick lines, “neg” a chick, and wear a fashion item that makes them stand out (like a huge ass hat). So, its OUR JOB to help take those blinders away and make them see the matrix. Yes, we’ve worked this system for several years and I have to say that when mastered, the TDD system is a virtual LOCK DOWN for success with women. There are no holes, no weirdisms, no uncharacteristic stuff to learn.

Hopefully this power packed article will make you realize where you’re at and motivate you to take the blinders off.

There are three levels of Awareness in TDD:

Awareness of Self

Awareness of the Dynamic between men and women, and

Awareness of Social Dynamics

Keep reading as I will discuss each Awareness Level with GREAT TIPS for you guys to apply them…

I. Awareness of Self

This pertains to the question, “how well do you know yourself?” I was just out with one of my buddies who’s a natural and somewhere in our conversation he says, “learning the system is one thing, but if you don’t know yourself, you’re dead.”

Having a date with yourself is probably one of the most profound, zen ways to knowing things about you. Most of this is experiential. I’ve coached people ever since i was twenty years old, I joined the United States Air Force, I went through and finished Nursing school. I travel all around the world and I train like a wolverine in the gym three times a day. All these life experiences, total to who I am today. All of these, were dates with myself - because I knew that these experiences didn’t involve any other person other than me. If you know who you are based on what you’ve gone through in life, then chances are its going to be a cakewalk for people to relate to you because they’re going through the same thing as well. If your life revolves on picking up women several days a week well then you can understand WHY you have to keep on doing it - there’s no chance ANY girl will call you because they don’t connect with you.

Its also important to be involved in varying levels of social interaction to get this down. I talk to many people in a course of a week - new people, girls i meet outside, my own friends, and family. Having these talks believe it or not is where I practice expressing what I know of myself. I don’t need to go to another club or a bar (unless I feel like using our demi-god like dance game lol) to do this stuff. So, if you’re holed up in a cave somewhere this is a cue to get yourself out of that and get a life.

II. Awareness of the Dynamic Between Men and Women

This is the stuff you learn TDD for, to understand what REALLY goes on between male to female interactions, on both a macro and micro level.

One of my favorite sayings, is “Women want Men, and a MAN is someone who takes responsibility for his actions.” Women aren’t attracted to halfway crooks - indecisive men, men who don’t have a game plan, men who dabble between the friends zone and apparently wanting them. In the end, women get with men because they want a leader with balls.

So, start making decisions and eliminate wishy-washy habits of conversation. Stop being cute like a damn chick flick hero and mean what you say. Quit dreaming that your life is a chick flick and understand that in reality, women want strong leaders in men.

Women also hate pushy guys - these guys are the ones who truly don’t get it. They have a linear way of meeting women and it gets frustrating once that linear process gets derailed - women flaking, women not calling them back, women backing off once they’ve given interest - bottom line it sucks. I would say the majority of men who aren’t educated in the male-female dynamic fall under this category.

So, instead, use the infamous TDD Skyscraper theory which goes back to lesson number one: Know yourself. Tell her exactly what you expect - in yourself, in a girlfriend or a mate, or in life in general. Remember that the best way to be remembered is for women to connect to your core values. If you want to play bait with women and avoid linear failures, you’ll throw these core values out and watch them latch to it instead of jumping their bones going for a push. This is why we have programs like the VST (Verbal Specialist Training) so that we can help you articulate your thoughts and values better instead of you mastering the next flirting routine on some banter deck. Add this to Foreshadowing and you’ve got a powerful one-two punch.

III. Awareness of Social Dynamics

A Bachelorette Party is probably one of the EASIEST groups to vibe with. They come with their party on all the time.

Women and people are attracted to VIBE - we talked about the baseline vibe and how its so important to add to your words. Don’t be a robotic guy and learn how to vibe with people. Vibing starts with yourself and how you feel about yourself. If you’re going out to new territory or new social circles, then make sure you don’t feel sick, tired, glum and uninterested to meet people. You have to be on your A-game mentally and be open to inviting new people and experiences in your life. That openness is what will attract people to you. I can’t even count how many times I’ve had successful interactions everywhere and most of it started with chatting up a bachelorette party.

Dimensions are Important - we discussed this heavily on the very popular Champions of Choice 10 - People are attracted to you by what you project - your image, lifestyle, values, etc. Its how you corner those in to one powerful archetype that should be your mission. This is how you get girls without trying so much - they remember you and are attracted to you via your dimensions. Its only when you have your dimensions down that you can truly say - “yep, she was attracted to me BECAUSE OF ME.”

Alright that’s it for now. I hope you guys take those blinders off. Avatar’s off the cinemas now as far as I know. Its time for some real-world stuff that will make you succeed with women consistently.

Troy Dizon

Founder, Troy Dizon Dating

Time for another TDD Foundational article guys. This time we will tackle one of the most used techniques in the TDD arsenal, L.O.S. or Line of Sight. Let’s start off with the definition:

Line of Sight means basic body positioning when you’re in an enclosed social environment.

It’s a science but once you’ve done it enough and have used it in multiple applications and scenarios it becomes an art you will start appreciating. Its one of the top proficiencies needed to get a higher ranking within the TDD system. It’s one of my favorite tools so if you want to get some specific drills and tech inside this article then read on..

Here’s a PERFECT EXAMPLE of what you’ll be looking at if  you did LOS + Eye Contact in a Social Environment! FTW!

Examples of Enclosed Social Environments are

• Classrooms
• Functions and Indoor Gatherings
• Bars and Clubs
• The Office
• The Gym
• Coffee shops

We practice Line of Sight because we want to avoid one thing, and that’s a BLIND SIDE. An approach coming out of nowhere. Chances are, if you’re doing blind sides, you’re either getting rejected OR you’ll get through the first three minutes, then stall right after (by which you’d have to pull that Mystery Method Routine…yeaaahhhhhhhh riiiiiiggghhht). Remember doing Blind Sides in the day time? Ouch!

A Blind Side is one of the reasons this approach anxiety stuff feels REAL to most guys. They feel anxiety because their gut is telling them that they will either get blown off, or they’ll have to work their way out of an unsmooth approach. Very difficult to emotionally take if you’re doing this over and over and over. It will take its toll on your self esteem trust me. You can’t mindfuck your way out of it either through hypnosis. So, what’s the alternative? Work Smarter not Harder!

I invented Line of Sight with the mission that we, as TDD practitioners, are going to let them SEE US COMING. They’re going to see visual proof in a purely social environment that we look great, our vibe is great, and we’re up for some socializing. How do we do that? POSITIONING THROUGH LINE OF SIGHT.

If they can see first hand what you’re projecting, then there is no doubt that your approach to them will be a lot smoother - they’ve “known you” even before you started talking to them.

Alright here’s a few Line of Sight Drills You may want to use:

Stop Moving Around so Much in an enclosed social environment.

Try positioning yourself where your target groups are, and start getting used to the attention

After a little getting used to, make eye contact and smile to people within Line of Sight.

Say “hi” to people around your Line of Sight. Say something completely obvious right after (”Is that.. a Chocolate Martini?”)

Try pivoting slowly from where you’re positioned facing one side of the room to another

Try turning your head to and away from someone

Try turning your back to someone (position wise)

Try standing 3 feet away from a target group and have a conversation with an adjacent group while your body is facing the target.

If you’re short do this but talk louder

If you’re tall do this but back up into a wall or corner, if not be laid back.

Try catching eye contact while interacting with the adjacent group to the target group.

When reciprocated say “hey, come here” to the girl you just made eye contact on and mix her in the adjacent group.

…and the list goes on.

Alright, that’s it for now. You’ve got a ton of work to do with these drills. Mind you, these are the same drills we use at our Private Instruction and Masterclass Camps so definitely get on it. Master this and you’ll never have to really think hard about approaches or walking up to women ever again. A lot of the accompanying techniques are on Social Inferno as well.

Troy Dizon

Brandon if you’re reading this, I still have the “outtakes videos” of you and me practicing the Swagger Walk and the nonverbals in your hotel room here in San Antonio. The retro feel to it might be of interest to you.

My client, Brandon flew in for a Private Instruction Weekend not too long ago. I’d say this was one of the real fun ones because he came in at 18 years old, and was very open to the huge influx of knowledge and experience he was going to take in over the weekend. Just like any client who comes into our doorstep, I see POTENTIAL. B was a good kid with a good heart, and with the training he was going to undergo during the weekend, it was going to be a process. Oh let’s not forget he was still a virgin at the time as well.

For 2 and a half days we trained extensively - on the Macro stuff - mindsets, awareness, game plans, and the Skill Sets - verbals, nonverbals, conveyance - to the fun flashy stuff - dance game, to lifestyle design on the debrief. Brandon was about to enter college, and I wanted to equip this kid with nothing short of a NUKE BOMB because I believed after meeting him he was DESTINED TO RULE.

…and he did.

Six Months Later, I get an email from him, and this is what he wrote. There have been no edits on this as this is copied exactly from my mailbox:

Hey Troy,

This e-mail might be totally out of nowhere, but now that i feel settled down in college, i just wanted to show you the amazing life you’ve led me to. Sexually, I can  have sex with most any girl i want. I”ve had over 7 one night lays in the months since the P.I.. But ive also realized that sex in a relationship is incredible too!  i had two friends with benefits and im keeping one because she is an amazing girl. So i have this great friends with benefits relationship with this great girl, and tomorrow im going on a date with the hottest girl on campus and partying with her saturday so who knows whats next. Its exciting and crazy. i love it!!! my classes are good too and about ten minutes ago i just got a text from this girl i danced with once. we’re gonna salsa in my room later on in the week (from my perspective guaranteed sex if i want it) too many girls not enough time…. sooo much funnn!!!!!

you like results… my life is an absurd representation of what you can do. i was a virgin before i hung with you. Now im different in so many ways. MY Confidence is off the charts, im more happy, and sexually satisfied and im just plain cooler/smoother. I just say whatever i want to girls and dont worry about it.  I havent gone more than a few days without sex this semester. Just odd to think back to me in a different time where i never would have believed any of this to be possible.

just wish you could see it!!!! its nuts hahah. My sex partner does my laundry and brings me food when im hungry. my orientation group for college had 4 girls and ive had sex with 2 of them. and their friends.

I am a gentleman to all of them and treat them the way id like them to treat me.

also I learned salsa moves and feel like i can really dance now! although i cant touch your shoulder pop.

plus my grades are going well which is the most important thing of them all.

Thank you Troy

Keep in touch with me!

Brandon

I Cannot Stress enough that the TDD LIVE PROGRAMS (such as the Private Instruction Camps, the Seasonal Masterclasses, and the Lifestyle Retreat) are the way to go to achieve total domination in LIFE.

Our Live Programs are the bread and butter of the organization and all our constituents and high level practitioners have all been graduates of any of the previously mentioned programs.

If you’d like to know IMMEDIATE INFO on these, Simply Click on the link HERE and email your desired instructor for camp dates and pricing. We offer monthly payments and will work with you on logistical details for the most exciting weekend of your life. You can also EMAIL ME at troy@troydizondating.com for any questions you may have on our programs.

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